Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

my bf of over 5 yrs will not have sex with me anymore. i know it's not supposed to be as often anymore but i dont remember the last time we had sex!! i know he watches a lot of porn and i KNOW im not ugly... !! he says he just doesn't feel like it... wtf. it's been over 3 months!

2007-09-30 20:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend travels a lot to Morocco, he met an 18 years old beautiful girl at a local club. She was making money in exchange for sex(prostitution). They were dating for 2 years, she stoped prostituting and they are very much in love. He had decided to mary her and bring to the states where they can start a family. He told me that he loves her and most importyantly saving her from a rough and hard life of prostitution. What is your opinion???

2007-09-30 20:15:19 · 25 answers · asked by lucky_not 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-30 20:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well my dads pretty awesome! were pretty close and i tell him everything. But him and i were having a talk about boys ect. and we were talking about my ex and what a jerk he was.
my dad was like
"well i dont understand why you kept going out w/ him, you can have any guy you want ect"
Then he went on to say that my ex might have been attrative but he was a jerk on the inside. And he told me that you dont need to be attractive its your personality that matters. He said
"look at me and really ugly and scary looking. But when i was dating when i was younger i went out w/ ome very attractive women, so pretty they could have been modles, but they had no personalitly so it didnt last long"
he said "it dosent matter how you look, its whats on the inside"
i understand him message but was he implying im not pretty? i feel kinda bad now...

2007-09-30 20:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If I don't like my fiance's brother for some reasons, can I just not invite him? My fiance of course wants him to be there, but he basically will agree with everything I say. What will you do if you were me? Do you think my fiance's parents will hate me if I didn't invite the brother to my wedding?

2007-09-30 19:54:29 · 24 answers · asked by ViTheDuck 2 in Weddings

My ex broke my heart time after time and I cannot learn to forgive her. I've tried prayer, talking about it with family and friends, and even research. Nothing seems to be working. Does this mean I am a bad person. My description of forgiveness means, " It doesn't hurt anymore ". What more can I do, cause I just don't know how to let it go......

2007-09-30 19:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by babydaddy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 19:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by johnnie j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend - it has been 1 year and 8 months since we started dating but living together for the last 3 months only. Before that I was studying at uni and living on campus because of the hostel proximity with uni. I just started a job (high pay for a fresh grad), very happy with it. Thanks to the busy schedule for both of us, we have time to recuperate on weekends only - in other words, catching up with sleep. Weekends are not free from work, there may be things to do as well. Last weekend I was so tired that I fell asleep after reading part of a book that I have to (undergoing training on the job, and reading is part of it). He asked me whether I could help buy lunch, so I said half-awake that I wasn't hungry and then dozed off again. When I woke up, he had come back with packed lunch. So I suggested eating together, but he just said 'leave me alone, everyone treats me like a slave'.I cried silently outside while he took time to cool down alone in the room.

2007-09-30 19:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by bronzedgal 4 in Singles & Dating

when me and boyfriend are intimate he doesn't make a sound, not even when he ejaculates. how do i know if he's enjoying it??? it bothers me alot cause i can't ever tell if he's enjoying it as much as i am..

2007-09-30 19:36:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the signs that you are really into a guy like playing with your hair biting you lips shaking your legs or something? just wanna that is all. just want opinions please. thank you.

2007-09-30 19:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm and English guy, fed up with miserable, winging English girls.

2007-09-30 19:29:20 · 12 answers · asked by Christopher G 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been seperated for a few years now from his wife. They have one boy together. In the past few months she has refused to let my boyfriend see his son because he is not paying her what she wants in child support. She wants double what he is supposed to be paying (nothing is court ordered but he has a copy of the Family Law charts).

They have no set visitation schedule and are not yet divorced. When he started getting the paperwork going a couple years ago she told him she couldn't afford a divorce. He wants full custody of his son but he is not in the living arrangements to do so therefore he is holding off on the divorce as if they got divorced a custody battle would start.

What is really bad is his son's mother lives over an hour away and has recently moved so he does not even know what school his son is attending.

What can he do to be able to see his son?

2007-09-30 19:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by CSF 6 in Marriage & Divorce

After I masturbate myself to orgasim I cry. I've been doing is for over 6 months now. I've never had sex so I dont know if I'd do it then or not. What wrong with me?

2007-09-30 19:22:24 · 18 answers · asked by Trish M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out that my Husband cheated with his coworker, at first he said they were just friends, but I found love letters and poems telling eachother how they want to do eachother. We've been Married for 8 yrs and have five kids. I'm so hurt and confused.

2007-09-30 19:14:53 · 28 answers · asked by so_delicious79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you found you were dating a 17 year old instead of a 19 what would you think and this is in regards to about my friends from before kyle and marisa cuz she lied to him and us and its getting out hand she said she wanted to kill her mother she really needs mental help and therapy. whats you take on this?

2007-09-30 19:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't get married, by the dubliners

Either for men or women:

Don't get married girls, you'll sign away your life
You may start off as a woman, but you'll end up as the wife
You could be a vestal virgin, take the veil and be a nun
But don't get married girls, for marriage isn't fun

Oh, it's fine when you're romancing and he plays a lover's part
You're the roses in his garden, you're the flame that warms his heart
And his love will last forever and he'll promise you the moon
But just wait until you're wedded and he'll sing a different tune
You're his tapioca pudding, you're the dumplings in his stew
And he'll soon begin to wonder what he ever saw in you
Still he takes without complaining all the dishes you provide
But you see he has to have his bit of jam tart on the side

So don't get married girls, it's very badly paid
You may start off as the mistress, but you'll end up as the maid
Be a daring deep-sea diver, be a polished polyglot
But don't et caetera...

2007-09-30 19:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need help with this

2007-09-30 18:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in a wedding coming up. I was wondering if I should go to the rehearsal dinner with everyone. I don't want to show up unexpected. I would ask the groom but I know he is CLUELESS. Also the wedding is a few hours away and we will be driving together. What should I do while all the groomsmen get ready? I only know the bride a little so hanging with the girls is not an option. What do people usually do in these situations. We have always been in the same weddings, and the one I was in without him he hung with the groomsmen anyways while they got ready. Sorry this is so long, but I really just want to follow etiquette.

2007-09-30 18:50:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

be honest. :)

2007-09-30 18:48:42 · 18 answers · asked by nawailohiloi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've got 3 properties of which 1 of them my fiance don't know about it. He is currently renting in one of my properties. We planned to stay in one of my properties after we got married because his house is far from our work area. He found out that I've put my son as the beneficiary of everything I have so he demands that I should make him a joint beneficiary of my house together with my son. What is your advice.

2007-09-30 18:47:29 · 19 answers · asked by ntso77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in northern California. My soon to be x-wife and I have been separated since July 2007. We have agreed through mediation to 51%/49% custody of our two and half year old daughter. When I have her, my x shows up unexpectedly and un-invited to make sure I am alone, not drinking or doing anything else that might put our daughter in jeopardy. I want to know if it's legal or not? There is no provision in our divorce that states she (or me for that matter) can check up on one another. It's anoying, frustrating and I am getting mad. Does someone know??

Sincerely,

K :|

2007-09-30 18:47:03 · 15 answers · asked by jasoncorbett99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u usually figure out ur spouse is cheating?what do u look for?(body language, excuses, signs) really anything that comes to mind.

2007-09-30 18:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend, a ldy of 26yrs got married 2 a person who works far off. IT was an arranged marriage he couldnt take her along citing visa problems , they stayed together for 7 days , they had lots of time togethe,r both liked each other, lots of foreplay but no lovemaking . he was not impotent ,he came back after 6 months but again every thing fine but no lovemaking citing tiredness due to lag jet ...stayed for 14 day to come back after 6 months...... this time same story .. was very shy even to buy a condom....... she went and got one but he never thought of using it...........meanwhile she was very depressed he started blaming her for every thing used to side with others when she had a tiff with his relatives . she finally left him but couldnt find answer to this strange predicament , any suggestions

2007-09-30 18:44:48 · 8 answers · asked by emily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend told me about his single friend who was coming to our college as a freshman.He(the freshman)and I started flirting online a lot,before school started.Then,he started text-messaging me to ask me to hang out,but I was too busy for the first 2 weeks of school.Then,he invited me to his friend's frat party.I went with 3 guys(my girlfriends were busy).During the party,he seemed interested,and even sent me flirty txt-messages after.However,for the next few days,he stopped contacting me completely.I found out from my mutual friend that he was turned off bc I brought "rude"guys to the party.Anyway,after a few days,he contacted me again,and finally we spent some alone time together when he came over to give me guitar lessons.We ended up making out heavily.Before he left,he told me to call him the next day.However,I wanted to see if he would call me first.He didn't contact me till 2 days later,through AIM!recently,his laptop broke down,so now he barely talks to me unless I do first!

2007-09-30 18:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is going through a lot. She has had some major family issues (fights, getting kicked out, stealing, divorce...), and has been forced to stay at my house quite often lately. I've been trying my absolute hardest to help her out, because she means a lot to me. She tells me all about what happens at home, i'm like her diary in a way; i know more about her than her own mother does. But what she doesn't know, is that i can see that she is bringing herself down a lot. She used to slit her wrists, she is suicidal on and off, and she gets into serious depression. And i've always noticed that she goes to the washroom a little too often. At first i thought it's probably just some bladder problem, and i'll leave her alone about it. but just recently i found puke stains on the carpet in our guest washroom that she uses. She always tells me when she is feeling sick enough to puke, so this is really unusual. I care about her so much, but I just don't know how to help her.

2007-09-30 18:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is always so quiet in real life but he becomes chatty on msn. He often tells me that he likes me and he misses me. He also tried asking me out. When I ask him whether he really miss me or like me he would say he was just joking with me. What does he behave in this way? Do you think he is into me or just flirting?

2007-09-30 18:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This friend of mine is also married ,so we are actually couples friends.I find that my husband is so very nice to her to the point that he constantly calls everybody around him by her name if she is present like hello that is all that is on his mind.I talked to him about propriety in certain relationships and we agreed that he was going to stop and he says he did not realize that he does that.When walking together he keeps pace with her and not me and I am quite disadvantaged being pregnant and all so I am not really walking at everybod's pace.Is this something i should worry about and confront him again about it and if so how should I do it or should I just let go

2007-09-30 18:38:54 · 9 answers · asked by sunshinecee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend are not even close to having enough money for a wedding, whats the cheapest way to get married?

2007-09-30 18:36:30 · 14 answers · asked by shadowblaze85 1 in Weddings

Seriously.. what is the big deal? I don't know why everyone thinks that you should wait until marriage..

I'm 17 and in a relationship.. so why shouldn't we be able to have sex? Although I'm almost positive he is not the guy I will be spending the rest of my life with, we are in love and sex is based on natural urges and an expression of love.. so why not?

Opinions/thoughts?

2007-09-30 18:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you find her attractive?
You don't have to lie,
Honesty is what counts when
it comes to looking for a new perception upon something/someone.


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2007-09-30 18:27:27 · 22 answers · asked by It's Just me.... Kiwi :) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships