Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

2007-10-05 23:54:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 23:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 17 almost 18 , making a's and b's in school,, dont smoke, drink or do drugs ,his girlfriend who is 17 , they have been dating for over 1 1/2 years ,and she isin't pregnet yet,,ok so I think I am doing well,, concidering that in today's society,,most kids have tried drugs and drinking, and lot of teen pregnecy,, now here lies my question,,,do you think i am wrong for letting them spend the weekends together, they usually go to her house,stay from fri-sun. then he comes home and does the school thing. he is a little mouthy, but other than that a great son,, my mother-in-law says such filthy things,,about his girlfriend,her parents,, but she has always done those things,,as long as i have known her,
to me it sounds like she is jealous that my son isin't here to listen to her petty naggin, (being polite) and one of these days i might snapp.... would I be wrong to tell a 74 yr. old woman , she had her chance to raise her kids and leave me raise mine?

2007-10-05 23:48:31 · 9 answers · asked by mytic0420 3 in Family

1st, he had to maintained a relationship with his ex in order to keep her alive while lying to me. This was when we first met.

Then, there was his business failure and his bankcruptcy. He was suppose to pay for the monthly installment to the bank for an outstanding loan of 150k to secure his dads assets. When asked, he said he's been paying and only last year we found put that he haven't paid a cent. And the outstanding amount now is 780k as interested accumulated over the years. Which i have resolved by selling 2 of his dad properties.

And last year, i was told to packed my bags and leave our hse coz he has loaned from the loan-sharks. My baby was 6 months old. The best part was it was my cheque and ID that he gave to them and i had to stop 60 over cheques. And of course my family members was harrased.

I've sold off 2 cars, used all my savings and even credit cards to help him.No wedding photo let alone banquet.

Unstable income, Uncertain future is our family tagline.

2007-10-05 23:47:56 · 15 answers · asked by funky mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have visitation rights of my 8yr old son but i want to file for joint custody. my case is handled at maywood courthouse 4th district. everytime i go to court the judge never takes anything i say seriously. my ex stands in front of him and tells all these lies and the judge sits there and smiles at her and tells her not to worry. when he turns and looks at me you can see it in his face that he has made his judgement about me. my son is being mentally and physically abused by his step dad. i have brought it up to the judge and he turns to my ex wife and tells her "you know that no child should be hit?" and of course she says "yes i know that" so of course the judge took her word. i am not getting a fair hearing with this judge and i need to know where or how can i file for a new judge? and before anyone says go to dcfs, i have already and it seems like they dont do anything. it hurts me when my son says when he can come live with me and i cant give him answer. please help

2007-10-05 23:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by jose6326 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 23:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by dionas 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 23:37:35 · 8 answers · asked by ¶-ÑØ FÈÅR ÑØ §URRÈÑÐÈR-¶™ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing the same person for almost 9 months and really feel I need some time by myself - a break I guess you could call it. Things are not going well between us and I feel like unless I have some space our relationship is over.

Can distance help a relationship?

2007-10-05 23:36:34 · 12 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm into my girlfriend's feet. I find them so attractive omg...but i have a problem, how do i get her to let me touch and lick her toes and her feet? please help

2007-10-05 23:36:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and the guy in question are friends. We haven't know each other long as we met through starting college. He's in all the same classes as me and we spend all the time at college we have together. We enjoy each others company and he has often said he's glad i'm at college because if I wasn't it wouldn't be as fun. We talk about anything and everything, finish each others sentences and make each other laugh all the time. I want to tell him I like him, but i'm not sure how too or if the age gap will create a problem?

2007-10-05 23:35:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do we not show our enemy we have moral rather than show society will tolerate anything, even gay marriage?

2007-10-05 23:32:08 · 14 answers · asked by Looking ahead 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got proofs from his emails and text messages. i read one of his messages 2 months ago telling a girl that he ll do anything to have her by his side.( i called d girl and she told me my husband has been on her neck, but she refused when she found out he was married. i even talked to her mother!) we stay apart cos of our jobs. he visits biweekly. During his visits, his numerous girlfriends call him, they drop d call if i pick. they send romantic texts too. It makes us quarrel. He always says he is sorry, but he still does not want to break up with these girls for my sake. we have a kid. He is the first man in my life and the only. Cos of my rage for his infidelity, i speak angrily to him and harshly too. Now he says am disrespectful, nagging and overbearing. Am beginning to have regrets. please help

2007-10-05 23:28:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad has a new Girlfriend. He found her on some internet dating site. She is from Thailand and we live in Australia, we are White/Caucasian. She is 23 and my Dad is 45. He only visited her twice in Thailand before he flew her over here to live permanently, she had never visited my Dad here. My Dad's Girlfriend has been living with us for less than a month and her being here has already made me very upset. Ever since she got here Dad has pretty much forgotten that me and my younger sister Caroline exist. He ignores us when we try to talk to him, he doesn't take us fishing, hiking etc on the weekend like he usually does. When he gets home from work he only say hello to his Girlfriend and he ignores us. And whenever i try to talk to him he either tells me he's busy and goes and talks to her or halfway when we are talking she butts in wanting something. I used to have a very good relationship with my Dad and now we might as well not have one at all.

2007-10-05 23:18:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've heard it said that if a guy keeps in contact after there's something physical (kisses, cuddles but not sex) with a girl, it means he's interested in her? Is this true? Lets say you've been friends...long distance and then one time you get together..its a bit more than friends and then, he contacts you afterwards..does this mean he has feelings for you or he just wants the friendship maintained? How do I even find out how he feels..I'm too shy to bring it up and he's such a nice guy, I know he wouldnt want to hurt a girl if he couldnt return the feeling. Thats what has me confused..Help!!

2007-10-05 23:14:44 · 5 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating a wonderful guy for almost 3 months. Everything seemed to be going great, we got along amazingly, spent every weekend together. He had been out of a relationship with his ex for more than 15 months (he was with her for 4 years) and told me he was over her. However the ex has a daughter (not his); who he adores and feels almost as if it is his daughter. I saw no problem in him spending time with the little girl as he had raised her and he loved her. However, two weeks ago, the ex, being "nice" told my boyfriend that since he was now with me, it was best he didn't stay in contact with her (i.e. he wouldn't be able to see the little girl much any more). (I didn't know about this "offer" BTW). So, out of the blue, last week he sat me down and said he didn't think it was working -he was looking for all the good points of his ex in a new relationship and could tell I wasn't right for him. I think it has more to do with losing the little girl. Should I just let him go?

2007-10-05 23:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by M.Y. 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved my wife to the USA 4 months ago and I work out of the country and all we do is fight, she shows no love and no support and very jealous of everything. She reads my e-mail which is fine I have nothing to hide. When I call she is not happy to hear from me, she rarely tells me that she loves me or misses me and cant wait until I come home. I am honest hardworking and faithful and I love her but I cant take this disrespect anymore. I cant remeber the last time I did anything that made her happy. I call everyday send letters, she has everything she could want but something is not right. I just dont feel that she loves me. She has made a comment this is the way that I am take it or leave it. What do I do?

2007-10-05 22:42:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine asked me for to have sex with him because it would "mean the world to him." I do not want to but everytime I turn him down he trys to put me on this guilt trip & basically says i am a bad friend because I wont do this "one thing" for him. He keeps saying that if I were a good friend I would have sex with him because it would mean to alot & make him really happy. All he says is I have no idea how much this would mean to him and that he would do anything for me so I should do anything for him.I really don't feel comfortable with doing anything sexual with him but he wont drop it. In the past he has also tried really low things like saying he is going to killhimself & his last dieing wish is to have sex with me.Thing is he is alot older than I am & I can't help get the feeling that he never had friendship on his mind to begin with. Should I just stay away from this guy?

2007-10-05 22:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but you won't live.

2007-10-05 22:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you tell if he's being honest or not?
are there any signs or anything that i should look out for or whatever?

plz help me

2007-10-05 22:34:08 · 6 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think the best thing to do when a marriage as broke up is to walk away?

2007-10-05 22:31:24 · 10 answers · asked by i love anne 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy who sits 5 rows away from u in english class waits for u outside the classroom and then asks u how the class went and other random stuff and introduces himself to u...btw im talkin bout a college english class

2007-10-05 22:31:04 · 12 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 22:29:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married for nearly a year and we're expecting our first, so I know my hormones are all crazy right now. I'm totally in love with him, but I think I'm too clingy. But lately I've just been realizing that he doesn't really talk to me. By that, I mean that he doesn't share with me all the funny things that happen to him at work, or what happens while he's not with me. I feel like I tell him everything, but he really doesn't share anything with me. I also feel like I depend on him more than he depends on me. For me, he is my best friend and I tell him so often. When he has days off from work, I feel hurt when he has other things to do that he enjoys because I feel he should want to spend that time with me. I don't mean to be so selfish, I just love spending time with him more than anything else. He does spend time with me, but sometimes I feel like I'm just here. Like something he just comes home to. Not something appreciated. Is it typical for men to be so private?

2007-10-05 22:21:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work away from home one week home and one week at work roster. Last night I tried to call my wife and she had her mobile turned off, called her this morning and she said she went out night clubbing with her friends. You think she should have told me if she was going out or let her live her own life. It is not the first time this has happenned

2007-10-05 22:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a girl to a movie on MSN cause we don't see eachother often but we chat on MSN a lot. She took like a minute to reply and said "she won't be able to for a week, but the movie will be premiering for 2 weeks".

Did she just reject me?

2007-10-05 21:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because I want to know that im not the only want not getting any.....

It seems like everyone else is enjoying it, and im not and I have so much to offer.....

2007-10-05 21:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by Pep Lofton 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 21:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 21:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by benzo1524 1 in Singles & Dating

will kissing in lips how nuch current is produce do you think ??

2007-10-05 21:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by shilu 2 in Singles & Dating

hav known tis guy for 18 mths but we started to date abt 3 mths ago. my family total disagree of our relationship.Because he is divorced with 2 kids and does not hav stable yet promising career n income.

Another thing is illiterate and he doesnt speak english.as for myself,i wish to have someone that i can de dependent on.he is good in personality but not financially (i cant be paying for the luxury enjoyment all the times).and nowadays that everything is almost in english,whenever we go out together,it looks like i m taking care of him, explaining and directing him what, why, when..

i am feeling tired sometimes.knowing that the relationship will not go to another level,i want a break-up.but he talks me out everytime.now i am not answering his call for a week.but this morning he called. i told him i am dating with another guy (i lie).he try to drag but i demanded him not to call again. he was silent and end the call without a word.am i doing the right thing?am i too harsh to him?

2007-10-05 21:37:31 · 1 answers · asked by miserable 2 in Singles & Dating