Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

why would someone that use to text and call you all time and see you regularly all of a sudden not text and call for a week and ignore texts and calls from me, someone who did actually seem to like me?

2007-09-30 23:57:20 · 19 answers · asked by leighanne1232 1 in Singles & Dating

He is always coming onto my side of the room,thinks up silly excuses to talk to me, he has brushed my hand with his twice when i passed him something, teases me, when talking to me usually turns his body towards me and sometimes comes into my personal space.,
But......is not asking me out, hasn't added me onto his myspace friends list like he did with all our other friends, he doesn't make an effort to findout what is going on in my life by asking personal questions...What is up? He likes me? Shy? Not interested? Anyoone have ideas?

2007-09-30 23:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by dimples18 1 in Singles & Dating

She is really gorgeous and after every class she stops me from going out the door and talks to me, and touches my arms and says stuff like "ooh big arms" or touches my face gently and says "nice shave" and today when i dropped my pen she was near by and so she picked it up and while getting back up she but her left hand BETWEEN my legs for "support" and at times she talks about sexual things like a good penis size etc...

shes very hot and I would love to have intercourse with her but I know this is wrong and I shouldn't be doing this...should i complain about her or have sex with her...

P.S im a virgin
thanks in advance

2007-09-30 23:56:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have this crush in one of my classes, and he did not come to school today. I want to send him a message over at myspace/friendster and tell him that we have a quiz next meeting. Problem is, I am too shy!!! He was classmate before but I don't think he even knows me. Plus, he's 21 and I'm 17...What will I do? If you're the guy, will you appreciate it if I told you about the quiz/the discussion..? This guy that I'm talking about is kinda quiet...Not in the sense that he's really quiet, he's quiet I think because he doesn't wanna talk to anyone. Like he's so snobbish... But I REALLY have this HUGE crush on him. HELP ME!!! :-(

2007-09-30 23:53:58 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 4 in Singles & Dating

I caught my fiancee (ex fiancee now) kissing my best friend on new years eve this year,i kicked him out of my house for 8 weeks and during that time ,i had also found out that he had kissed her the year before,he had also attempted to kiss her other times ,but she refused him,due to the fact that she was engaged herself and didnt want to lose her partner.I took him back after he pleaded with me to give him another chance and now im finding it really hard to forgive him,ive been with him for nearly 7 years and i think i still love him ,but i need advice on how to better this relationship before i end it!! did i do the right thing to take him back?

2007-09-30 23:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by hevster 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When the person your in love with and have been dating for over 3 years on and off and the thought of them sleeping with someone else... how does this make you feel?

2007-09-30 23:51:22 · 17 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

You've often flirted before and have a connection. Seems like the usual start of something but you don't contact her next day, or next day, or next day!! Say she contacts you and suggests meeting up...and you don't reply...WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD?

2007-09-30 23:50:07 · 10 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think so. but i put this in a message to a guy and my flatmate said that 'it was fun to meet you thing' was the reason for no response.

forgive me for the teenagerish nature of this question

2007-09-30 23:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by elsie 4 in Singles & Dating

Howdy Folks,

My b/f has asked me to move in with him (we've been together a year and a half). He has his own place as he's a little older than me but I still live with my parents as I'm 22 and have just graduated.

So the problem is that he used to share his house with his ex for about 4 years and that really creeps me out. Am I being a weirdo? I really hate the thot of sleeping in the bed he used to share with her and watching telly on the counch they bought together and stuff. Is that unreasonable???

I'm not asking him to up and leave and buy a new house with me right this second. But I'd rather live separatly for a while until we could buy our very own place together instead of living in his (and his exes) house. I won't be offended if you all tell me I'm a complete freak! x

2007-09-30 23:47:36 · 5 answers · asked by juicy_satsuma 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 23:44:59 · 6 answers · asked by weepywillow 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that use to work with me who i like. We use to get along pretty well. She has left the company last week however i did not get the chance to get her contact details. I cant stop thinking about her . However, i can get her details from a mutual friend. Do you think i should contact her, however im afraid she might think im some sort of weirdo for tracking her down. What do you think?

2007-09-30 23:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all,,,, I don't know what to get my girlfriend????? It was her birthday last week, and could'nt get her anything coz She has everything i could think of. And she is surely expecting a gift from me as her friend... Plz help.....

2007-09-30 23:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by lady"P" 2 in Friends

Me and my ex still keeps contact on msn, we dated 4 years ago. and we did not dump each other, the relationship finished because of distance and comunication ( i did not speak much english at the time)..but now we comunicate really well! He said he wanted to send me a 4 year old letter that he wrote and didnt send me at the time for some reason., i got the letter and it was a pic of us, and he said in the letter that he wanted me to move to his place with him! but he said he never opened the envelope he didnt remember what was writen, but he sent me anyway... (very strange)! he said he found the letter when he was cleaning his room. I asked him if he still feels the same, but he never really tells me.. I had a arguement with him because of this letter and we stoped talking for 2 months, but then he came back again, he said he likes me and enjoy talking to me.
PS: i have a bf now, maybe he is just scared of saying what he really feels? why he would send me this letter ?

2007-09-30 23:41:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If they are in college they are supposed to be grown up, right?

2007-09-30 23:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by Linda Fallsrock 2 in Singles & Dating

it just looks odd! its should be outlawed!

2007-09-30 23:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been married 28yrs kids grown up.but all those yrs we have been having sex 3-4 times a day.are we normal or just fit?58-46.

2007-09-30 23:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by country bumpkin [sheep nurse] 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I knew this girl for two years and through out the two years we have been really close friends to the point that we were basically going out. Over the summer she called and said that she had met this guy and she was sorry and that there was no real room for me. She calls me later and asks about advice about her new boyfriend and another guy she likes (the guy she's with now) and I get kind of weirded out because she's calling me and the stuff she was talking about kind of hurt me. So we kind of drift apart, after a really pointless fight and because the relationship was really strained. I see her in school now and feel really stupid about the whole thing so I went and tried to apologize and I said we should talk about it. She said "What's there to talk about?" She hadn't said a word to me even though her locker is right by mine. I've tried to talk to her a couple of times but only got a negative reaction every time. She seem really different now. Is she worth pursuing? ran out of space

2007-09-30 23:35:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that doesn't trust me that what i say is true. I haven't been talking to her long enough to have built up trust. She is really amazing and i would love the opportunity just to show that i am 100% in everything i say and do. What do i do?

2007-09-30 23:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has told me that he has booked a couple of weeks off work in February because he is thinking about going away to Malaysia on his own. I was like not again. We have been together for about a year and half and he went away last November for 3 weeks to Cambodia - 7 months into our relationship. I was ok about it because he said he had booked it before hand. He is very independent and loves travelling - he is 32 and has no commitments really. He broached the subject over dinner. We live about an hour a way from each other and see each other when we can. I have a little girl as well. Anyway he told me where he was thinking about going. I said that he can go but don't expect me to be around when he gets back. He said he wouldn't expect me to come with him because of my daughter. Which is fine but he hasn't even asked me. I know he wants to go away on his own. It doesn't say much about our relationship though. He knows the score now but i feel like rubbish. Am i being to harsh?

2007-09-30 23:28:45 · 18 answers · asked by lovely_blondelocks 2 in Singles & Dating

No offense, but I think single mothers who work full time, and raise their kids alone work much harder....I created another thread about stay at home moms and they said "their job is the hardest.'

Yeah right, try being a brain surgeon or a lawyer who works 80 hour weeks WHILE being a parent.

Honestly, how can you say it's the hardest job ever....try being a surgeon and a mother. Try going to graduate school and getting a PhD, MD or JD while being a parent.

2007-09-30 23:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have friends and i live alone,i try and improve every day but i seriously dont have anyone to share with ,my soul feels empty many times my lovers are just for fun i cant find anuthing deeper ,I dont want any possesion i cant find a partner,Being alone is so depressing why?cant i face myself why do i need someone to prove to me im ok ,i tried buddhism i tried practices i just cant do this anumore i cant really not have someone i feel i can share with my world .Are there other alone how can todays sociaty be so packed but also so lonely we have mobiles we have msn every were we go there pack of people ,we have friends but we are more lonely then ever ,most relationships are so troubled sleeping around braking up ,why is it so complicated just for a normal partner to love to share,I try to appreciate everything in life and pain is part of life but today its to strong i cant face it ,its really getting me .

2007-09-30 23:26:15 · 6 answers · asked by ahvillian 3 in Singles & Dating

ok everything has been going great foe a while now but he went and blew it on the weekend
we were both out and i seen him leading a girl into the other room by her hand, followed and seen them talking closely (we were both v drunk) i went over all guns blazing and he told me it was just his friend and so did she but they carried on talking closely and dancing! i again went over and he told me to go away so i made him choose me or her and he choose her and told me to f off
after he came over trying to b nice and i just told him we should leave, now im thinking wot to do!

2007-09-30 23:20:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He locked me in the house,closed my yahoo account(I think I forgot to sign out),took my cellphone etc, because I was honest enough to tell him I had cheated on him.

2007-09-30 23:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by adasnameismalika 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a lady around a year ago, we liked each other a lot but I kind of messed her around in the process as I wasn’t sure if I want a relationship & lead her on slightly. She did a lot 4 me in the process by even putting a TV on credit for me worth 1,500 & was there for me through alot of things. I ended things for good as I really liked her but didn’t want a relationship at that time. I started to loose respect throught The year as she wouldnt come to terms that i didnt want a relationship. I started telling her things like go and get a man & stop callin & texin me!! I said I was going to give her back her money no doubt about that and that we were over! and started ignoring her calls. since then she has stopped callin & her number that I did hav has been switched off since july as this was in july sometime!

2007-09-30 22:53:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mum will turn 50 next year and is still working at a restaurant in another town. Parents divorced when I was a baby and I was raised by my grandma and dad. Mum left to marry another man.We occasionally met. We (me and siblings) had bad experience with mum in the past. Let's say that she didn't care at all about our progress, education improvement, etc.. but after learning about mum (her mum also abandoned her and she didn't finish high school), I can't put the blame fully on her. I'm thinking of renting a small place for her and help her setting up a small shop (more like a newsagent on the street). However, all cousins call me stupid and so do my siblings. She has a 15 yr old son from her husband who passed away 3 yrs ago (heart attack). So...is this too much? My brother said I'd better put the money for my future first (buy a car, I still go by bus/taxi).

2007-09-30 22:51:28 · 14 answers · asked by Ananya 2 in Family

I live with my parents, as does my brother. Many months ago my brother asked if his fiancé could live with us for a time while he and she prepared to get a place of their own. I thought this was fine, as did my parents; however it's been about 8+ months and they've made no motions for the door and she hasn't had a job the whole time! I wouldn't be particularly bothered by this is she wasn't such an offensive creature to be about. She's vulgar, no good for my brother, a rotten add on to our family dynamic, and having her around lowers the quality of my life. Both my parents are EXTREMELY avoidant and don't want to deal with the situation... They also like having my brother and me around. She needs to leave. Now. Any ideas?

2007-09-30 22:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by Dan D. 1 in Family

Am married for 3 years now , but my husband doesnt spend time with me , he is not busy at work , he is always at his family he remeber he has wife when he needs to have ...........
so i need some attention in my life , love ,

2007-09-30 22:42:56 · 20 answers · asked by ZED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 22:42:44 · 3 answers · asked by anita b 1 in Friends

2007-09-30 22:41:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-30 22:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by avril 1 in Friends