A lot of the time, I feel so faded in the background. I feel like I have no friends, and I hate it. I feel ugly and many people make fun of me for being the shortest girl in the grade. My parents are no help, most of the time all they do is bash me about my personality and hit me when I do something wrong Help
2007-09-30 13:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rumnraisin, this is a name that I share with my cousin, who's the one posting those questions. She's 26 and married with twins.
2007-09-30 14:08:00 · update #1
just speak out say what your thinking, this will give people an insight to who you are.
2007-09-30 13:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Xenia♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I checked ur profile and just had to ask: Why is that ur previous questions are so inconsistent? Questions u have asked include u being married and pregnant, having twins & also being thirteen year old, and now being in school. Whats that about?
(New answer: Ok Marisa, I see the mix up. To answer ur question: I would suggest not viewing urself as ugly. Relate positively to yourself. You have to have someone to believe in u and u have to start with u. Consider the fact that there are people out there who are not even as physically attractive as you and are living great lives. So your destiny cannot lie in the way u look. Try and develop friendships with those around u, so as not to feel too alone.
Also, try not to take people's insults too personally. It reflects on the type of person they are. If u weren't there they'd do it to someone else. It just shows how awful they are. Ignore them or just laugh at how silly they are being. Hope this helps:-).
If u want to email me to talk u can do so anytime.
2007-09-30 21:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by rumnraisin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all no one is allowed to hit you, this is child abuse, and you are being verbally abused by your parents also. I am so angry at how your parents are treating you. You have low self esteem/confidence because of all this abuse from parents and in school. You need counseling, and you have to tell them how peers and parents are treating you. How can you have a good personality when your getting abused? You are probably depressed on top of all this. I feel so sad for you but you can change this. With counseling, and you have to tell your parents to stop hitting you and verbally abusing you and tell them how you feel or show them this. You need to put your head up and feel good about yourself. The people who are making fun of you have low self esteem themselves and are unhappy. Ignore bad behavior and look for positive things around you. Keep busy and join sports, clubs, etc... No one is ugly...everyone is unique on the outside, but if you have a big heart you are beautiful. Volunteer at a hospital or clinic for children. Become a mentor for a child. I wish you well...
2007-09-30 21:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Go to the police if your parents hit you for things you think you shouldn't be punished for. That's a crime.
2. Try to talk to someone at school you think you can trust. Great friends are often hidden.
3. Remember, you are beautiful inside and don't let anyone confince you otherwise.
~Schnawiggle~
2007-09-30 20:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Grace ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i always say if in school talk with a teacher or consul-or someone who is a specialist's , low self worth comes from within also i had trouble with it when i was young and Battle it some now and then but i look around at all the people without arms legs who are blind and so on and I do all i can to volunteer for me that helps beauty is what you think of your self if you light your light shine show people whats inside you may be surprised how tall you really are its not the size of our bobbies our otter looks that's makes us beautiful interspersing its our self worth how we love others in thee time of cruelty toward us our ability to forgive and be able to let them know the beauty you see in them and your light my dear will shine don't forget professions counseling to help you maybe talk with parents writing a anomyonus paper for school on inner respect and beauty so on many option to builds self worth my dear you are strong just for asking you are are ready shining and standing out very pruned of you keep working at it baby steps lead to bigger one my little pumpkin Dalton GA no ones perfect we all have things about ourselves wed like to change so just work with what your blessed with my sweet friend in the end you'll be on top.
2007-09-30 21:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to believe that you are as good as anyone else. You cannot keep bringing yourself down. The only thing low self esteem or worth will get you is a miserable life.
2007-09-30 20:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...for starts stand up for yourself, find friends that wont make fun of you, and who cares if ur short, most girls are, ur not a midget r u?? cuz then sorry idk people always gonna make fun, well just stand up for urself for now
2007-09-30 20:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick somebody's a@@.
Worked for me.
2007-09-30 20:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋