Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

Hey guys i'm at breaking point school started like 30mins ago. i meant to be there today but basically my mom is an alcoholic. she's really ill and she doesn't really seem to care about me. my older brothers 19 and he moved out because mom is too violent and is always telling him to go and buy alchohol for her because he's like 6"3 and so looks over 21. please help. whenevr i say i'm going to school she just tells me that i probably won't see her when i come back. i'm really started to believe she doesn't care about me as she would stop drinking right. i don't want to give up on her but i'm really starting to dislike her. she's telling me she's going to die soon and she doesn't mind, she just keeps talking about how she's going to heaven, and that its better and that she has nothing ot lose. i don't have any family i can talk except like one aunty but she lives in new jersey and i live all the way in houston, tx, plus there life is great and all their kids are perfect.

2007-10-05 02:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love a boy who is a doctor, i am too a doctor and also ambitious, he also loves me a lot but he hates my love for career as he feel neglected and he hates my family as they insulted him once. if i marry him he will love me for sure but keep me as an housewife and will make my contact with my family members as minimum as possible because he thinks these two things might bring disturbance in our married life. should i go ahead and marry him but i love my parents, i am scared. can he change and accept them and my career as well?

2007-10-05 02:18:50 · 23 answers · asked by tara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand that some women need to work and some women want to work and that's fine. I don't judge anyone based on their career choices.

I DO get judged, though, for staying home with my kids. There are a lot of working moms who look down their noses at us stay at home moms because we "should be out earning more money so our children can have more."

My husband and I made sacrifices. WE gave up some things that WE enjoy so that we could afford for me to stay home with our children because it is important to us that they have a parent at home. We don't share the same family values as other families, and we get that..

But why can't others get it, too?

2007-10-05 02:14:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I work offshore for 14 days and I'm off 14 days. While out here my wife never answers the phone so I can speak to my daughter 7 and my son 2 who I dearly love. During divoce why is she using them as a tool to hurt me? I don't want to talk to her, but my kids... It sucks.

2007-10-05 02:13:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 fun nice and good looking but i cant keep a girl friend.
i hadeTesticular torsion it happen spontaneously and for no apparent reason one morning and i lost both testicals .they got twisted somehow, anyway when girl's im dating find out i cant have sex with them they loose all interest in me and leave me.lots of them say they just rather be single but then i see them dating some other guy.what should i do?most people say i should get good with my tongue lol.i'm worried i will always be loney.

give me some advice

2007-10-05 02:11:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 02:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should we wait till after the divorce and file separately? or will it make much difference if we joint now and get divorced later? we are going to remain friends so that is not an issue about whether we want to deal with each other. we just wanna know which will be the most beneficial way for both of us in the long run. thanks

2007-10-05 02:08:04 · 6 answers · asked by honestjoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and my mom always argued all the time. Ok, sometimes it is my sister's fault that she said she is going to do the dishes but she didn't so my mom yelled at her. Sometimes, my mom yelled at her for doing nothing wrong. I just got a headache from this. Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-05 02:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel that todays society is just a vail that's been lifted. Nothing is behind closed doors, everything is out in the open. Were REALLY seeing our selves for what really, trulely are. I don't think that we've really changed at all, were just different. If anything, were just more expendable. Now in saying that, do you feel that modren culture is proof that the ideal of LOVE is really a shame? with what you see today and what you heard about the past. Is it kind of more proof now that love isn't real as much as we think? Is it a lie?

2007-10-05 01:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

DO YOU BELIEVE?

2007-10-05 01:55:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Put it this way wearing glasses ruins my confidence so do my fangs you can notice them a bit and so do my spots Im in sixth form and have only ever been out with three boys but fancied quite a few well my problem is ive got a crush on this boy he doesn’t go to my school he is sixteen like me and the only time I see him is on a Monday and Thursday night for two hours at a place called army cadets we haven’t spoke much has only asked me to put a can in a bin so I did and he didn’t believe me so he checked and I said do you always look in the bin and laughed so did my mate. Then in the register last night he took the Mick out of my last night. And he also made some funny impressions of horse riding cause I told him whilst doing my presentation that I horse ride. He also thought I was only thirteen that’s sort of the problem to. I don’t know how to I can talk to him on his own because he never is on his own and what would I say to him to ask him out Im shy and I don’t know if he has a gf

2007-10-05 01:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by christina h 2 in Singles & Dating

be a huge drama and intimidate you and basically tell you that you aren't efficient enough and decide to pick on something around the house and put you down if you aren't keeping house properly?
Do most women have to put up with it or is it just me?
Do men like to intimidate women?
and try to start arguments just when everything is really relaxed.

2007-10-05 01:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of this:
Husband I have been arguing. I am in school FT this semester and can't cater to all his needs. I do everything for him.We fight wednesday night and thursday morning.
So Thursday morning he wakes up daughter and gives her a list of 5 things to do.
1.Make a pile of clothes you can't wear
2.pile of school clothes
3.pile of play clothes
4.pile underwear/socks
5.line of all shoes by TV
6. put all trash in a bag in hallway
7. ball uniform setting by itself
All of her stuff was either in drawers or on hangers. She had to take them off of the hangers and out of he drawers.

Then he woke her a gain this morning with another list
1.get all shoes from downstairs
2.put clothes don't wear in a trashbag
3.pick 10 sets of underwear to keep
4.pick 10 pairs of socks to keep
5.ten outfits to keep
6. pull ball stuff aside
7 pick 5 pairs of shoes to keep
8. all the rest put on bed
9. towels and dirty clothes in clothes hamper
10. keep 2 pajama's

2007-10-05 01:43:30 · 13 answers · asked by momof2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 01:32:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were very close and I always bailed her out. Her dad is a drunk and she always uses her dad as an excuse and play victim, she used me for transportation, money and she dumped all her emotional problems on me and always making me feel underserving cos I'm from a better family background. I was attracted to this guy but she secretly was sleeping with him and yet in a twisted way she even encouraged me to be with him like making it into a sick soap opera, I was really hurt when I found out after she left. She lied to my face and I even paid for her abortion which she lied again with all her sob stories. Then she left to work in another city after getting a loan from me, I really feel stupid cos she promised to pay back but then got angry when I asked her for the money. I still feel like a fool whenever I was reminded of what she did. Now she is saying that she has changed and making it sound like I am the BAD one! I really hate her and I want her to pay for she did! Any suggestions??

2007-10-05 01:29:02 · 8 answers · asked by Teddy G 1 in Family

my mum has been havng phone calls and texts off this person and i don't know how to talk to her about it as it could ruin my parents realtionship, and we don't have a good mother daughter relationship as it is. its killing me inside, is it wrong if i see a counsiller?

2007-10-05 01:27:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A friend of mine has been dating someone for a long time and it was moving towards marriage potential. It came to light that years ago they had participated in the making of a handful of porn movies. The have absolutely nothing to do with that industry today whatsoever. Would you still marry the person regardless of their past? Why or why not?

2007-10-05 01:23:24 · 23 answers · asked by Martin R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

which one do you prefer a girl who is forward, or old fashioned?

2007-10-05 01:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by Stargazer001 1 in Singles & Dating

what can I do to get even with this tramp?? She has two kids with my man (which thats not why I hate her) but she keeps slicing my tires, trying to make false police reports against me, wont let my fiance see his kids by her b/c she is jealous of me. I haev two kids with him too adn mine were here first. I dont understand where she gets off trying to come at me crazy. Calling the police wont do-there are no witnesses to any of this so I need another idea that is more effective.

2007-10-05 01:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 01:03:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They want it all, and they want it now, and when they get it they get bored.

Just my experience.

2007-10-05 00:58:42 · 7 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Singles & Dating

do u think u should trust someone [especially with ur love life]who jealouses u alot and exaggerate [and veiw things differently from u] even though they claim to be ur best pal??

2007-10-05 00:55:02 · 3 answers · asked by Dangerously Gorgeous 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 00:54:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like a girl at work and im not sure if shes interested...but yesterday i gave her a compliment...we chatted for like 5 minutes in her office and after that i walked away and called her and told her i just called her to tell her she looks real beautiful today and she started giggling and told me like noooo i look awful today and i told her no for real u look real pretty today...its that a good sign or not??

2007-10-05 00:53:16 · 6 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family

so yesterday i was walking down the hall when a friend from church comes out of class with a red face and tears rolling down her face. her "friends" are in a tight circle by the lockers and they expected her to come to them but she came straight to me. she wrapped her arms around me and just cried and i found out it was because she was failing a class and athletic elidgiblity went out the next day. I talked to her and calmed her down and she said you are a true blue friend. she hugged me and walked away. What does this mean? HELP!

2007-10-05 00:47:00 · 4 answers · asked by panda 2 in Friends

I am very interested in finding out people's opinion. I am interested to know can a man have sex with you and not have any feelings towards you at all. I think one time maybe but if it continous?

2007-10-05 00:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Irina 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy he kinda like to look at me and when he did either i was not looking at him but when i did an eye contact with him his eyes was too deep
what does he wantfrom me?any details?

2007-10-05 00:24:59 · 6 answers · asked by ~electra~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we been married almost 3 yrs. now, been separated for 3 months and we when out to dinner. while out, she get a call on her cell, its her dad.after 3 and some years. not once she gave the phone I can speak with him. I questioned her on her dad being dead, she said she never said that. she knew where he lived and so, we traveled to the same area where we were raise last year. now he appear in thin air. checked on her background, found out her mom she been calling is her aunt, lied about first marriage, she claimed that her ex husband won't claim her first son, found blood work papers claimed he is not. she claimed that someother woman took her place. found out the blood work match her oldest son and her. now her other son know the true. she claimed she had a trouble life now. that is why she lied, lies after lies coming into the light. seem i been hit with a mack truck.

2007-10-05 00:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by thruway 42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wat my husband will do at first wedding night with me. give some tips how do go with him at that time. and wat to do
should i d the same he does with me or just sleep relax and just let him do wat he wants

2007-10-05 00:07:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

First of all, let me go ahead and say this girl isn't gay or anything like that. She told me she really loves this boy that she knows. Ok, when me and her stopped talking(for no reason) she would always stare at me. She didn't do that when we were talking, but she did when we weren't. She'd stare at me as long as she could, then I'd catch her, and she'd either blush and look away or bite her lip. Then we started talking again, and she ignored me for a few weeks, but now she gets to where she's starting to look at me again. She'd be too scared to look at me when we started talking again in person, because we only talked on messenger. One time she said hey, and looked at me for a sec, then smiled and blushed and looked down. We were taking pictures, and I noticed she kept looking up at me even though she was a few rows below me.

2007-10-05 00:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends