got a detailed bill, his boss says their just friends, he says just let them be friends,whats the matter with that...i said he's married to me not a bar whore. goes out at nite her husband knows doesn't care dsnt care not going thr. another divorce.tells me to ride by work,see him,he's on the phone, not his. tells me i'm delousional ,crazy,seeing things,i'm trying to work it out (hard)what tipe of friend would do that he gets every thing he needs at home...&more.how can i get over the hurt?i'm trying to work this out,but his friend thinks i'm making a big deal..he even told me he was leaving me for her, she won't leave her mill$$$husband.. not totally stupid has their cake and eats it too..hurts everyone in between we've been with each over28yrs.
2007-09-30 15:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have a cheating husband 28 years also, with a woman at his office she even tryed to be my friend i put spactator on our computer it copys everything he does online i made copys of all his cheating email and trips and copys of everything he has in stocks and bonds get all your ducks in a row .. apply for every credit card known to man kind get a cash advance from differnt banks all on the same day.. when you go to court say you have a stress gambling problem.. he will have to pay oops ! you can get spoof caller it on the internet 10 bucks for 60 min you put in your phone number his and the number you want to show on his caller i d super fun and you can see how he would talk to her .. if you know his pin on his cell you can get a chip that sends all his calls to your email check out woman savers .com it tells all kinds of stuff for free to help woman who have been cheated on don't take it f him over hard....................................
2007-09-30 16:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of crap!
You are being hurt and you know it, otherwise you wouldn't be here.
Honey GET a DIVORCE NOW!!!
Do not even talk to him after you move out, If you have children let him leave messages for you on a voice mail BUT, do not talk to him!
3 men in my life did the same thing to me and they also smoothed talked there way back into my heart (and Bed) after I broke it off.
I wanted to die because of the pain I felt. He's a dog and a dog that can't be trained to stay in his own yard!
Leave him before you wake up at 41yrs. and wonder what you did in your life!
2007-09-30 23:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Numb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't deal with that crap. I don't totally get what all you said, but I would consider counseling or getting out of the relationship.
2007-09-30 22:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In plain English...Instead of being on this computer you should be packing your stuff and waiting on the cab
2007-09-30 22:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your hubby is horrible and therefore you need to find a good lawyer and serve him papers and throw him out. don't leave him nothing. period.
2007-10-04 20:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't be a doormat for anyone. You can do bad all by yourself!
2007-09-30 22:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!
2007-09-30 23:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rainwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋