Im 16 and im a shy girl and i know im not ugly at all, if fact ive heard from people that im really cute... but why dont i have a bf then!?? i know im shy but geez... im think ill just give up and wait until after high school and college to try to get a date... whatever.. :(
2007-09-30 15:36:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds good. You'll be the one of the million girls who gave up on love when things went wrong.
2007-09-30 15:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to open up to people. Sometimes being shy is what is keeping people away because they don't know how you feel and they might think you will not talk to them. You shouldn't give up on love though, love can be great sometimes, when you find the right one. And honey, if you open up to people I'm sure that you will find a guy who is really good for you. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who have seen how cute you are but are afraid to approach you because you may think you are shy but they might view you as intimidating because they never get a chance to talk to you. It isn't that hard, just smile at people sometimes in a friendly way, that way they know you are friendly and they will be able to come up and approach you, also that gives you the advantage because you won't have to approach them. Good luck and I'm sure you will find a guy for you, don't give up on love yet. And remember there are plenty of guys out there, some are really shy too, just talk to some people and you'll meet some really cool people
2007-09-30 22:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by i4munwritten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be a bad idea to wait until your twenties! :) Just kidding... I know 16 is the time for boyfriends. I had a boyfriend at 16 and it was just such a confusing time for me. I thought I was so grown up, looking back on it now, I wish I would have just spent my time at the mall with my friends, or just tried harder at school instead of being with my bf. I'm not saying to avoid boys, just don't rush it. Concentrate on what makes you a sweet girl and continue being the girl everyone likes, eventually you'll catch the eye of a sweet guy who wants to get to know you :)
2007-09-30 22:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by L.A. Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup that was totally me a few years ago. Most guys are scared to approach attractive ppl, especially if they're shy (thats what I've heard). Just try to be a little more friendly, give hints sometimes! It'll increase the chances =P
2007-09-30 22:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 years old. A senior in High School. I've given up a long time ago. Girls seem to have no interest in me. I've asked many girls out, but I was never successful.
I'm also very shy. Girls have went up to me once and told me I'm sexy. A girl asked me to the prom last year, but I told her I'm too old.
Do you want to be friends? Just email.
2007-09-30 22:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most 16 year old guys only want one thing anyway not a real relationship so just take your time it'll be ok love will come to you! dont go looking for it. i met and got with my husband when i was 15 and weve been together for 7 years now so just be patient sweetie and just concentrate on school! theres one special person in the world for you and he'll be worth waiting for! ;-)
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-30 22:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't date until college, and then i made up for lost time. I had lots of boyfriends in college and it seemed like the more guys the more guy problems. Enjoy being single and care free for now, you'll have tons of guys chasing after you soon enough.
2007-09-30 22:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 16 to and i was really shy untill i met my girl and we have been together for a year and she didnt even know i liked her. i bet the guy that likes you is really sweet anf shy and you've never met or even thought about him you just need try to find him.
2007-09-30 22:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by gabs/pokelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never dated in high school, mostly because i was shy and i came from a small town. but then when i went to university i had lots of dates without even trying. don't worry about it, you've got plenty of time.
2007-09-30 22:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya wait. Your 16, you dont need a bf then.
2007-09-30 22:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋