we are living in a foreign country. my partner has told me most of this mans story. but says he cannot tell me everything. i have never even met this person. and he says we need to help him, by letting him stay with us for a while...this is really worrying me....he says that i am being unreasonable. what do you think ???
2007-10-09 07:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by sasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't let him stay with you as he obviously has something to hide!
He doesn't trust you to tell you everything, so why should you trust him, to be in your home. I feel if you do now persuade him to tell you everything, it may not be the truth as whatever he tells you there's no way you can really find out if it is the truth or lies!
Be weary of him, he seems dodgy to me!!
2007-10-09 10:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by blackempress2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are being unreasonable at all. In fact, you have every right to be worried when your partner isn't even telling you the full story about this man. I would tell your partner straight out that you don't feel comfortable letting this man into your home when you don't even know the full truth about him. For all you know, this man could be a serial killer or murderer and your partner owes it to you to provide you with this information.
2007-10-09 14:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by oldtimer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being unreasonable at all - he is, especially if he's playing silly games like saying he can't tell you everything. That's really dodgy, and I wouldn't touch his friend with a bargepole. Not only that, you need to rethink your partner - he's hardly your partner if he puts his friend's needs before your needs, and that's what he's doing in this case.
Good luck, make the right decision.
2007-10-09 14:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by RM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are not being unreasonable, if this person will be living in your house you need to know the details, and I think it's unacceptable for your partner to not tell you anything and just expect you to put up with it.
Make your feelings known and if he doesn't like it tell him where to go.
2007-10-09 14:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki1990 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is hiding stuff about him, then what reason do you have for trusting either of them?
I wouldn't do it, personally - I wouldn't even consider it unless I knew the full story. I think your partner is the one being unreasonable.
2007-10-09 14:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is going too far, he's like got this crippling type 2 personality. I have it to. He could be endangering you 2. You are not being unreasonable.
2007-10-09 14:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by TuesdayStar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he tells you the whole story or his friend doesn't stay ther. What if he was a rapist or a murderyou can't put yourself in that kind of risk.
2007-10-09 14:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by <Carol> 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think what he wants you to do is completely legal. get him to tell you everything before you even think of agreeing to let the prisoner live with you
2007-10-09 14:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy Chik 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to know everything before making any agreement on this.
2007-10-09 14:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not unreasonable. Prisons do not reform, they make better criminals. Pack up and leave.
2007-10-09 14:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋