I really like this guy at my school. He's dating a new girl and he really likes her. he's in almost all my classes but i never sit beside him. I don't think my friends know I like him and I kinda don't want them to know. I use to like him then I gave up and stopped liking him. He knew I use to like him but he doesn't know I like him again. He's really cute and he's a really good student, I'm a good student too but I don't think he likes me. We use to be friends and still are! I NEED HELP!!! Please help me if you can!
2007-09-30 14:53:11 · 16 answers · asked by kelsie_92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever I read things like this, it makes me wonder if there were ever girls who liked me back in grade school that I just never knew about. What a bummer!
I really think it's wrong of you to pursue a guy who is taken. I think you should hang back. If things don't work out with the other girl, then you should think about how you might pursue him.
2007-09-30 14:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if he really likes this girl, then i think you should start looking for other fish in the sea. are there really no other guys out there? in my opinion, i think you should move on, and just stay friends. chances are, since he sounds so perfect, lots of girls would be pining over him too. so it sounds like you might not be the only one wishing that he and her would break up. so, try to find someone else who does not already have a girlfriend. if there are really no better guys out there, and you REALLY like him a lot, then you should hang out with him as friends more. he'll then see how cool you are and how friendly you can be. he will then start to compare you to his girlfriend, and then maybe when they break up, he'll choose you as his next prospect. you could also try to hang around his friends more. if you hang out with them, his friends will start saying how cool you are to hang out with. that might open his eyes a bit. but i still think you should move on...and stop destroying a good relationship, since he so very clearly likes her back. i hope i don't sound mean, but i would just like to show you some good possibilities that you are open to. i have a friend who felt that way about a guy who dated another girl, so i know exactly what kind of advice to give. i hope i've been some help! =D
2007-09-30 22:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest with you, forget him.
I grew up without dating anybody until college. I mean, I am a really good looking guy, but academics was the first thing in my mind, nothing else.
There are millions of guys out there...millions!
That means millions of choices out there.
When I graduated from University of Texas, I ended up with a hot girl who I will marry someday.
Do you know why? Because of how hard I worked throughout school and avoided silly girls with small ambitions.
Point? Forget them stupid boys now and focus on school. Get the grades which should be AAAAAA's. Get into a great college. Meet lots of great people, smart and ambitious. One day, a great guy will appear.
Everything that had happened in high school or less means nothing to me. It's just a stupid phase.
2007-09-30 22:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this might not answer your question, but this is what happened to me. I like this guy for a while and I was always invisible to him. One day at school, I was being my normal goofy self and I feel flat on my ***. It was funny. I laughed. I did not see him until he came over to ask if I was alright and gave me a hand up. A week later he asked me out because he appreciates a girl that can fall in front of the whole school and laugh. We been going out for 4 years now, and we are now engaged even though I'm just 17lol. Be yourself. If he does not notice, he's the one missing out on a good thing.
2007-09-30 22:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a good platonic friendship with a guy whom you really like---I guess you will like to date him and be his girl.However, he is taken since he is dating a new girl he likes, but you want him to notice you in a romantic way--right?If you were to turn this story around and you were that new girl, how would you feel?Look, the guy has made his choice and it was not you. Don't lose your self respect,good name,and friendships on this situation.You are worthy of a guy who will be all yours and you will not have to share him with anyone.This is what you would have to do if you elect to go after this guy knowing all that you do about them. You deserve much more than that .So do not sell yourself short.
2007-09-30 22:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same postion. I really liked this guy he cute funy everyting in one pagage and I never told him i liked him because i was scard of rejection we were so close we stayed the night at each others house and everything and by the time i got to tell him it was already to late he had a girlfriend so one day i went to school lookng really cute and every guy asked for my number but i didnt give it out and than he noticed that i can get any guy and he asked me out and i said yes and now wereengaged and in high school!
2007-09-30 22:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey your in high school, they will not be together that long deal with it right now....never try to take another girl's man...it WILL happen to you later on with some guy your a dating. It could be 5-10 yrs from now, but it will happen
KARMA IS A B**CH
2007-09-30 21:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by KRAZEDnKONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt it be great if you got him to go out with you, you became boyfriend and girlfriend and then just when you were at your happiest, another girl comes and snatches the guy from right under you. I wonder how that would make you feel.
2007-09-30 21:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. Don't be the girl who comes in just to break up a couple. If he likes you he'll eventually come to you. In the meantime, forget about him.
2007-09-30 21:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, tell him you like him, I know it's hard but hey you gotta be direct, we guys don't know how to read hints. Don't be defensive, just tell him and if he likes you he'll tell you too. But be prepared for the opposite too.
2007-09-30 22:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋