Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

wel last week i was chattn to an old mate of mine and he asked me if my frend who iwas tryn to set hm up with is still single. myfrend was on an off with her bf so i thgt i shud ask her and see what she says.
i txt her and she told me to giv hm her other numbr whch her bf doesnt knw she has....
wel wen i start tellln dis guy abt my frned he realises dat he already knows her and knows that she has bf!!!
so i jus say to hm she broke up with hm last week..but told hm to leave it for now...
then my frned she txts me sayn my bf read ur txts and hes really pissd off with you!!!!
and he wants me to choose between u an hm becasue he thnks im not a good frned to hav wantd to ruin her relationshp by gettn anothr guy involved...
now she xt me sayn that shes goin to send me a mean msg telln me that her bf doesnt approve of her talkn to me so she wants me to stop txtn her an stuff and wantd me to send one sayin dont worry il leave u alone for good now!!!just thngslik that so she cud prove2hm

2007-10-04 23:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by bushra s 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a neighbour last year and her son hung around with my son, me and her son were talking and he said that his mum needed a good friend, so the next time i seen her i asked her in for a cuppa, she agreed, we got on like a house on fire, and everything was rosy, she was coming over everyday, eating here, her and her son, (im disabled) and she said that she wouldnt helping me, by doing housework because my daughter was at college all day, i offered to pay her and she refused, so i said that i would feed her everyday and that is how i would pay her for the work that she was doing.
We had a birthday party for my other son, and I seen another side of her, she had a few drinks and the I heard her life story, after that every time she had a drink thats the only thing that would be talked about, she went very possesive, telling me when i could go out and when i couldnt, also she went very weird with my daughter evrytime we talked she would butt in, if we had a disagreement she would butt

2007-10-04 23:48:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-04 23:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful Glory 4 in Singles & Dating

His father left when he was 14 months old and I have no real contact infomation.

2007-10-04 23:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by dramaqueen 2 in Family

My girlfriend and I had big disagreement the other night. We had an argument because she thinks its 'reasonable' to spend $35k upwards on a wedding. Not including honeymoon! I said I think its a bit ludicrous.

Her arguments are:

- You only get married once (You hope anyway)
- You have to invite all family otherwise they think u will snob them (She has big family)
- Dont be a tight ****!
- This is the day I been waiting for my whole life

My arguments are
- Its a day that only WE will remember the most, to others its really a wedding
- A better part of the $30k can go towards a world trip, another investment property
-A big debt like that can put you further back than you think
- You can enjoy a wedding with the effort and time without spending the world!
-I dont have all that money to go toward a wedding

I need ideas of how we can work this out. I really love her so much its just something we cant agree on.

2007-10-04 23:31:48 · 17 answers · asked by NFI 2 in Weddings

2007-10-04 23:25:42 · 2 answers · asked by RHODELCHRIS76 1 in Weddings

I was dating my b/f for nine months. I was really into him, and I thought he was into me. Right toward the end, rather unexpectedly, he broke up with me. He says its because he doesn't want to be a stepfather/can't deal with my kids. He can't see his own children much because of the custody problems. I've tried to include him with the children and we all love him. I told him we should seek counseling and I would try anything to keep things together. For awhile we didn't speak. So I gave up. He got a new g/f, but apparently that didn't last. He called me about eleven months after the fact, and wanted to come over. He said he still thinks about me and misses me, etc.. He spent the night. He said he would call. He hasn't. I called once but didn't leave a message. I still love him and I haven't wanted to date, meet anyone new. I want him to make the move since he was the one who broke up to begin with (this was the third break up). I want to call him? should I? any advice?

2007-10-04 23:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by hawaiiwahine71 1 in Singles & Dating

How can i get this guy who isnt in my classes or grade to notice me? i only see him round school at lunch or interval. what small things can i do to get him to notice me? should i try waking in to him "accidently"? i need tips :)

2007-10-04 23:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

The words that we want to tell our dads often come either too late, or not at all. If you were given the chance to voice those unspoken words that are often playing in the back of our minds, and then shape our life. . What would you say to him?

2007-10-04 23:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by mousedude 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Many people say that theres no need to worry if your beautifull or ugly, cause one day you will find a guy/girl that will love ya! Well i think thats Bulls**t, cause i dont want to find a girl when im like 25 years old, and i realy think its unfair cause ugly people to find a girl they have to realy try hard for it but beautifull people dont need to do anything about it, it just comes every day, why did god made it this way ffs.

So basicly ugly people are like always sad cause they cant kiss or make love with the girl they realy love and that is realy unfair. But some people dont even care about girls and dont even care about them selfs, and thats stupid.


There has always been a girl that, the only think i want from her is to like me, and i dont want to be with her just to f**k her, i want to BE with her to know her to hug and kiss her nothing else, WHY CANT THAT COME TRUE!! WHY SO UNFAIR!

and here is a pic of me http://photos1.hi5.com/0006/248/290/UiFtZ5248290-02.jpg

2007-10-04 23:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by dionisis50 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 23:08:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a hindu girl can marry with a muslim boy without any hurdles of society as we know in indian judicial system it is legal and fully valid,both are legally mature,

2007-10-04 23:03:23 · 14 answers · asked by Dr.J.U. B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy I have been seeing for a bit, we have been arguin a lot and I dont really think he sees me as a priority. He has been treating me rather coldly and he says its my fault as I insulted him now he is quite cold to me and rude. He lives put of town and he is coming to town this week end, I got mad at him and called him a B*****d cos he has really been treting me like crap and we have had sex. Any way last nite he was like he will try to see me this week end and he is not making any promises. I rang him to talk to him then he tells me we should take a break in the presesnce of his friend. He then txt me saying "Now you are getting on my nerves I have dealt with you in a mature manner but u seem to not understand me, we had sex, everybody has sex I did like you which led to lur passion but your attitude stinks, when you grow up give me a call, we are still friends." This coming from a guy who I spoke to and said he would try and see me. I replied him saying no worries about seeing me

2007-10-04 22:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do people think about this:
What age is too young for sex? I am 16, and my boyfriend is 18. We have been been going out for 4 months, and we both love each other, and have never felt this way about any other previous relationships and are both into long term commitment.

2007-10-04 22:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by bloodyy_beats 1 in Singles & Dating

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!
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31 minutes ago
Sex is one the the things that keeps a marriage alive! anf he said that I was the childish one cause I dont understand that he's tired and we should have sex early, but we live with my parents, so we cant have sex early! and the baby doesnt sleeps until 12:00 pm, so we cant do it anyway, I dont know whats wrong with him, I feel like he doesnt love me or see me atractive! I know hes not cheatig on me but a man cant live without sex either! Help me please!

21 minutes ago
I dont like to be the one who always starts the sex! when we have sex he goes straight to you know where, Im sick of it, I wish he was the one who kisses me all over, but no Im the one who does all that, I have talk to him about it many times, all he did tonight was left the room and sleep in the couch didnt say good night to our baby either like everyother night! is wierd cause Im his 3 girls that he has sex with,
I am a very sexy woman Im not fat, I dont know what Im doind wrong!

2007-10-04 22:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 18, my girlfriend is 16. We've had a long distance relationship for over 2 years and get to see eachother about once a month. anyways, I love her and my plan was to move to Missouri (She lives in Missouri, I in Kentucky) after I graduated and go to college there to be with her, and then we could be together you know? Well I have been talking about my career choice to her for a while, and at first she was okay with it, untill i told her shed have to move with me to L.A. or Nashville for the career I want. (I'm going to be a recording engineer and eventually a producer of a recording studio and one day found my own. I know people will say "dont have big expectations in the music industry, but I have family that actually work in a recording studio in Nashville as a stuido musician, and in L.A. that work on post production audio for Dreamworks, so I have connections. Im getting a major in buisness, a minor in music, and going to recording school) Well when she found out that we would have to move she said that if I chose this career choice, that she would not go with me. She said she wouldnt move for me (although im moving to missouri for her), because she doesnt want to be away from her family. I dont want to give up my dreams as I love audio engineering (I currently do recording work in a studio in my basement i built). Should I follow my dreams, and pursue this carreer, or give it up and stay with her?

2007-10-04 21:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!
Additional Details

13 minutes ago
Sex is one the the things that keeps a marriage alive! anf he said that I was the childish one cause I dont understand that he's tired and we should have sex early, but we live with my parents, so we cant have sex early! and the baby doesnt sleeps until 12:00 pm, so we cant do it anyway, I dont know whats wrong with him, I feel like he doesnt love me or see me atractive! I know hes not cheatig on me but a man cant live without sex either! Help me please!

3 minutes ago
I dont like to be the one who always starts the sex! when we have sex he goes straight to you know where, Im sick of it, I wish he was the one who kisses me all over, but no Im the one who does all that, I have talk to him about it many times, all he did tonight was left the room and sleep in the couch didnt say good night to our baby either like everyother night! is wierd cause Im his 3 girls that he has sex with,
I am a very sexy woman Im not fat, I dont know what Im doind wrong!

2007-10-04 21:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Real question is, how many of you, who are involved in a serious and long relationship and either you or your partner have cheated, and still are together? If you are still together, is your relationship sucessful? Have you truly forgiven the issue?

2007-10-04 21:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by Sesoid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Home or somewhere what is the name of that place?

2007-10-04 21:43:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

HI, tonight is been a horrible night! I know my husband for 1 year and 9 months we had a daughter 8 months ago everything was perfect before we had our baby we used to have sex almost every night, I mean wild sex! and it seem to e that he loved it, well After I had my baby we had sex maybe 3 times a week, but is been like 4 months that we only have it three times a month!
He comes from work watches TV for like 30 to 45 minutes then he eats then play the play station, spends a little bitof time with our baby! then do homework for like 2 hours then gets in the shower, he goes to bed sometimes and doesnt say good night! and today we had and argument because he doesnt want to do anything with me, and he says that he's very tired and needs to get some sleep for next day to work! I told him that sex is very important in a marriage and he said that it is not important to him, and I say that he was very wrong and imature for saying that, because sex is one the the things that keeps marriage!

2007-10-04 21:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married to a great woman and she has a great personality, we have been together for a long time but in recent months she has gained too much weight and now looks like a diabetic walrus that got kicked in the face by a drunken midget wearing platform shoes, she is hideous and if you try to take her food away she will foam at the mouth and throw a frying pan at you!!

What do I do?!

2007-10-04 21:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by I Like Cheese 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hav been married to k for da pass 5 yrs. i hav been put through hell. i hav tried to make things work hoping things will be good with us but i find myself living a big lie and i cannot play this role anymore. im a malaysian and i hav a 3yr old son. im worried about his future as i cant see any future wit my husband. i need legal advise from sumone who can give some good advise on getting a divorce. i have thought this through n this is my final my decision. i would really appreciate if someone out ther could sincerely assist me. tks.

2007-10-04 21:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by lilady_d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres a guy in my school who isnt in my grade or ANYTHING how can he notice me? i need little things i can do. like little things to make him remember me. :)) this boy is totaly cute. :P hope he isnt the jerk type, im pretty shy so dnt get too outrageous lol.

2007-10-04 21:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

my partner for almost six years have recently decided to call it quits. I could not accept it, and after pleaing and cajoling and throwing tantrums, he began saying things that i found hard to believe to be coming from him. He had not thrown invectives at me but the things that he said tore me apart. Every thing that I thought he meant when we were together were all just a front. I want to break his neck for just saying things that draggled my pride. I just want to move on. But I dont know how to start. I loved him

2007-10-04 21:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by eluded one 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend but we have a long distance relationship because he was working. he was 21 and i'm 16.. we only meet each other once a month.. one time we meet at the hotel and we almost had done sex.. but thanks it dit not happen.. what we did is just making each other's body happy.. yes, he had seen mywhole body.. the problem is that my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend that's why our relationship is in secret.. i feel that i am fooling my parents.. what shoul i do? should i broke up with my bf? but i love him he even ask me to get married but i'm still very young.. help me plz...

2007-10-04 21:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by tin 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner 2 years and we have a 5 month old baby he has started wearing boxer shorts & sometimes tracksuit bottoms in bed he has always slept in the nude previously and also gets dressed downstairs now I am lucky to have sex with him once a week I have asked him if he still loves me and said I am concerned he said not to panic and he still loves me but things really dont feel right. He says he is just worried about providing for the family in the future and his stressed. should I be worried he is cheating or bored with me

2007-10-04 21:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My male friend has been in a long distance relationship for a two yrs now as his gf is in uni he sees a couple times a week. Shes in uni for two more yrs but he has told me he has had two previous relationships both for 1 yr and the one he was engaged too. Hes engaged to his latest girl. He seems very lonely and am wondering is it good for him. He is constantly tired and is not sleeping well and i know it could be to do with work but alot of people say they arent a great match and on holiday pictures theyre not even looking the same way as one another

2007-10-04 21:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by mikamika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

WE fight for everything and anything

2007-10-04 21:01:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

So I met the girl of my dreams in class. Caught her looking at me and smiling at me, and I thought "holy ****, seriously" so over the next two weeks or so,I am shy, i get the nerve to talk to her. Nervous, I sound retarded, but I manage to make her smile. Four days later, nervous again, I talk to her and get her number. She gives me her number, and I called the next day.No answer. Called again a few days later, nothing. Now when I see her, she ignores me! it hurts so much, I want to die. I can't stop tjhinking of her. Why would she do that to me? Especially since she knows I am shy and nervous and stuff? this sucks. And I have been through the whole breakup thing a couple times, but this hurts more than anything i ever been through my whole life. I don't know what to do, I have to go to class 3 days a week with her, but i have been ditching classes to avoid seeing her ignore me. Why is she doing this to me? I wanna die so bad, but all I can do is type this..What can i do? Help me.

2007-10-04 20:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I always have the last word in the relationship. I need someonewho will not do what i say all the time. How can i like a guy more that he likes me? please help.

2007-10-04 20:57:55 · 20 answers · asked by bebe4u 2 in Singles & Dating