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He don't want kids right now?

2007-10-09 07:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by shariscurlock 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Just wait, he will figure it out soon enough. #

2007-10-09 08:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, if he didn't want kids, the two of you should have thought about taking the precautions so you didn't get pregnant.

Second, you just have to tell him. As an adult (so I would hope) he will have to accept the pregnancy, due to his lack of concern in the birth control department.

Just be prepared for mixed emotions and stay strong. Understand that this may take a lot of effort on your part to keep him active in the pregnancy!

Good Luck!

2007-10-09 14:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Meet him up say that you need to talk to him and just tell him. Usually guys will want to know "what you're going to do about it." Because it's your own body, he can't force you into getting abortion. If you want to keep the baby, he will follow what you want and take up responsibility. Also, if he doesn't want kids right now he should have thought of wearing a condom at the first place. If he didn't want to, you should have initiated it then him and you wouldn't have to be in this position right now.

2007-10-09 14:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by vintage_springs 3 · 0 0

First of all don't tell him on the phone tell him in person to see how he really reacts. Don't be afraid because if he said he loves you then he will be a father. Yall love can overcome this, just go over his house and say this:

Do u love me? (he should say yes) then say I know you weren't ready 4 a kid, but I'm 2 months pregnant. and you all should talk about the next steps.

2007-10-09 14:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by WNBA STAR 1 · 0 0

He doesn't want kids but neither of you thought of using precautions. At this point he needs to be told and a decision needs to be made as to what will be the next step. Depending on his reaction you may be on your own with this one. This may cause him to run for the hills but no matter what the decision is yours to make. You need to be strong and just make to have a discussion with him. The sooner you tell him the better off you'll be. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worse.

2007-10-09 15:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0 0

You mean your bf doesn't want kids & you got preggers anyway?!?! Tell the dude bye bye. I've got a feeling he may bear a little resentment towards you when he's paying his child support. I know it takes two, but Baby you're the one in control of your body. My heart breaks for you. I hope you & the bf aren't kids yourselves. Consult with your pastor or if you have a pregnancy center go there and trust them to help you. Please get support and don't count on the bf. You may be in this alone. I pray you don't end up a welfare Mom.

2007-10-09 15:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by MissnNC 2 · 0 0

You two should be in good moods alone. Simply pull him aside and say. I would try to tell him before you start to show signs of it so it doesn't freak him out. Obviously its scary because you fear the reaction, but by not telling him would most likely spark a negative reaction.

2007-10-09 14:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by D D 1 · 0 0

Tell him the truth and if he is a man he will love you and both of yours baby, if not tell him to get a life and you will find a man that cares for you and your child. There are a lot of good men out there.

2007-10-09 14:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

So he deserves to know. When you both are alone and he is calm, you can tell him that you are late. That would give him an idea. If he becomes outrage and becomes violent then becareful about approaching the idea. Seek and expert for that advice.

2007-10-09 14:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nora S 2 · 0 0

Well speaking from experiience come right out and tell him if he loves you he will help u

2007-10-09 15:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_lily2709@yahoo.com 2 · 0 0

b lik ummm high hunny im 2MONTHES PREGANT!!!!!!! then walk away hell b in total shock for a while and hell prob say"why didnt u tell me earlier" and ull say u were scared to and hell be lik ok now what and yeah it goes from there

2007-10-09 15:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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