Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

...You see I have to talk about some issues withmy boyfriend...he is very complaing with the others and never satisfied...not with me but other people...


And every time I'm with him I want to open this theme and talk about it...

But every time I want to talk about it...he says sweet words, he gives me more attention, he says he loves me...

how come he knows I want to open themes that might lead us to break up...
it seems that he wouldn't let me...and I must admit part of me is falttered...

What do you think about this..any similar experiences....?

2007-09-30 11:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 10:56:48 · 8 answers · asked by nia s 1 in Friends

i honestly wonder and have asked people that have done it, how can you look your partner in the face after you did? how can you ask for trust while you know you cant be trusted? how can you sit there and say: i love you and only want you, to someone that gives you your all but you are giving yourself to someone else? how can a person be so coldhearted and selfish? asking for love but not willing to give, wanting still to be wanted but not wanting that same partner only? i never understood that and wonder all the time. how could someone possibly lay down and "make love" to their spouse after they slept with someone else?

2007-09-30 10:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Father who has a daughter and a son ,whom I raised since they where 7&8 yrs.old.I got into a relationship from hell with this lady ,who treated my kids a second class. Now I with a better woman who treats us all with respect.My eldest my daughter now 21,moved in a internet boyfriend from out of state.He is a real work of art.After 3 plus months.and about 10 grand of financial help with her past troubles they finally got to work.Wrecked my truck not telling me the true story and Now she moved back to boyfriends state cause I was asking too many questions and they felt uncomfortable.Now left us with his &,her bills and alot of things missing and left us with alot of unresolved issues what do I do now?,

2007-09-30 10:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by DEEOHGEE 2 in Singles & Dating

but she crys alot!!! she burned dinner and sat on the couch crying for 20 minutes I held her and told her it was ok" no big deal we will order pizza babe" i told her and she kept apologizing all night...she cries if she cant figure out what is wrong with the baby we fed changed burped held her last night and tried rocking her to sleep and she kept waking crying loudly!!! my wife sat crying saying she was a horrible mom and wife..HELP!!What should I do? Could it be postpartum?

2007-09-30 10:52:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

honestly...what is the number reason a guy wants to marry a girl????my male friend said "sex" is the number 1 reason.

2007-09-30 10:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my parents always said i could be whatever i wnated
now im a junior in highschoolm ive made up my mind that i want to become a pilot and they told me they wouldnt support me in college and that if i wanted to be something abnormal for my career id had to get a loan


is this normal?

2007-09-30 10:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to know everything...What is the procedure. My employer got it on the 21st, what can I expect to happen. Will they take the whole 400.00 out at once or bi weekly. Will they wait til the last minute nad take it out or will my employer take it immediately? When will the money grubbing witch receive the payment? What can I do get out of it at somepoint? i have a girlfriend and this was a mistake. We dont get alone so I dont see my son because I think she still wants me back. HELP!!! What will she do with all that money? I just got a job but I quit my last one right before she had the baby so they wouldnt take my money. Ive been working under the table for the past 2 years. But after getting arrested I decided on I wanted to get my license back and buy a car. Im only 24, a cancer. What should I do? PLs answer all my questions they are all equaly important. Best response get 10 points. I welcome responses from women too.

2007-09-30 10:48:43 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Jingles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok..so ive been thinking. In the time the bible was written marriage was very different. Basically you could get married at any age, like 13. So if you were in love then that is when youd get married. Nowadays, say your 16 & in love n wanna get married u cant w/out parental permission & therefore its considered a sin to have sex. But its still the same love between the olden days couple that did get married & the nowadays couple that cant. So why is it worse? why doest there have to be that legal ceremony to make it officially not a sin? cant you just make a comittment between you & your sig. other with god? I think its wierd that it has to be recognized by the gov. to be official...dont u think it should be most importantly between the couple & god? Like is a legal marriage & a non-legal committment that different when it comes to religion? n is it better for a couple who isnt in love but married legally to have sex or a couple who isnt but verrrry comitted & in love? opinions plz.

2007-09-30 10:46:40 · 10 answers · asked by xtina : ) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 10:46:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 10:43:53 · 29 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does love mean to you because to everyone love doesn't mean the same thing

2007-09-30 10:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you sleep with a married man whose wife was pregnet with there 2nd child and she was the one working? would you come to there house where she paid all the bill's with there daughter there and have sex with him while she was at work??

2007-09-30 10:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by imj420vjs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so there's this guy i noticed at the gym for a while and we never talked until recently he helped me out with something and told me he noticed me. the next day he randomly asked for my number. that same night he called just to make sure i had his #. we work out everyday and then he asked me when we were going out. i liked him until i heard he had a gf so i told him i dont go out guys with gf. so then he says he didnt have a gf but its ok he didnt want to make me uncomfortable,it really wasnt that big of deal. now sometimes he says hi, others he will see me say nothing. I dont understand

2007-09-30 10:40:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past several months my husband has been moody and cranky . I have kissed his butt. Trying to please him. Things were somewhat better. Then out of the blue they got much worse. I think he suffers from depression but he is unwilling to get help. Everyone I know thought it was because I went back to work last year but its been over a year. He will not talk about the things that bother him to me or a professional. He is very close minded about doctors Last week my daughter told me he asked her when we get a divorce would she want to live with him or me . Then was angry with her for saying me. She let it eat at her for a couple of days then asked me about it. I didn't even know he was to the divorce stage. I have asked him repeatedly to please explain what the problem or problems are . So maybe we can try to fix them. All he says is it is too late . He doesn't want to try anymore. We can't seperate because we don't have the money. The ending problem is I am still in love with him.

2007-09-30 10:40:03 · 24 answers · asked by looking for ideas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i grinded with a boy yesterday at homecoming an di was wondering how they feel when they are grinding with a girl./ He told me he likes it better than slow dancing.

2007-09-30 10:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm from Michigan, but I want to divorce my husband and just leave him because I'm afraid he will do harm with me if I'm going to divorce him. I want to go to Utah or California in another State and file divorce there. Can I do that? We married in Ohio; but our we live in Michigan. What will I do?

2007-09-30 10:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kikay K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 10:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does it scare a guy if you tell them you like them? because honestly if someone told me they liked me, i would be flattered. & then probly start to develop feelings for him.
btw, we are bth sophomores in high school.

2007-09-30 10:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by jjjjjjjjjjjjj. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 10:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by papita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-30 10:34:11 · 1 answers · asked by ilubbu♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 and i am a virgin. me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and we are thinking about having sex.....does it hurt and what are some hott good tips!!

2007-09-30 10:33:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 10:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by b.moretee24 2 in Singles & Dating

further e-mails, phone calls or contact from me. She had been in the hospital for tests and I called to find out how she was doing - she had called and left several messages for me telling me to call her sister on the other side of the country to tell her to contact my friend in the hospital and I did so. Well, when the sister wasn't able to reach my friend in the hospital she called me after I was already in bed for the night. We talked briefly and I said maybe the reason she wasn't able to reach the friend was that she had been taken out of the room for the tests. The upshot is that my friend the next day called me and left a message that I was only to tell her sister to call her, and not to talk to her sister. Well, that is the reason, I assume, for her e-mail to me stating she wanted no further contact. I e-mailed her stating I did not understand her action and that I was sorry in any event. This friend has helped me build my business and I would hate to lose her. Help!

2007-09-30 10:30:11 · 5 answers · asked by sweetpea 2 in Friends

I was making out with my girlfriend we had fall on bed we were kissing like there was not tommorow and then my mom got inside my room... Oh man you cant imagine the scene... My girlfriend screamed and run like faster than the wind out of my house and my mom shouted at me because what she saw. Is there something more embarasing?

2007-09-30 10:24:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime that I like a guy and he likes me I get really excited, but then once we start to hang out more and we know that we like each other I start to feel really weird about it and almost feel like I don't like them anymore. I have been hurt really badly by two guys that I've really liked so that might have something to with it..trust issues? Please tell me why I do this..help me =[

2007-09-30 10:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by ...? 2 in Singles & Dating

When and what made you realize that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your husband or fiance? What did they do that set them apart from anyone else you ever dated?

2007-09-30 10:21:38 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and thats the reason people end up cheating or getting divorced?

2007-09-30 10:16:54 · 21 answers · asked by just me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how long were you together?

2007-09-30 10:14:56 · 18 answers · asked by just me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here's the deal....I have been with this man for five years, we have been married for three....we have a little boy who is almost two...Ok...he has been so wonderful to both me and our son until recently....I mean, ofcourse we have our share of fights and problems like every normal couple but nothing like this...
He has this friend who is single and has no kids...who also has more single, childless friends.....he has been going out to clubs with him every friday night, which is fine with me....but now its becoming more than once a week...(like 5 times) and he stays out all night and when I call him he says things like "I'll come home when I get home and thats it" then he turns off his phone.....and everytime he is with this guy he comes home with another fight to pick with me...telling me how he doesnt love me like he used to.....but when this guy is not around for a few days, he loves me and wants to make it work.....What did I do and how do I deal with this?

2007-09-30 10:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce