When and what made you realize that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your husband or fiance? What did they do that set them apart from anyone else you ever dated?
2007-09-30 10:21:38 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love all the responses ladies! I am getting married in almost 10 months and I am crazy in love with him. I am so glad to see such amazing, loving comments!
2007-09-30 11:09:54 · update #1
When he was with my through my heart surgery. He was the first thing I saw every morning. I couldn't have vistors until 8 and I would always still be asleep but I would wake up and see him right by my every morning. He did nothing but help me in anyway he could. He was always there for me. And that right there showed me that no matter what happens he will always be there for me.
I love him to death.
2007-09-30 13:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by MissAmber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I dated when I was in High School, then I turned wild and we broke up. After about a year of me going out all the time, etc. I decided I wanted a guy friend, I wasn't wanting anything sexual just a great guy friend, so I called him up. We talked on the phone for about two weeks, before we went out and that night, I knew he was the one, out of everything that was going on around us, it honestly felt like it was just me and him and no one else existed. What set him apart, was that most guys I was with before him were all about sex and partying, not him he wanted to be with me for who I was. He also made me realize that partying and everything I was doing was not as great as what I thought, I did those things, because I was depressed, and saw a way to escape my problems, but he helped me work through all that.
2007-09-30 23:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brecken's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with him and he was and still is my best friend. I dated a lot and that is the key. I wanted until age 33 to get married. You need this time to get to know yourself and be on your own before you can build a life with someone else.
2007-09-30 17:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for me it was when I gave him 3 chances to leave the relationship over my severe infertility issues. I didn't want him to be saddled with a woman who couldn't bare him children. After the third time, he blew up at me, "I'm NOT marrying you for your reproductive organs...I'm marrying you, because you I LOVE YOU!" Ive had 3 children since then. I hope this helps.
2007-09-30 18:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by navywife_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hated people that play games. My husband never did that. He was passionate and said exactly what was on his mind. He was open in a way that I didn't know there was. He made me want to be open and share my life with him.
2007-09-30 17:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect.
2007-09-30 17:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going through a divorce when I started dating my now husband. He didn't push me for things I wasn't ready for. He was very patient. He put up with me not trusting him for no good reason, and he accepted my two boys into his life and his home.
2007-09-30 19:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He put me first. When I was unhappy with something he was doing, he stopped doing it. When I was at my worst, he stood by me. When I was at my best, he congratulated me. He is my best friend. He listens and tells me his thoughts even if I may not want to hear them. He is there for me in a way I was never there for myself. He loves me and shows it every day of his life. He is kind, compassionate, warm and loving. I needed that.
2007-09-30 17:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love instantly... we dated for 4 months before he proposed.. and got married a month later... ha ha
it was just this feeling that i didn't want to be away from him... not seeing him during the day felt like hell...
he was just so romantic, caring, loving, and honest...
i just knew... and to this day he still gives me butterflies... =)
2007-09-30 17:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♪EMILY'S MOMMY♪♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He put me before himself and his mother. He treated me with respect and loyalty and why do I make him sound like our pet dog lol, um no he's an all round fantastic husband and dad to our children, great son/bro-in-law to my family and great guy to all who meet him.
2007-09-30 17:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋