Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

2007-10-02 23:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's be realistic. No one has to be too bad at anything. If you had a choice to pick, would you pick a woman who is beautiful with a good personality or one who is average looking, clever and funny?

2007-10-02 23:55:00 · 12 answers · asked by Sandy B. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The fun, flirty & open girl/guy? or the quiet, mysterious, hard-to get-at girl/guy?

2007-10-02 23:40:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering...why, are they astronauts that need space..ehehe

2007-10-02 23:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by kissertoni 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i have a friend who for some reason is intent on causing trouble all the time between everybody in our group of friends. She has recently tried to split my boyfriend and i up by making up malicious rumours that he fancies another of our friends and she fancies him also. This is really not true- she then tried to blame another friend for it by saying it was her who spread these rumours. Unfortunatly for her my partner and mum heard it all when she told me!! she is now trying to make out that i dreamed it all up and im trying to gossip to cause trouble for her- i live with my boyf and just had a baby boy 2 weeks ago so this is upsetting us a great deal. I need advice on how to handle the situation and how i can make everyone see that it is her and not me causing trouble. This is not the first time she has done things like this- she is always like it but it is the first time she has done it to me.

She is also always making little nasty comments to all of us to hurt our feelings

2007-10-02 23:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by allielea 2 in Friends

Ok, I have a new friend we only met several weeks ago and I really like him, but he told me that he sleeps with his son mom whenever he needs some. He said that he don't like sleeping around and he's used to her but they broke up in jan and he don't want to get back with her,but I want to understand why he told me that!! Any thoughts??

2007-10-02 23:26:38 · 11 answers · asked by sweet p 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help on telling him how to like me. Should I say "I'm falling for you" or something like that, plaese help.

here are text messages he sent me for me to wake up to.
Dear Princess Jenny, from now until after practice i'm going to miss you soo much. I decided when I must run that deadfrul hill, I will pretend the girl by the name of Jen wh is you will be at the top and I have to get up there to you. Jen... I have a problem, I keep thinking about you. It's a good problem, and I love it but ily more. I forgot to mention, if I can't miss you more I def. love you more. When I leave my voicemail, my little brother will say hi too. I hope you bel. me when I tell you that you are the brighest star under sunlight, expect 1 more heartpouring text in mid. of the night. I said i'd send one more, here it is. I wish I didn't have football because im going to miss you.


the end.
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i asked "what would you do if i told you i liked u" he said "'i would say.. uhm. okay"

2007-10-02 23:23:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 23:16:45 · 16 answers · asked by audreylai 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that sex is fun and it also sells, but what the hell is the big damn deal? Most of the time, women can't even have an orgasm from a man during normal intercourse. Oral sex is an easier way to have one, in my opinion anyway. All that thrusting and sweating and headboard banging and for what, no pay off?

I like sex, but why do people make it seem like it's just the best and most important thing in the world, when it's not even all that fun all the time? This is only my opinion.

2007-10-02 23:03:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All answers appreciated.

2007-10-02 23:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought we were having good conversation, we have been. We finally meet off a dating site; and the conversation went well and such. He hugged me really tight and even kissed me and asked if he could call me, of course said yes. That was Sunday, I havent heard from him since. I mean our date for scheduling to meet lasted an 1 and 45 min. but I didnt think anything of it. So do you think he will still call at all this week, or no?

2007-10-02 22:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that a way to a man's heart is through the stomach? LOL. How important is affection to a man? For example, kissing his forehead, cuddling, hugging etc. How do I keep him happy and in total love with me?

2007-10-02 22:20:32 · 23 answers · asked by Kristen W 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since High School when I lost contact with my middle school friends, I haven't been able to make friends that are "real" friends. By "real" I mean friends that are there for you, call you and invite you to parties or gatherings or just hang out with you. I try to be nice and "cool" with everyone I meet at the community college where I'm currently attending. I'm 28 years old and notice that people are really "cool" with me during class and in school but once they go home they don't call me. I'm the one who has to be calling them and when I do, they seem to be in a rush. I invite them to go out or to hang out at my house but noone seems to be interested. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. It seems like everyone else has a group of friends they can hang out with except me. Is anyone else in the same situation and if so what do you recommend?

2007-10-02 22:17:44 · 6 answers · asked by jorarmando 1 in Friends

I need to know

2007-10-02 22:13:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a terrible situation. about a month ago i broke up with my girlfriend of two years. we had a great relationship but for convenience reasons we decided to give it a rest. both college students different colleges. Well i got a new girlfriend i still talk to my ex because i thought she was a good person. while we were going out she had a friend that was a guy who is only 15 she's 18 im 18 well tonight she called me to tell me she had a problem. she said that they were hanging out and he put his hand in her shirt ( under bra). I told her why didn't you tell him to stop. and she said that she was afraid and didn't know what to do. I told her to stand up for herself and respect her body. Then she said maybe she liked it all along...... that was kinda a blow and then she hanged up......... it made me angry. and now i cant study for a midterm. please give me closure.....

2007-10-02 22:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by Omar A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I have discussed marriage and know we both want it asap. I know from a trusted source that he was planning on proposing at Xmas but isn’t now as he cant afford to buy me a ring. I am not supposed to know this as he apparently wants it to be a surprise but I am not supposed to know anything about this, a mutual friend let it slip to me as she knows how much I wanted it and thought he never would. Anyway the thing is I don’t need a ring that costs alot its what it symbolises that’s whats important to me. I wouldn’t care less if he only spent a tenner on it or got it out of a lucky bag. We are going to give eachother a figure that we cant go over for buying xmas presents this year so how do I suggest that he could get me a cheap ring and I would love it just as much if not more without him knowing I know what he wanted to get me. Im not sure how to drop the hint without giving the game away.

2007-10-02 22:06:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I help my mom clean rooms at our family owned motel once a week but i answer the door all day long and night and do all the laundry also i make dinner for the family about 5-6 times a week and do most the house cleaning out of 7 people in home . I mean we all do dishes but i'm the one generally that vacuums wipes everything down dusts . haha you wouldn't think this if u seen my room but i try to keep a handle on things but people are putting off signals that im being selfish and lazy how do you all feel please be honest honesty is a virtual and sometimes truth from others is the best medicine to us as individuals thanks .

2007-10-02 22:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Cassandra 1 in Weddings

2007-10-02 21:55:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What size of breasts do u like 4 ur girl friend???

2007-10-02 21:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is 56. She didnt like to get married to her husband, but was forced by her parents. She's been married for over 33 years. She has a son and a daughter with 11 months difference (age). She had an abortion thereafter.

Her husband was a cop. He had ill treated her through out her life, till now. He had abused her mentally, physically and sexually. Her relatives very well know this, but couldnt do much about it. So, she has been telling each and everything to her children.

They both hate their dad and are very much attached to their mom. I would say, its not just a mom and child attachment. They have been grown by their mom this way and now they do whatever their mother wishes; think whatever their mom says is Right; whomever she hates they also hate, whomever she says bad they are bad.

Her children are married a year ago. She didnt like her in-laws, cos they were not acting according to her wishes. Now, she has very cunningly convinced her children to hate their spouses also

2007-10-02 21:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-02 21:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by pari tyagi 1 in Friends

My mum phoned me this morning to tell me that her dog is coming to live with me for a few months until my brother moves into my house (because we are moving away). The dog is a 12 year old chihuahua he is grumpy and bites and coughs and his fur is all matted because she doesn't look after him properly. Thing is we have just gotten a new puppy so we already have two male unsterilised dogs and now she is bringing her dog over here. I cannot say no because the beast of a woman said that the dog is going on one trip which is either to my house or to the vet to be put to sleep! She complained that my 18 year old brother is the problem because he doesn't want to keep the dog and it is 'his' dog, she bought the dog for him when he was just 6 years old! Now she is trying to pass the dog off as if he isn't hers and she said its not her responsibility, all this because she wants to move out of her house for good and live with her boyfriend of 6 months. What am I meant to do?

2007-10-02 20:58:19 · 10 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Family

i have a bf but we didn't see each other yet in person but only in picture..we are callmates and both fell in love with each other.. we both agree with a promise to love each other and be together someday..he's still studying while i'm working..we have a one year gap in age..

2007-10-02 20:50:29 · 10 answers · asked by sample 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who likes me and wants to go out with me but i only like him as a friend and will only ever like him as a friend. But then there is this other guy who is nice and cute but there are 3 problems.
1. my sisters dont like him
2. he has dumped other girls in the past because he falls for someone else (which has been me every time)
3.he says he doesnt like me anymore but i cant bring bmy self to believing him.

He is acting like he is flirting but im not sure.
Im going to the beach with both of them tomorrow what should i do???

2007-10-02 20:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my g.f is a waitress and she is not feeling well i am thinking sending her flowers at work to appriciate how hard working she is but i dont know if i should because she is working in a restaurant. i dont want her to get embarrass or something akward like that. or even worse get fired. lol. i odnt know her manager that much so.. what should i do??

2007-10-02 20:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a man of age 27 and had fall in love with a women of age 41...so advice me with seriously.....

2007-10-02 20:45:59 · 9 answers · asked by shaolin_soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

when he or she is mad at you???

2007-10-02 20:45:31 · 13 answers · asked by champs 3 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my boyfriend has been telling me how much he loves me more than showing it. And you know what they say: "Actions speak louder than words"... but I don't think he really means a single word that comes out of his mouth.

Not only that, when I decided to do the first move by asking him out, he just replies to me like he doesn't even care, AND he can't exert enough effort to help me set it up.

It's like I'm the one who does everything, while he's there to go with the flow and enjoy the ride.

Every morning, he calls me up so early only to talk to me for a while, about 10 minutes, and still I have to remind him to say "I love you" before putting the phone down.

After that phone conversation, he only treats me like a classmate at school everyday and when girls are the subject of the conversation with the guys, he acts like some flirty a**hole who goes crazy when certain graphic terms are used.

It's blowing me up already!

2007-10-02 20:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 years now and my husband is seperated from his still legally married wife since then. What is their status - married or divorced.

2007-10-02 20:33:03 · 19 answers · asked by henna y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-02 20:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by chit g 1 in Marriage & Divorce