Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

I am crying because a contact of mine has advance Lung cancer and it makes me sad that she is leaving! (((((((((((Gnostic))))))))))))
I will miss her! ((((Gnostic)))) The avatar eyes doesn't scare me anymore.
I have met her children through pictures that she has shown me plus her art work!
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2007-09-30 03:51:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and . . . what is your opinion of programs at a wedding?

2007-09-30 03:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and this boy were playing truth or dares he dared me to show him my vagina so i did we were on the computer so i took a pic on my phone now he showed everyone it now every asks me y i did it help me? i done it 4 a dare dont call me any names please u might think i am but please dont what should i do what should i say to the people

2007-09-30 03:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by stacey c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 03:44:36 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i seriously really want a boyfriend. my friend just got one but thats not why i want one. i need flirting tips and better ways to get their attention. i have my eye on 12 people. i dont want to ask them out because last year i got rejected and he was so mean to me he called me flat chest and big nosed, anorexic toothpick when i was really trying to gain weight! i really want a bf so there would be someone who was always nice to me and ppl would stop telling me no one likes me! how do i know if someone likes me and how can i turn it up a notch?

ps: im in 9th grade.

2007-09-30 03:36:14 · 22 answers · asked by Georgia Peachy 4 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering..
I am but hes only like an inch shorter than me, but hes soo cute, and hes probably the nicest person ive ever met. =)

2007-09-30 03:34:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In 2 weeks I have to appear in court for the State against my ex hub for lack of paying child support. I need to know how others feel, if I have a right to the support or not. Here is the situation: My ex and I were married 17 years. We have 4 beautiful kids. In the divorce settlement, I gave him everything. I just wanted out.. I gave up my childcare business ( I couldnt keep it --license does not travel with you,and anyway I moved into an apartment-kinda hard to take 16 kids with you lol)He got the house, the 4 snowmobiles, 2 boats, his car he was restoring, his business I helped him build, most of our household goods-furniture--including lots brand new, I took my china huth, a few home interior pics, and the vaccume. I bought my own dishes and towels ect. He wouldn't even let me take the kid's beds they got for Christmas. When we first divorced, 2 kids stayed with him and 2 with me. He got a lawyer, i didnt get one. He decided the child support. I didn't contest anything-

2007-09-30 03:29:22 · 17 answers · asked by tammie h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wondered if women really believe that all men are the same. They are all dogs. Also, the old saying once a cheater, always a cheater. I just wanted to see what people think.

2007-09-30 03:25:37 · 17 answers · asked by swtme810 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i get my boyfriend? I dont know what to get him he is alwayz giving me gifts. So plz tell me what i could get him. Tell me anything i could give him.

2007-09-30 03:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Also I have a current gf that thinks we are still in love with each other by the way we look at each other( alot of ppl say that ) I donno what to do.

2007-09-30 03:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we were in college everynite for 4 years was a party, but we all graduated. Well one of my friends just don't get it we have been out of school 4 or five years now and to him every day is still a party. He does not have a job he does not want a job he says he does but he doesn't actually look. Then the job he did have mind you it was a great job, he quit because the schedule interferred with his party time. I try to tell him man we out of college u cant do the same things anymore. Now my girl lives with me. He asked to come stay wit me to find a job, mind u my girl knows his habits so she doesn't want him there. I understand her he wants to stay out till 4 everynite knowing i would have to work, this would not be good for my carreer or my relationship. Then i try to explain to him you have one chance at your life i know u don't want to be 35 wit a dead end job, you get out of life what u put in. It seems he thinks u don't put in **** and get it all back, will he change

2007-09-30 03:20:24 · 16 answers · asked by raradaone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 03:11:39 · 37 answers · asked by Soilderblue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 03:10:33 · 6 answers · asked by nahsss.. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy both like each other alot. We are technically going out because he says he is not looking for any other female and I aint lookin for another guy besides him. We love each other as friends. Now listen my best friend and him were talking and he told her that he doesnt know if he likes me as a friend or something more. How can I tell / convice him that I like him more than just close friends without actually telling him?

2007-09-30 03:02:51 · 1 answers · asked by peabodygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently been feeling like my boyfriend and I are on shaky ground. I've just been considering the possiblity of ending our relationship. One thing I have always loved about him is that he believes in monogamy with his whole heart. He would never cheat on me. He doesn't even look at other women. This seems to me to be a very rare quality in a man. Men and women, what do you think?

2007-09-30 03:02:07 · 24 answers · asked by Missy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so a few months ago i decided i wanted to go far away to college, so over the summer i went and visited about 5. my parents arent crazy about the idea of me going far away but they would let me if i really wanted to.i was pretty set on going up to 14 hrs from home. i wanted to go that far because i really just wanted to get away from the place i had spent my whole life and get to know a different area of the country, even if there are great schools near me. then the other day i was driving through a very nice area where i live and it filled me with emotion and made me not want to leave anymore now im really confused. im in love with my hometown but i figure i have to leave eventually cause there arent jobs that im interested in. so the question is leave soon or leave later? i dont know, anyone else experience this, what did u do?

far:
belmont, elon, middle tenn, appalachian state, coastal carolina

close:
providence,bucknell, new hampshire, boston college, vermont, villanova

2007-09-30 02:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the 3 of us me and my parents have just had a major bust up, and my mother will not speak to me and my dad is not speaking to my mother, she is even refusing to come on holiday with us in november. That doesn't matter, but she nags and she nags all the time never stop she has even stopped cooking meals I have had to do the cooking and the washing, when she leaves for work it is 6.45am and when she gets in it is 18.15pm she slams doors, she bangs everything she does allsorts.

We are tired of telling her to stop banging doors anyone can help me to pull this family back together before something else major happens,

Today it was over a peace of meat that it had gone into early she has always told me to put it in at 14.30pm everytime I have cooked a dinner and now she has said it was far too early cos it is a little peace of meat!!!!!!!!!ANYONE HELP

2007-09-30 02:58:11 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

hi.. my mum is heavy drinker.. she drinks everyday and it has been getting worse latley. the doctors came out and told her that she is at the 'cross roads' of her life and that this is the time where she should stop the drinking or she could die. everyone is worried about her and we have all tried speaking to her but she just ignores all of the help that we offer her. She eats hardly anything so she is very thin and she finds it hard to walk because her liver is very bad, because of the extreme amount of drinking that she does. I just dont know what to do anymore for her. my friends say that it is up to her now to help herself, but im find ing it hard to jst stand back and watch my mum do this to herself. She has said to me that she would rather kill herself than live anymore. My mum is a great person when she is sober but when she is drunk she becomes rly horrible and slags all of my friends and family off. plz help me, i dont know what to do anymore...thanx.

2007-09-30 02:57:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you assume he still had feelings for her?

2007-09-30 02:55:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im real paranoid about my boyfriend, not that hes cheating, but i hate the thought of him watching porn etc as we are apart alot due to work and uni. I also have trouble with self confidence i know that. Im really trying to keep my mouth shut and not question him anymore as i know that that ill just drive him away, and weve been together for five years. Its so difficult though! I hate to think that hes lying and theres a whole side of him that i dont know about when im not there! I know deep down that porn shouldnt really be an issue, though i just cant get it out of my head that he would do that if he loved me!
I really want to make our relationship as good as it can be, i never used to be this paranoid though i cant pin point whats made me this way.
Any advice that might make things better for me so i can get things back to what they were?

2007-09-30 02:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1 in Singles & Dating

i m in love with a celibrity...i hv almost become mad for her...her name is hansika...i have seen her fan-response on the net.i am really working hard for her.i need her e-mail plz...if only i can talk with her once ia am sure we are going to be good friends...plz help...i am totally lost.....

2007-09-30 02:54:36 · 27 answers · asked by luckydude_raj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an idea for a science fiction storyline.
A race of beings live on a rock that is moving at 50,000 miles an hour and it is tied to a huge ball of fire by an invisible string.
They spend 1/3 of their lives in a coma during which they have wild halucinations, then they suffer from amnesia regarding most or all of these halucinations.
Do you think that this is to far fetched to be believable?

2007-09-30 02:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anna s 1 in Friends

I cant ask him out.he shld ask me..there r reasons behind this niot becoz i'm feeling shy! pls help

2007-09-30 02:53:39 · 29 answers · asked by kewl me! 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i don't have an idea how to write a sorry letter..
please...

2007-09-30 02:53:15 · 12 answers · asked by TM™ 3 in Friends

I am taking the kids to Australia for 5 weeks over Christmas, I have already paid for the tickets and my ex has now said he will getting an injuction to stop me taking the kids??? my dad who lived with us died last month and a holiday is just what me and the kids need, we went last after my divorce 3 years ago to be near my family. He didn't mind that time because he thought he would be in prison at the time but ended up getting off with it. since we split he has been on over 20 holidays (in 3 and half years) including Portugal for the football, dubai, caymen islands and many others, me and the kids have been to Oz and Majorca once and to my dads caravan in yorkshire.

I think he is a selfish pig

what do you think?? and can he stop me taking the kids?????

2007-09-30 02:52:57 · 16 answers · asked by Cindy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just need one simple thing : please tell me a scarey storycor give me a site. I am very bored and in the mood for something scary!!!!!!! rawwrr.. >:)

2007-09-30 02:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

3 days ago, my fiance broke up with me thus ending our 7 yr long relationship. There was no clear reason why he wanted the break up. That left me feelin crazy, broken, disappointed, cheated and everythin else negative. I'm 26 n he is 29. As adults, I expect him to talk over problems with me. But he didn't and this breakup is like his own decision solely. And worst still, he broke up with me thru sms! When I called him, he ignored my calls. I just can't seem to get a proper explainations. I've been feelin suicidal ever since. I just dunno how to move on. It hurts so much and the pain is so excruciating. What have I done wrong? I've got no one to talk to and i'm bottling up all my feelings and emotions. Somehow I feel that hurtin or killin myself would help. I know its stupid n totally useless but I dunno how else can I survive this.I've done and sacrificed so much for him and he just left me this way. Please knock some sense in my head.

2007-09-30 02:50:45 · 27 answers · asked by Amelia Adams 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They really don't like me and I've tried to get along with them but their real pricks

2007-09-30 02:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by jdainchrist 1 in Singles & Dating

Before I met my current husband I was not at all selective about who I slept with. I had close to 15 male sexual partners before the age of 21.

In my early twenties I developed a metabolic disorder that keeps me from being thin, no matter how much diet or exercise I get. The men stopped approaching me because, presumably, not many men want to sleep with overweight women. In hindsight, it probably saved my life because it was only a matter of time before I got AIDS or some other terrible disease.

I met a wonderful man when I was 22 who didn't care that I wasn't thin, and we got married. I am now 40 and still overweight.

I am wondering, if I ever lost the weight through new drugs or medical procedures, would I go back to being promiscuous as I was before I gained the weight? I don't want to cheat on my husband, but I wonder if the temptation would be too great not to seek out that kind of rush of excitement from a man?

2007-09-30 02:46:41 · 22 answers · asked by J Mack 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we,ve been trying for three years to get back together after divorce, i,ve sought counseling,but he keeps saying he doesn,t feel comfortable to talk to a counselor,but he didn,t have trouble talking to a certain women at work, which he ended up having a affair with, only to ask me to take him back afterwards. which i tried,but i just can,t get past the affair ,because he shows no remorse for his actions. why did i keep trying? CONFUSED!

2007-09-30 02:37:24 · 13 answers · asked by kathleenwanabee 2 in Marriage & Divorce