Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

I've been offered a highly desirable position that will require relocation to planet Zargon 12, of the Nebullous Galaxy, sector 7-G. I have always wanted to be Head Weiner on the Centrifugal Hot Dog Operations Vessel in that galaxy and this opportunity may not present itself again!! BTW, I am a self-deprecating, emo kid who constantly wonders "Does he really like me?" and "What does this mean?", so my inquisitive nature stands to be a great asset. Plus, since I obsessively wonder "Am I pretty enough?" or "Why do my roommates do this?", I know I am mature and can handle the rigors of a 50% gravitational pull. Add to that, I have no concept of love since I ask the same questions already asked a BILLION times, thinking I am the only one going through this experience. But seeing as how I have only seen them across the room, on Myspace or met them once, I SHOULD realize I actually have no concept of true love. So my question is:

If I answer that Nigerian email,will I get the millions?

2007-10-05 03:52:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i were each others firsts, we are in college, and the only position that works is girl on top, i'm not complaining but it is starting to get old, he just can't really seem to get it in in any other positions or if we try them then we don't experience as much pleasure, i'm kind of at a loss. i know that others guys are capable of doing different things that works, so if you have any ideas, let me know. its not like we aren't flexible, please help

2007-10-05 03:51:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 5 year old son is playmates with my neighbors 5 year old boy . They live 2 doors down.
Many times over the past few years I've heard that my neighbor gossips about me alot and basically can't stand me even though she is wonderful to my face, asks my advice, brings down homemade treats for our family, and tells me what a good friend I am.
Come to find out she has done and said some very mean, untrue and hurtful things about me.
I need to add that I am a great place in my life and she tells me how she wishes she could be in my shoes.
I have tried so hard for the sake of our sweet little boys and for the sake of being neighbors.
I know I could have her boy down to my house but if she is making up lies and she really can't stand me...well I am just terrified that she would say something happened at my home that didn't!
How do I tell my boy he can't play with his friend anymore?
I need to be honest with out saying too much and what the heck do I sat to her? Do I confront

2007-10-05 03:51:17 · 5 answers · asked by Tina Marie 2 in Friends

2007-10-05 03:49:45 · 26 answers · asked by mary 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 1 1/2 years. I used to think my husband was just like me, sweet and kind and respectful for the person he chose to spend the rest of his life with. Over the couse of our 3 year relationship he has, come home with a hickey from his bachelor party, lied too many times to mention about looking at dirty movies and magazines and hid them, battled agressive drinking behavior and most recently I saw on here where he has responded to questions from other girls in a very sexual and flirty way that killed me inside when I read it. I confronted him on this and he said it was no big deal to him. That this site is like a game and that him and a co worker thought it was funny and he was trying to earn points and was sorry. On the other hand,some of his posts go on and on about me and our son being the best things in his life. I see in his eyes that he really doesn't think this was harmful in any way, but to me it is just another nail in the coffin. Am I over reacting?

2007-10-05 03:48:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

jus wonna know

2007-10-05 03:48:02 · 14 answers · asked by yet 1 in Singles & Dating

in march i lost my virginity, and it was a one night stand. i didnt see him to may. at Riverfest. i really dont know how to deal with this. we talked about it, but i was so MAD at him for doin that to me i just RUBBED it in his FACE. well i would really like your HELP. thanx

2007-10-05 03:47:04 · 14 answers · asked by A s H l E y ((= 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 03:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this is an lesbian relationship. and the baby father doesnt contribute to shyt....

2007-10-05 03:42:07 · 21 answers · asked by Lady Di 1 in Family

We should expect people for whom they are...who they were is not irrelevent anymore. Love is ment to be a scarifise and i keep getting answers from people that he doesn't love me anymore or he doesn't want me etc because i want to change him. All i wanted him to do was be honest. Is that asking to much in a marriage??
Asking him to leave is because i except he can't change and he doesn't love me. Why he is here is beyond me that my head hurts to sit and think why?
why can't men just go when he doesn't want to fix things. Why cause pain? Counceling is out of the question because he is always tooo busy. Lifes Sucks!! Well mine has been nothing but SUCKS!!

2007-10-05 03:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by feline l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really would like my wife to find someone else and leave me. I am not in love with her and not attracted to her anymore. Problem is when ever I try to bring up any relationship subjects she has an emotional melt down. I would like to find a way where she would leave me, her having the idea and not causing me grief, and her to go off on her merry way, with someone else or something

2007-10-05 03:40:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is a recovering alcoholic.WAS physically abusive. Been alcohol free,now, for 3 yrs. Stopped the physical, NOW, it's constant belittling,& disrespect.No loving on me, sex, ONLY when HE wants it. ONLY thing he does outside of work is occasionally take out trash. Also curses me in front of people, rolls his eyes @ everything I say. So not even his kids respect me.I love them all dearly. Just tired of hangin my head in shame due to my "stupidity." PLEASE don't give me B.S. answers. This is very serious, & hurts. Thank-you guys !

2007-10-05 03:39:35 · 21 answers · asked by mamawdave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My father, grand father, uncle and aunt, are all alcoholics. DO you think it's likely it will be passed onto me or my brother?

2007-10-05 03:39:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend was in Germany in the Army years ago. Met his now wife and brought her home to the states. They got married in Sayre Oklahoma. THey later moved back to germany where she has citizenship and lived there for many years. She had an affair on him,got pregnant, and he took a job in Iraq. While working in Iraq for two years he claimed residency back home in Oklahoma. She filed in Germnay for legal seperation and they have been seperated for a year now. The father of the child has been living with her in my friends and her home for the whole two years he has been in Iraq. She put his name on the birth certificate everyone knowing the baby ins't his. He has now moved back to the states and has been residing in Texas since August. NO divorce petition has been filed. CAn he file in The US to divorce her? Does it have to be in Germany? Will the US recognize the divorce in Germany when they were married in the States? Does Germany recognize their US marriage? Help..advice!!!!

2007-10-05 03:38:43 · 5 answers · asked by misstic_fire 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle is a MAJOR alcoholic, he would bang back countless bottles of hard liquor. He spent the majority of his life in the hospital, from everything to alcohol poisoning to suicide, to many other things i don't know about. I do not know this man, and have never met him. He's homosexual, and has had a very difficult life. Even though he has pushed people away that cared about him, and was a stupid man for the most part. But for some reason, i have a sense of sorrow for him. He is now brain dead and in the hospital dying, from excessive amounts of alcohol. Is this weird? Or bad or good? Im 14 and he's about 50..

2007-10-05 03:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband has been deployed for 15 months and is due to come home in three weeks.. yesterday he calls and tells me im not the same girl he married and he wants a divorce... so will give him the fact that ive become more indepentdent (but who wouldnt taking care of three kids alone for the last 15 months) but really can u decide if a person is the same over the phone?

2007-10-05 03:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by realbtch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my husband when I was 16, he was 21. We immediatly started dating. A month into our relationship, I saw what kind of a jerk he was. But he manipulated me into thinking I needed him. He told me he hated unfaithful people and even told me he drempt of killing me. I have always known what a violent guy he was. He has in the past, hit me numerous times. But since we have been married, he hasn't. The thing is, I don't love him. I am now 23 and I realize what a HUGE mistake I have made. In our relationship, I have found myself thinking about other guys very often. But I'm not that kind of person. I want a relationship, but not with him. We are like night and day. He hates animals, nature walks, everything I love. I have to pretend to everyone (for him) that I completely agree. He has made me hate myself and I have tried for SO long to avoid this. Now I have met some guy from work, and he makes my heart flutter. i never felt that with my husband. I'm scared he will hurt me/family.HELP

2007-10-05 03:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by PleaseHelp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this acceptable? I haven't seen anyone semi-steady in years, and should I just ask a girl im friends with to clear her calendar?

Im a 27 year old male btw. I dabble alot in the online dating thing, because I don't like bars.

Im not desperate, it's just I feel im better than that, like more deserving.

If I go alone, is that a sign women really don't like or get me?

2007-10-05 03:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by Pep Lofton 1 in Weddings

I have not had a roommate for 5 years (I am 29), but moved in with a friend 2 months ago to save money. Last night I came home from a late night at work (9:00 p.m.) and he and some girl I have never seen were in the living room, lights were off, cuddled up on the coach, watching a movie, and drinking.
When I came in he didnt say one word to me, didnt say to come join them, etc. So, I really had NO CHOICE but to go to my room, as the lights were off, and they were watching a movie. I was annoyed as I thought it would have been nice of him to at least call me or send me a text message and tell me he would be using the living room, watching a movie with this girl. At least I would have prepared for it or made other plans last night. Bcs. I had no choice but to go to my room close the door basically go to bed. As we SHARE the common areas, I thought this would have been the classy thing to do and that he was rude. Am I wrong? Please let me know.

2007-10-05 03:33:35 · 22 answers · asked by mano 1 in Friends

but somestimes I can tell what my man is thinking. I can look into his eyes and just know. I'll say I love making love to you and he'll say I was just thinking the same of you. and no, I'm not a witch or anything like that. I just wonder if this has happened to anyone else.

2007-10-05 03:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is deployed and asked one of his close "friends" to look after me while he was gone (cant drive, no friends) at one point his friend texted me that he would want to have my company as fas as physically and wants me to be close to him, i told my husband about it and when he was here on leave the friend came unannounced by to see me (because i never replied again or answered his call) and my husband shook his hand and chatted with him like nothing ever happened. at another point a friend of him ask me in front of hubby why i picked such a loser for a guy and what i want with him and checked me out in front of hubby. he never said a thing to neither one of the guys, just ignored it, i am really offended and feel any guy can hit on me and he doesnt care.

2007-10-05 03:26:19 · 33 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my wife is the most gorgeous, sweet, caring, generous, refined woman ever. I could blubber all day, quite frankly and keenly do given half a chance.

What about your hubby/wife/partner/
man/woman/significant other (can be non-human if you want)?

2007-10-05 03:21:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...indicating that he will propose soon?

2007-10-05 03:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by Maeve 4 in Marriage & Divorce

the one

2007-10-05 03:17:57 · 23 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Weddings

when you think of you family what the frist thing,
that comes to mind.

mine is there all f*** nuts

2007-10-05 03:14:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the service and engaged to be married when I get back from Iraq. The she just got divorced how long is the wait to get remarried in texas

2007-10-05 03:12:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He keeps telling everyone that this one girl is fine then today I said can you need to show me some love.. he don't even say I am pretty anymore..It hurts..I don't want to leave him I love him and have his kids..I don't know what to do..I was just looking for advice..

2007-10-05 03:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by ShyGrl216 2 in Singles & Dating

Is my daughter entitled to give my grandaughter her surname?On the birth certificate there is the fathers name but he is not the biological parent.She has just got back dna test results naming the blood father but they are not together &have not been married.Is she entitled to put my grandaughter under her surname?Also does the biological father have any right to put his name on the birth certificate?Her present partner was at the birth,and has brought my grandaughter up as his own even though he knew he may not have been the father.Now after having back the dna results the other party is demanding her name to be changed to his.Please could somebody help answer this for us.Many thanks.

2007-10-05 03:10:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really care about this male friend of mine. Doubt his feelings are as strong but it makes it awkward to talk to him about this. I have a feeling that another male friend of ours has made claims about being with me and it might explain why last year my friendship with the first guy all but ended. Anyway, should I go to him and tell him that if he heard these rumours they are not true? i want to put things right and clear my name if it has been taken, set the record straight etc.or is this a big mistake? can you all help me? You have been brilliant in the past.i am just afraid i am stepping into dangerous territory

2007-10-05 03:08:48 · 5 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Please describe it.

2007-10-05 03:06:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating