Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

My "friends" are pot heads and have been at a community college for over 3 years now...They rarely call me to hang out and rarely ever invite me to go to places with them. I used to be close to them and hung out with them all the time but somehow we've drifted apart (partly because I moved for a year to school and just came back). They didn't even say happy birthday to me last week and didn't come to celebrate it...even after I told them that my other friend was throwing a party for me at his house. I've known them for about 5 years now, but they seem like a**holes now...what can I do?

2007-09-30 13:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by OO 1 in Friends

Blue essence, puriest form.
windows to your sole, gateway of warmth.
A love filled exchange, happiness for life.
A hope, a dream, a wish, my wife.

2007-09-30 13:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A lot of the time, I feel so faded in the background. I feel like I have no friends, and I hate it. I feel ugly and many people make fun of me for being the shortest girl in the grade. My parents are no help, most of the time all they do is bash me about my personality and hit me when I do something wrong Help

2007-09-30 13:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband has a daughter who is 8, well she is not even his kid. When he was preiviously married to this woman, she and he raised his then wife's cousin's daughter and told her that they were her parents. Well my husband is no longer with that woman obiviously, and the girl who is eight lives with her real mom. Well my husband told me that whenever the girl stays over he always kisses her bye on the lips. Does anyone else think that is weird?

2007-09-30 13:49:14 · 23 answers · asked by sweet_16_45356 1 in Family

i've been separated from my 1st husband for 10 years. at present he has his own family and children. im planning to get married again but im scared that i'll be charged of bigamy because we were not annuled.

2007-09-30 13:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 17, I was raped by a friend of mine. When I told one of my closest friends about it, he didn't believe me, so I didn't go to the authorities because I was too scared to think they wouldn't believe me either. I have tried forgetting that the rape ever happened for the past 6 years, but it has caused me to not be open and honest with others and not to trust anyone, including my friends and relatives. Recently, I've been going through a state of depression and just started reaching out to my friends telling them about my situation, which helped me stop blaming myself for the rape. I am looking to seek professional help because of my friends, but it is still very, very hard for me. Are there any other ways to get through this?

2007-09-30 13:46:14 · 10 answers · asked by LadyPrincess 1 in Friends

Theres this girl you are attracted to. What would make you want her more??
1. if you think your friends were getting in on the act, and you started getting a bit jealous ? or
2. she made you feel like you were the ONLY one she wanted

2007-09-30 13:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have a blended family. he has 2 girls, one of whom is 12, the other is 10. we have been having serious problems for a few months now. the girls mom has not really been in their lives for about 6 years, so i have basically co-parented these kids for 6 1/2 years now. the problem is that the 12 year old has been acting out by lying, sneaking, talking back and being very disrespectful to me. when i discipline her, she runs to my mother and law, or she will call her real mom, and say that ive been being mean, and turning everyone against me. my marriage is suffering greatly, because everyone takes the girls sides, including my husband. the 12 year old is getting so out of control, that i just feel like giving up most days and calling it quits with my marriage. my husband told me he wanted a divorce back in july because of a situation that was blown out of proportion. but i hung in there and convinced him that we should work it out. i am still unhappy, and so is he. help!!

2007-09-30 13:40:27 · 20 answers · asked by regina j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When they cheat they degrade themselves not you?

2007-09-30 13:39:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have decided to separate.I want to draw up an order of maintence and support.Can a paralegal do the or do I need an attorney?

2007-09-30 13:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by RS47 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 13:37:51 · 30 answers · asked by julie w 1 in Weddings

I have been with my ex for almost four years we have a 1 year old baby together. Over the last week he hit me and i broke up with him now, hes begging me to come back and telling me how he has changed and how i never gave him a second chance. My parents and friends all say no but they dont know him like i do i just really need some advice i dont have a clue what to do if i do go back with him then i will loose all of my friends and family and if i dont am i missing out on a good thing can someone really change after only 14 days

2007-09-30 13:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by PiXiE LuLu 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think? What do you think are the pros and cons of dating older woman??? Are these relationships more likely to fail or succeed?

2007-09-30 13:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged to get married soon. My boy friend want a kid irst but I'm in school. Alson in a diffrent country. He said he would come live with me. I love him and he trust worthy. Should I have the kid b4 or after the wedding? Either way I'm finishing school. Should I go thorugh with this relationship?

2007-09-30 13:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Have a quiet, smart, shy, sweet, athletic, brunette who wears hollister.

Or, a loud, bold, fun, blonde, popular girl who wears wetseal.


They both are pretty!

2007-09-30 13:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 13:29:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he tells me that he loves me but he has been talking and being with her for about a month. He tells me he's not in love with her but he cares for her. She works with him. I love him and we have two kids together. He tells me that it will never happen again. Her husband, her, me and him all had a little chat on speaker phone togther and she denied it all. but he has proof to everything. but she stills denies it. they tell each other they love each other. but he says he is just saying it. he doesnt mean it. he also says he wants to work it out. Let me know your opinions please....

2007-09-30 13:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by susan c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a man with no expectations for our dinner date in my hometown..unfortunately we hit it off big time.....i had a great time and I know he did too and was pretty happy..here is the problem....prior to his arrival, we chatted non stop and had lots of talks on fone, since our dinner date and his departure....He has not called me or even dropped me an email, but will IM me....whats up??? No matter what I had emailed him before visit....he responded to....now since visit, he has not responded to any of my emails...and no fone calls.....whats up with this? I so wanna tell him how i feel but dont' want to look too desperate....(he has lots of money)......why hasnt he contacted me? has he conquered his mission?

2007-09-30 13:26:53 · 5 answers · asked by dkeebo 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question and nobody answered me as am trying to solve my marriage issues. I used to be hurt always but never minded as there was nothing i was to tell and she accept it. However if a woman chose to spend nights on the couch while a husband slept on bed, i considered it as she don't want you or being around you when you man know that he did not put you out of bedroom. if she ever want to come to sleep on bed she sleep opposite way only for your husband to hold your legs and if he request you to sleep right you tell him " hell no". What do you think your husband would do/feel about you? what would you expect you husband to do?

2007-09-30 13:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 13:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by russellbob29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 13:18:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

brought you together ?

2007-09-30 13:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A man and I communicated on and off for a year. My last letter was sent snail not email, and he answered it with cologne on the paper. What a delicious scent. Should I write back with perfume? Does this mean he has a crush on me?

2007-09-30 13:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by franj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This will sound really stupid. Theres nthis guy at school that basically tricked me into telling him I'm bi. Know everytime we are alone somewhere we will say something along the lines of "I want you to f*** the h*** out of my tight a**" daily o.O I try to avoid him but he follows me and we have all the same classes. He would do things like hug me and one time he kissed me. I kind of liked it, but someone might see him and they will find out I'm bi.

2007-09-30 12:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What should I say?
I would like to consider a Female single sex college such as Smith, but I don't know how to tell my dad. Every time I bring up the subject he asks "Why would you want to go there?" Then he tries to be all jokey and say, "Are you trying to tell us you're lesbian?" I am not, I want to go because of the leadership oppurtunities and the academics but he won't listen. But mostly because I need to find myself and I want a place to do that. If anybody could help that would be great.

2007-09-30 12:55:05 · 4 answers · asked by lexusright 1 in Family

i have been "single" for about 4 weeks now,and i hate not having a boyfriend,there are plenty of boys at school that like me(it's very obvious),but they are not waht i am looking for at all. I love older guys too!17-20

2007-09-30 12:52:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He tried to start a figth with his best friend for no reason. I tried to stop it. In the process my husband pushed me down and then later threw me on top of a car. I have cuts and bruises but nothing major.

would you consider this abusive if he's never hit me before (we've only been married less than 1 year)? He wasn't very regretful even after he saw the damage to my arm because he says he doesn't remember the situation.

What do you think of this???

2007-09-30 12:38:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

On some nights he would rather play his game than have sex. I'm not upset to the point where I would break up with him, but it's been 4 weeks since we went on a date together. I still see him 3 to 5 days out of the week when he comes over for dinner and other things, but do you think this is something worth bringing up?

2007-09-30 12:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Singles & Dating

THEY ACT LIKE I AM THE FIRST WOMAN TO HAVE BIG HIPS AND THIGHS AND A BIG BOOTY AND BIG BREASTS...AND A PRETTY FACE.....I FEEL GUD SOMETIMES BUT OTHER TIMES.........IT FEELS WEIRD

2007-09-30 12:37:00 · 2 answers · asked by Ajah09 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i let my boyfriend know i need more romance? i love him to death but i'd like to have a couple romantic nights out every so often. he has potential i know it lol he always dedicates songs to me and he was on vacation over the summer and i had surgery and he sent me flowers. any advice is very much appreciated thanks!!!!

2007-09-30 12:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Becs 2 in Singles & Dating