Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

I think she will be mad if I tell her but i need help,have any ideas ???????/

2007-09-30 15:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this boy have been talking for a few weeks. While most of the time we just hang out together by ourselves. The other day his best friend was over his house when I stopped by and he acted really funny towards me because his friend was there.

2007-09-30 15:11:58 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Singles & Dating

Went to a friends party and she let me know a guy at the party liked me. She was on the phone talking to him and he wanted my number but I really wasn't feeling him so I declined. Well he added me on his myspace and I saw pictures that looked like he was a big partier and turned me off. About a month later I started to think I might have made a mistake and I emailed him and gave him my screen name. We have been talking online and he seems nice but there is just something about him I don't like (not sure what). I think maybe I am being too shallow. I am not sure if I am too critical and expect too much. I think I'm a pretty good catch and think I have high hopes for a boyfriend. He wanted me to go out with him and my friend his weekend but I lied and said I was busy. Should I agree to go on a date with him? I'm just so nice and I don't want to go out with him just having one date and having to end it from there.

2007-09-30 15:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy hes 18 and im 13 and i have a older sister and my sister has been friend with him for along time and when i was little he would always play with me and if i was feeling bad he would chear me up . just last year i was outside and he was talking to his friend and one of them said if some body hurt lindsey i would jump him and then the boy i like he said he would kill him if he hurt me . i really like him and lately i keep seeing his name every were and its driving me crazy .

2007-09-30 15:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by b j 1 in Family

2007-09-30 15:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that people who owe back child support or who are behind on their support payments really need to have their driver's licence suspended. What do you think and the the reason(s) Why...

This happened to a good friend of mine just recently and he ended up losing his job,because of it. now he's way behind....Is it fair....Just wondering.. right? or Wrong?

2007-09-30 15:04:28 · 26 answers · asked by DoeDoe Bird 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a senior and i am SUPER shy. i dont want 2 be fowrard though,i just want to know the new kid on campus

2007-09-30 15:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want someone to hold me so bad, i want someone to take care of, i want someone to kiss and hug and smile with, i want sex on a regular basis, i want someone who makes me want to get up in the morning and look forward to the day. i don't think i'm ever gonna find it, how will i ever be happy? am i just destined to go through life without ever feeling that happiness, and being completely miserable?

2007-09-30 15:01:55 · 21 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think i'm being sexually abused by my brother and i'm tired of it. He makes rude nasty remarks that i do not appreciate. HELP!

2007-09-30 15:01:38 · 8 answers · asked by Riley K 1 in Family

My girlfriend keeps brining up stuff about how she's not sure if we can legally have sex and a 3 year rule and stuff. I was told by my teacher that the age of consent is 16, but I can understand how things might change since she's a minor and I'm not.

So. What's the truth?

2007-09-30 15:01:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always feel like i have all this love to give and no one to give it to. I Feel like i cant get anywhere in the girl depart. I feel like if one girl would just give me the chance, the light of day i could show her.....everything that makes life worth living. I feel like if they would all dump these assholes and go out with a real guy who cares they would feel so different. Its crazy how you can see yourself growing old with someone who doesnt know your interested. How can i...just get the chance?
Serious advice plz

2007-09-30 14:59:13 · 3 answers · asked by pogieboy316 3 in Singles & Dating

im about to be a fire fighter or a perametic would a girl think a firefighter is hotter or a perametic

2007-09-30 14:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by i know it all 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so here wats up im 15 and ive never had a bf and thats stressful and my parents have been divorced for 5 years & they bothare in deeeeeep financial trouble. (basically ive got more money then both of them together... no lie) they are both unemployed. my dad is a drunk and he has been sober for 3 months but he cant find work and hes depressed and i think hes going down the wrong road again. he does crack too and it scares me. my mom sleeps till 3:00 everyday and she is not motivated to work so i dont know how she will hold on to her house. my dad has tried to commit suicide more than once and pays prostitutes for sex all the time. my parents both dont have the money to send me or my sister to collage.. i get pretty good grades but i dont think its enough. it just scares me about where im going to be in 5-10 years. im just scared. advise anyone??

2007-09-30 14:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-30 14:54:18 · 17 answers · asked by peace 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy at my school. He's dating a new girl and he really likes her. he's in almost all my classes but i never sit beside him. I don't think my friends know I like him and I kinda don't want them to know. I use to like him then I gave up and stopped liking him. He knew I use to like him but he doesn't know I like him again. He's really cute and he's a really good student, I'm a good student too but I don't think he likes me. We use to be friends and still are! I NEED HELP!!! Please help me if you can!

2007-09-30 14:53:11 · 16 answers · asked by kelsie_92 2 in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, what is the biggest turn off when it comes to women.

Ex: bad breath, too skinny, too young, burps loudly...ect.

What's the absolute worst?

2007-09-30 14:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say older by ten yrs

2007-09-30 14:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends both have great relationships and now I can't seem to find a girl that I even like anymore. If I could find a girl that I like then I know where I would ask her to go out but I can't find a girl that I like. Can anyone help?

2007-09-30 14:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by shenaynay222 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi

My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/f before me 2 of which where serious but she said she was always in love with me.

As of this year I moved from Australia to New Zealand to begin a career in aviation because she next year will finish her law degree and I didnt wish to be left behind in terms of careers. Anyway she was really excited for me and she also decided to do 6 months in college in the USA, she would always talk about how good this would be for are relationship and such. Anyway i moved over to New Zealand in july and 2 weeks later she came to stay for a week before heading to the USA, everything was perfect she said she loved me more than ever and had a great week togther. Once she arrived in the USA she begun college straight away and 2 weeks in it was my birthday and she sent me a gift and a card saying how much she loved me and how being away from me made her realize how much she wanted to be with me.


I continued to get called by her and emails from her however I started to get a weird feeling in my stomach that something was changing in her. Anyway she is listed on facebook and I do not have a account so she didnt think i could see what was going on however my sister one day calls me up and tells me she (my g/f) has changed her relationship status from in a relationship to nothing. I started to get really concerned at this point however 2 days later she sends me another email telling me she only is thinking of me and all that crap. At this point I was very confused so I called her up and confronted her and she starts crying and all that and to cut along story short she breaks up with me (she also confessed to cheating on me) . At first she sounded like she would want to get back together when she got back but i kept calling her asking for answers and she seemed to push further away and almost act cruel towards me.

After all of this I made a facebook account and she added me and she is now listed single and has all these photos of her partying and drinking (which she use to hate and never did much drinking if any) she still writes and trys to call but only if I dont contact her for sometime. I also asked if I could come visit her when she finishes her time at college and she said yes (but she said no to me visiting whilst in college)I know she really likes a guy at the college and it hurts like hell because she will not admit to it, but on facebook she will hint at it by saying her crush is a secret. Also I have seen a photo of the 2 hugging.

What is going on? We where best friends and now I feel i dont even know her and she treats me like crap, I also have heard from friends she likes this guy she met but he is from argentina why would she throw everything away for something that could not possibly work?

This weekend is very hard because her and her friend (who she went with) are in Las vagas with 8 guys including the argentine. Also the friend she is with was always jealous of me and my g/f because we had such a good relationship I feel as if she has helped bring this all about.



Why is she acting cruel?

Why hasnt she taken any down time after are split? (she is listed on myspace as ecstatic)

Do you think we have a chance together?


Or do you think she has really moved on?


The one thing that really upsets me about all this is how she hasnt treated me like the best friend we use to be and also how she seems to have no heartbreak over all of this. I am hoping once she returns back to Australia and a normal life she might realise what she did and give me a real sincere apology for what she has done.

Any advice on what is happening would be great I really need it because all i see and hear is how much fun she is having I have even heard she wants to move there. Also when I ask her does she still ove me she says of course??

2007-09-30 14:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by Blake E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

did love you, but does not love you anymore, and also, hurt you very badly. Why do I still love him? My ex bf....even if he still loved me, I could not be with him because he betrayed me. But why do I still love him...I have not seen him in over a year, and he made it clear that he does not want to see me or talk to me, and I have cried literally everyday since. Please help me...I dont know how to deal with the pain and hurt.

2007-09-30 14:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not talking about regular clothes, but some of the tops and dresses women wear today show as much as half of their breasts (just enough to cover the nipples). Do they want the attention? Are most surprised by the attention?

2007-09-30 14:39:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like my coworker(though we're technically not since we work at different departments of a grocery store), and think he is cute and interesting. I smile, talk with him, and joke a little. The other day he had work, and I didn't, and I even said hi to him and talked with him. He blushed when he saw me(out of my unifrom for once), and I let him know I was upset he would be out all week from work. So basically...what can I improve?

2007-09-30 14:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Singles & Dating

She knows it and so does the whole family. But she won't leave and has alot of excuses. She also has a 8yr.old kid. I can give her all the help she needs. Should I keep on telling her that she can trust me and her brother or should I just let her be? Her husband is cheating on her with another dude, plus he uses cocaine and he verbally abuses her and physically.

2007-09-30 14:37:50 · 15 answers · asked by M.M. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and boyfriend have done almost all the dates,
we've gone to a movie
we've gone to a play
he's met my mom
we've had sushi

..well not everything but still, were only 15 and live far apart and only see eachother on weekends.
I really like him, but we cant seem to find out ideas!
and because of that i didnt even see him this weekend :(

2007-09-30 14:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i added a guy to my msn(well he added me like a week ago(8 days actually)

it been going all good, but like this past 3 days its been like...well hes been signed in a lot but he hasnt been starting the conversation i always have to be the one to im first. also when i do that he doesnt realy get into the conversation much. i asked him wuts up why are so quite but all he said was he had a lot of work to do.

so? wut up with him and me?
also i have to see him tomoro(same school) how do i act?

2007-09-30 14:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I find that the hardest job in the world is being a parent. I love my daughter, but never know if I am doing enough.

She lived with her father from age 10 to 15 and is now living with me. I feel sad because I live in another state and she had to leave her friends, etc.

I have put her in ACT review classes and just enrolled her in a tennis class. I have also looked into jewelry making and cake decorating classes because she expressed an interest in them.

I want the best for her. Yet, I feel that pressure . from my ex-husband. I keep deleting the messages that he leaves me because they are ususally abusive and mean.

If she expresses any sadness or unhappiness, he gets upset with me. Also, if she does not get a good grade, I know that he will get upset with me. I am trying to help her as much as possible.

Its a very difficult job being a single parent, but I am trying my best.....Does anyone have any tips?

2007-09-30 14:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

2007-09-30 14:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school right now and there's a girl that I really liked last year, but I was too shy to admit to it. Then, about halfway through the year, her seat was moved so that she sat in front of me in one of my classes. She started playing little games with me and sort of flirting. She also kept trwould stretch every once in a while to touch me and I was almost certain she like me back. Unfortunately, I got very intimidated when she started pursuing me and I managed to convince myself that she was just using me. When I saw her in class this year, I actually got mad at her for having used me even though I know she didn't and tried to convince myself that I didn't like her anymore, but I still do. I think she still likes me to some extent, but seems to have given up on me because I managed to almost completely avoid her last year. My question is very vague: I just want to know what you think I should do about this because I'm completely lost. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-09-30 14:32:11 · 4 answers · asked by Complete and Total Idiot 3 in Singles & Dating

Nowadays, each family member seems so preoccupied with each individual activities, that sometimes they could not bring themselves together anymore. Everyone seems to go his own way. No one cares anymore to reach out each other. EVERYONE SEEMS TO BE SOOO BUSY...
What's going on?

2007-09-30 14:32:04 · 7 answers · asked by tee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do men look out for "easy" targets - women who tend to be flirty and easyand agreeable to sex? Is it out of sexual fantasy?

Why do men tend to like them more than the good ones who behave, conduct, manage and lead themselves well and proper in their lives? What incentives do they get from these women rather than the good ones?

2007-09-30 14:32:03 · 5 answers · asked by Lost-Hurt-Disappointed 3 in Singles & Dating