My bf and i dated for almost 2yrs. We had a very good relationship but I had a lot of issues to deal with. only issue is i took out a lot of my anger on him bc of things from my past. He finally blew up at me and said a lot of hurtful words. At first he asked 4 some time but i kept trying to fix things quickly I made him more angry. I thought if i kept holding onto him it would help but he said he didnt want to see me or talk to me yet. He said he eventually wanted to be friends but for now it was too hard to talk. i told him id give him a month and he said he would think about giving me another chance. I dont know how sincere he was..but thats wat he agreed to. Right now, i hear hes keeping busy, doing things w. the guys. i dont know if that means hes moved on. Cuz im so sad but why does he seem so fine going out having fun w. all the guys. If he missed me wouldnt he have called me by now? Does it even seem like we have a chance. i am trying to change. wat can i do? I realized so much
2007-09-30 16:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The absolute worst thing you can do is contact him, or even ask a friend about him. You need to busy yourself. Join a new club, take a class, go skating - whatever, just get BUSY. If you keep pushing him like you have been, you'll push him right out of your life!
2007-09-30 16:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you need to give him time like he asked for. I know you may regret it now but you also have to think about the hurt and your attitude when you were together. Give him time and I know it's painful for you but bugging him right now will not help the situation. Just let him know that you love him and that it took that to realize how wrong you were, and how sorry you are. Leave it at that. If you guys were together that long I'm almost positive that he will call eventually because you have a piece of his heart. Just give it time for now. If he doesn't call then unfortunately you may have made a big mistake. A mistake that you know not to make in your next relationship.
2007-09-30 23:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a drinker..??? Or you are such a jelaous person..???
If he is a drinker,..forget it,..you can't count on him
They are nice and cute and know how to deal with women,..but they hardly keep long lasting relationship.
If you are such a jelaous person, hard to be reasonable and logical,..you can keep training to be more mature and logic...need time .
Do not expect he gonna miss you, and do not need to bother think of does he miss me,...
you just spend time for nothing.
Move on,..do positive thing and think about somethingelse that better than think of him.
If he is you soul mate won't go away.
How hard you try if he is not your soul mate,..still
you won't be together.
Take it easy, and relaxed.
I know that is not easy,....but when you give it a try you gonna wonder one day,.how you can go through tough time,.and you can share with other people who need it.
Good luck....and move on in positive think and attitude.
2007-09-30 23:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by maysie64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
well guys tend to keep busy when stuff is bothering us, that way we dont have to think about it.
I'd say, next chance you get when your talking to him, just tell him what your feeling, what you realized, and how you want to change and be a better gf for him.
2007-09-30 23:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up at his house in a see through bra, a can of Cool Whip and some condoms.
He'll warm up.
2007-09-30 23:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PFT! No chance for you! If you're going to explode at him for things that happened in your past, I don't see why he'd want to go back to you! It wasn't his fault you guys broke up, so that's why he's so easy with this.
2007-09-30 23:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by unlivingrequiem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋