Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

I went to a friend's for an 18th birthday party over the weekend, where there was quite a bit of drinking, l8 into the night, me and a girl friend of mine were dared to be the streakers for the evening, we both agreed, got undressed,gave our clothes to a couple of friends, and did it, i had to go from the side of the house, struggle down through the backyard full of people, over the back fence into an alley where my friends should've been waiting with my clothes- they weren't.so what started as a 10 min nude run, ended up as a streak and half hour waiting in an alley, before i finally swallowed my pride and went back in wearing bupkis, i pushed through the crowd, looking for my mates, and some people poured booze allover me before i finally found my clothes draped over a deck chair,mates nowhere to be seen.I just picked em up in a bundle, pushed through the indoor crowd, until i found a spare room to dry off and dress in.so embarrising but Its funny now, :).But what would you have done

2007-09-30 16:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls and sexy chicks pee out of their vaginas or their anus?

2007-09-30 16:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello there everyone! Sorry it's so late but this question has been picking at my mind all night!
O.K so me and my best guy friend might be going to spring fling together ( Spring fling is like a prom but with all grades ) and I can't go unless I get I have a date, my mother doesnt want to waste $600 on a dress for me to just go with my friends. So I asked my best guy friend to take me. I think he sort of likes me but I'm not sure? What should I do? Should I still go with him or should find another date? It might be a bad idea to try to find another date because I might not get one? Ughh what should I do?


Thanks!~

2007-09-30 16:39:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-30 16:39:20 · 2 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

i keep seeing questions from children, why? this is suppose to be for married/divorced adults. who lets their kids read this stuff? can you block them?

2007-09-30 16:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by paula t. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seventeen and still have not lost my virginity. I graduate in may 2008 and then I leave for the military. I doubt I'll lose it there? I am going crazy. I don't want to have random sex with just anyone at my school because that is not the type of person I am, but everyone at school has sex with everyone and I feel so left out. What should I do? Can you lose your virginity in the US Air Force? What should I do?!!!!!!!!

2007-09-30 16:34:08 · 19 answers · asked by Jarod 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my name is Emma i'm 12 and i live with my dad, and 2 little step sisters and step mom. my step mom is only live to my step sisters which are her kids. when she moved into our 2 bedroom house (it was my dad and i , thats why it was so small) i had to move into the attick, which is my room now. and my 2 step sister got my room. she makes me clean the whole house, wassh dishes, do laundry, baby sit, EVERYTHING. when i said no she smacked me across the face. ive been talknig to my dad but he says shes a great person. HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME ANYMORE. my mom died last year, and i dont have any other siblings or family members to live with. HELP ME PLEASE.

2007-09-30 16:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i told her to back off...i met him first. she's say's i'm an embarassment to her since she went to school with him. i say she is just jealous since he picked me over her...is there a way i can report my daughter and have her removed from myspace???

2007-09-30 16:16:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently started seeing a guy that I go to school with. It's been a long time since I've been in a relationship, and this has the potential to turn into something great. My only problem with him is that he is racist and against gay people. My best friend is black and is gay.

My best friend is not too offended, but it does bother him a little bit. He wants me to pursue a relationship with the guy, but is still feeling a little awkward about it all. The guy is amazing, and I have strong feelings for him. Do I give up the opportunity for something great, or having things be awkward between him and my best friend?

2007-09-30 16:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, well me and my bf broke up today because he called me dumb and retarded, it wasnt the first time he called me that but it always hurts me and makes me cry and he knows that, anyway we had been together for a year and six months, should i ask him to get back with me or not....???

i really neeed help and i dont know what to do.......♥

2007-09-30 16:11:49 · 12 answers · asked by cute as a button!.♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Why are men not rated fairly in picture ratings.

This guy 8.1
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This guy 9.9
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2007-09-30 16:11:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother lives in so cal and I live in nor cal I am her only child and she is not married right now she is in the hospital having emergency surgery because one of her lungs collapsed. Now she has Muscular dystrophy so bad that she can't get out of bed yet she smokes pot and cigarettes. The people that take care of her are allowing that. Which is the reason I need to intervene. She is my only mother and I am her only daughter. We didn't always have the best of relationships but its good now. How can I save her before its too late?!?!?!

2007-09-30 16:09:44 · 4 answers · asked by Amber M 1 in Family

I don't I am the type of girl if you say another girl looks hot I'd slap you on the butt and be like yeah she is. Why get mad over something stupid like that? He is coming home to you and it's not like you do think other guys are good looking. It's a part of life.

2007-09-30 16:08:03 · 8 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i dated for almost 2yrs. We had a very good relationship but I had a lot of issues to deal with. only issue is i took out a lot of my anger on him bc of things from my past. He finally blew up at me and said a lot of hurtful words. At first he asked 4 some time but i kept trying to fix things quickly I made him more angry. I thought if i kept holding onto him it would help but he said he didnt want to see me or talk to me yet. He said he eventually wanted to be friends but for now it was too hard to talk. i told him id give him a month and he said he would think about giving me another chance. I dont know how sincere he was..but thats wat he agreed to. Right now, i hear hes keeping busy, doing things w. the guys. i dont know if that means hes moved on. Cuz im so sad but why does he seem so fine going out having fun w. all the guys. If he missed me wouldnt he have called me by now? Does it even seem like we have a chance. i am trying to change. wat can i do? I realized so much

2007-09-30 16:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd never really thought about marriage before, or religion for that matter, but I recently heard that you need to get "confirmed" in order to marry.

Now, this doesn't seem right to me, because as far as I know, you only get confirmed if you're christian or catholic. (I could be completely wrong, I have no idea) I also heard that apparently only one of you has to be.

I'm mostly positive that if that is true, you can still get a more legal marriage without a conformation of sorts.

That being said, is it possible to have the more traditional wedding (church, after party, etc) without being confirmed in a religion?

I live in MN USA, if that makes a difference.

Any information would be appreciated, as I'm both a stranger to relgion and the details involved in weddings.

2007-09-30 16:05:17 · 15 answers · asked by Aj 2 in Weddings

when she hears some one call me by my nick name she will repeat it sometimes and she walks pretty close and sync with me. I walked really close to her one day and as i walked by out of the corner of my eye i could see her eying me down and she constantly fixes her hair and clothes when im near. Today she hid something on me and i still cant find it but i know she is the one it moved it but she hasnt told me. I was sitting next to her and she kept brushing agiasnt me and she would keep her arm touching mine more a while like it didnt bother her at all we were touching. ME make eye contact quite often with blank expressions in croweded places

im 18 in high school this is all pretty subtle and we know eachother but not really good

2007-09-30 16:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-30 16:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 30 yr old son that has turned against me ever since he married his wife. Now they choose to keep my grand kids away from me. My grand kids love me very much and want to see me. I divorced his father because of infidelity and other issues. My daughter in law keeps fixing my X up with women and shuts me out of their lives. She insists on constantly doing everything with her family and her friends. He doesn't do anything with any of his family. She has even broke my 2 sons apart. Recently my Mother passed away from a lenghty battle of cancer. My grand kids did not even really know her. My son and daughter in law never took the kids to see my Mom. After my Mom passed then they put on a big show. Now I am going through the same thing with my Dad. At this point in my life I am ready to just move away so as that my grand kids don't beg to see me and get in trouble. I can honestly say that I hate my son and his wife. I wish I never had him. He has been a huge dissapointment to me.

2007-09-30 16:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-30 16:00:43 · 2 answers · asked by devonh7 2 in Friends

2007-09-30 15:59:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so their is this girl that i have dated before and i messed up.i didnt do anything bad it was just a stupid mistake and about a year has past of us not talking to each other she dosent hate me but every time i walk past her she mostly shyly looks away. and sometimes she lightly smiles at me. anyway i still have feelings for her but i am too nervous to tell her how i feel or to even ask her out. any advice

2007-09-30 15:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16, a basketball varsity...should i control or stop myself of the feeling of being gay? i like to see naked men and enjoy myself looking at my team mates naked in the shower. i also kind of masturbate to mem porn but all of these are very secret. im ashame or afraid that they found out my feeling that i will be outcast especially my dad, my elder bro and my best buddy. i have my girl friend for two years now and we had some kissing that i also became very aroused. we plan to have sex soon but i dont know

2007-09-30 15:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my mom is taking my dad to court, it says for 1 child its 17% out his check. he gets paid $23 an hour,works 5 days a week for 8 hours a day i did the math and it came out to like 600 a month but for the last 3 years, he has been only paying 200 a month only cause it was dont threw divorce papers. but we are going so the court can increase the payments. but he had miss two paying in february and in march to punish me because he said(which i didnt)rolled my eyes at him. my question is will they make him pay it? would it be right away? and do you think i will get at least 500 a month ?
my dad make at least $20,000 more then my mom and she only gets paid $9 an hour . tell me what you think.

2007-09-30 15:48:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when they say they want a woman to submit to them?

i'm asking because i grew up without a father/father figure, so i don't really understand what a healthy (?) relationship looks like. there are many, many women out here like me. we don't understand what "submit" means... to us it just sounds like "beat on me, cheat on me, take all my money." but is that really what it is?

how does a woman let a man be a man?

i hope this doesn't get ugly or childish.

thanks

2007-09-30 15:47:03 · 24 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in an interfaith marriage...I am an atheist. My wife is not muslim, but her family is. She insists that my family come...even though I hate my family. What should I do?

2007-09-30 15:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by John 1 in Weddings

For the past 1.5 months I've been spending every spare moment with this girl and I've fallen deeply in love with her. I have never had such strong feelings before, I don't know what to do. This situation is complicated by a boyfriend who lives on the other side of the country. I'm usually very respectful of relationships but when I first met her I thought she was single so it was regular dating. Her and I are so close and share very strong connections and chemistry, it's like fireworks when I'm with her and I sense that she feels the same way when I look into her eyes. I mentioned we spend every moment together and even sleep together every night but no sex. I give her massages and keep her warm at night; we are basically just "cuddle buddies." She does not want to cheat on her bf, respectfully, but she makes a lot of sexual comments (dirty minded girl). I'm going crazy, I want her for myself. can anyone give me some suggestions. Thank you.

2007-09-30 15:41:54 · 3 answers · asked by KnowinG 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been friends since middle school, he live like 5 houses down the street. his parents aren't usely home, so i go with him on the weekends, and stay until 12:00 AM with him, just talking listening o music, etc.

i like him, we have alot in common, whatever i think, he thinks, we say the same things, and like the same things, i keep leaning my head on his shoulder, just for fun, but he dosen't seem to mind.

im bisexual, he "straight", i've had a girlfriend before, he hasn't, im not a virgin, he is, it looks like every year, he likes a diffrent girl, and keeps stalking them, but i still like him for it.

how can i make him like me?

2007-09-30 15:41:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

got a detailed bill, his boss says their just friends, he says just let them be friends,whats the matter with that...i said he's married to me not a bar whore. goes out at nite her husband knows doesn't care dsnt care not going thr. another divorce.tells me to ride by work,see him,he's on the phone, not his. tells me i'm delousional ,crazy,seeing things,i'm trying to work it out (hard)what tipe of friend would do that he gets every thing he needs at home...&more.how can i get over the hurt?i'm trying to work this out,but his friend thinks i'm making a big deal..he even told me he was leaving me for her, she won't leave her mill$$$husband.. not totally stupid has their cake and eats it too..hurts everyone in between we've been with each over28yrs.

2007-09-30 15:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16 and im a shy girl and i know im not ugly at all, if fact ive heard from people that im really cute... but why dont i have a bf then!?? i know im shy but geez... im think ill just give up and wait until after high school and college to try to get a date... whatever.. :(

2007-09-30 15:36:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I completely destroyed my entire life. I betrayed and lied to the only person who ever truly loved me. In doing so I ruined my family, and hurt my daughter by splitting up her parents. I lost it and messed up everything I had worked for my whole life nor to mention all the pain and anguish I caused my wife and daughter. I don't deserve sympathy, I am ashamed and embarrased of what I did. I cannot do anything to repair it, some things you just can't take back. I have told everyone we know the whole truth and taken full responsibility and apologized profously but no apology could ever be enough. I don't want to die, I just don't think I am worth being here anymore and think everyone would be better off without me.

2007-09-30 15:35:47 · 42 answers · asked by eleroth 3 in Marriage & Divorce