Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

My husband left me for another woman four years ago. After we divorced, I text/email him whenever I felt down because I knew he would understand how I felt. Even though he had a gf and were talking about marriage. One day, he asked me to let him came back because his gf asked him to leave because of me. Will this relationship work on the second time?

2007-10-04 16:32:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i found out that my dad is having an affair with his own niece, that s my cousin who is single and rich and they use stay under the same roof.
Maybe she can give all the thing my dad wants. she love my dad, cause my dad is in love with her? or my dad earn good money? or my dad is good looking n charming?

I really need to know why this happen to my family, my dad got a good wife and he went looking for another lady? why?

2007-10-04 16:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by mystic m 3 in Family

I mean, haven't even divorced once? And like been together for 10 years and still love each other?

It's just my parents were divorced and just about everyone I know is divorced. I had to go through it as a kid and it makes me sad sometimes. I don't even know what it is like to see a family with a mom and dad who genuinely love each other.

2007-10-04 16:29:11 · 15 answers · asked by asdf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean seriously the only girls that get dates are short and thin the tall or pudgy ones dont even get a chance at least at my school could someone please explain this to me!!! and dont be mean!!!

2007-10-04 16:25:46 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom flosses, clips her toe nails, files her nails and uses a pumice stone in the living room. I try to eat in there and stuff. She also burns her arm hair off over the stove in the kitchen. I find it disgusting. She thinks i'm weird for thinking so. What do you think? Also, what should I do about it?

2007-10-04 16:25:29 · 31 answers · asked by rockran 3 in Family

I am now living with my boyfriend, but can not stay here longer. I wanted to know if my mom can legally kick me out, or should i start looking for a place of my own.

2007-10-04 16:19:33 · 19 answers · asked by Ferns 1 in Family

When someone says your eyes are beautiful does it usually mean they mean you are beautiful?

2007-10-04 16:19:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 16:17:07 · 24 answers · asked by fritzgerald 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband drives me crazy about the television. He always wants to watch those Sci Fi movies and stuff. He will not respect the fact that I do not like those. I end up watching them anyways because what else am I suppose to do. But, he will not watch any television programs that I like. The cable is in my name... do you think I should temporarily cancel it to teach him a lesson?

2007-10-04 16:14:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are fighting with a friend so badly, that her mom has to step in just to call me names, is that right???My friend said sorry to me, but she just kept pushing it....it is worth it to continue to be her friend, or should I just forget it?

2007-10-04 16:13:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-04 16:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by azia h 1 in Family

it came back as "failed to match" me with ANYONE. huh? It says this only happens 20% of the time! WTF?

haha... it's like calling a suicide hotline and being put on hold! ha... has this happened to anyone else? I can't be THIS bizarre that I can't be matched with ANYONE?!

2007-10-04 16:10:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Know each other for 11 years and married for 7 years. He's going one after another women. He comes back in the morning with love bites. He even steal and sold my wedding chain cause to spend and visit his girlfriend. He allow his ex-schoolmate (a divorcee lady) to stay in house when I"m away to my parents house. I only got to know from his friend after 2 months and he admit when I approach. Now his affair with his own childhood friends wife who's staying opposite our house. My neighbours had seen him entering her house at night once the husband left. I have given him alot of oppurtunities but its a waste. I'm currently shifted to another state with my 2 kids and working in a private hospital. I have no idea yet what will be my married life's ending. Please advice what should be my next step.

2007-10-04 16:10:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sha S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, well I have to work alot to provide for my family (wife and 7 year old daughter) so I normally work pretty late and I'm gone for a week or two every other month. Anyway, I had to work late quite alot this month so I took off early a few days ago to suprise my wife with a romantic dinner to one of her favorite restaurants, soon after getting home I walked in on my wife and another man in our bedroom. I didnt think that either of them noticed me so I left the room to go think so that I wouldnt do anything that I would regret. Now for the question, at first I thought about talking it over with her and to see if she would agree to go to marriage counseling with me, but we would most likely just end up separated for awhile and I wouldnt want my daughter to see her mother any less. Should I just act like this never happened and move on?

2007-10-04 16:06:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I personally think it'll become more accepted in the future, and I wouldn't be surprised if it becomes the main place to meet people.

2007-10-04 16:03:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially pre-meditated murder, you can not get away with taking someones life. its wrong and useless. you might as well turn yourself in after you committ a crime of that nature because you will get caught eventually?

2007-10-04 15:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 4 years, we have a baby and we got married this past july at the town hall. We had no ceremony at all, we didn't even bring our own witnesses. I did this with the understanding that we would have a real wedding-dress, cake, guests, etc. Also, I want a wedding ring-I ended up buying a fake for $25 on ebay and have been wearing it because I'm too ashamed to be ringless in public when people know I just got married. My husband knows this upsets me but he still isn't putting forth any effort to make the wedding or ring happen. What gives and what should I do?

2007-10-04 15:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I have been together for 4 years, we have a baby and we got married this past july at the town hall. We had no ceremony at all, we didn't even bring our own witnesses. I did this with the understanding that we would have a real wedding-dress, cake, guests, etc. Also, I want a wedding ring-I ended up buying a fake for $25 on ebay and have been wearing it because I'm too ashamed to be ringless in public when people know I just got married. My husband knows this upsets me but he still isn't putting forth any effort to make the wedding or ring happen. What gives and what should I do?

2007-10-04 15:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Lately, I have been feeling depressed. I have a 17 month old and am 28 weeks pregnant with baby #2.

My husband is 1 week away from finishing his masters and is very busy with work - I stay at home. I feel like all of the time he has away from work and school (which is very little) is very rarely offered to me. We were supposed to go out to dinner tonight with a friend, but because our son was sleepy, I let them go and offered to stay home - even though I always stay home and hardly get out. I feel like after chasing our toddler all day I need a backrub or like I just need to get out. But, it always comes down to his needs - he needs sex, so no backrub, or he has been working all day so he gets to go out.

I know he is well-intentioned, but he is totally blind to the fact that it is always about his needs. I just want him to sacrifice something every now and then. Everytime I try to bring it up, he gets overwhelmed and it turns back around to HIS NEEDS.

What do I do?

2007-10-04 15:56:13 · 20 answers · asked by Jess 5 in Family

Including someone as close as your mom or sister? You find out stuff you never knew AFTER they die.

2007-10-04 15:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and i love him so much.. I am sure that he is the love of my life and i know that he loves me too.
We are planning to get married soon.
Sometimes i get this intense fear that he will fall in love with someone else..and that we will divorce..or that he will cheat on me ..or something bad will happed.. it trust him but what will happen in 1oyrs, 15yrs, 20yrs!! how can i know ??? will he fall in love wiht someone else??im so scared that someday he wil come up to me and tell me "im sorry but i dont love you as much as i used to, im seeing someone else!!!" im so scared!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-04 15:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my wife 2 months ago its over, and each time i give into the pressure of the family to stay cause its the right RELIGIOUS thing to do. Now in a moment of weekness ( we are seperated ) i have given her false hope that we will work it out. The moment i said that i KNEW i should not have.

How do i tell her its over and done. YOu can read more about my marriage issues from the other questions i have asked under my name.

2007-10-04 15:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by Jason F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have never truely loved a women whyi ask myself ,but u women and girls all welcomed to solve my problem

2007-10-04 15:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've made a friend who has Down Syndrome from middle school and since he stayed behind one year, I just met him a couple days back and now were back to being friends.
However his mom convinced me to go to his house and I've no idea what to talk to him about. Any suggestions?

2007-10-04 15:51:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It seems that there is this attitude among girls that they can reject a guy for being ugly. However, they feel offended when they hear some guy rejecting a girl because she is ugly. Why the double standard? Guys have every right to reject a girl if she is ugly.

2007-10-04 15:51:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a mega love kinda crush on this guy but i don't think he likes me. i have liked him since 1st grade(sixth now) Help?!if he did say yes if i asked him out. my mom wont let me have a boyfriend.

2007-10-04 15:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by Rockstar+Superstar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 15:47:39 · 6 answers · asked by nctchandru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my parents are total freaks .im 15 and they wont let me do anything.they dont let me go out,or hang out with boys(barely my friends).So basically they dont want me to grow up.I mean seriously,i cant even go by my neighbors without haveing to call to check in and have to be home before dark.did i mention they are 3 houses down?ugh i hate it! and whenever i just so happen to MENTION a guys name my parents get all weird and start asking questions.and its like i cant even say a guys name without being accused of having him be more then a friend.And like lets take homecoming for example,it was last week and my mom almost didnt let me go to that! cause she says im not old enough to stay out that late.and then afterwards all my friends were going out to eat,and heres a shocker...i couldnt go! my mom said" no you cant go,its not that i dont trust you...im just being a mom!who knows you could be in the wrong place at the wrong time!and what if you get into a car with someone you dont know?

2007-10-04 15:47:28 · 6 answers · asked by ginger16243 1 in Family

2007-10-04 15:47:00 · 8 answers · asked by Abby B 1 in Weddings

this is my myspace picture do you think im ugly? and no im not one of thoes insecure girls but i have been told alot lately that im not very pretty i ii was woindering what you think.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=168774022&albumID=344962&imageID=7606845
by the way im 17 18 this sat i know i look yonger but i swear i am.

2007-10-04 15:44:23 · 25 answers · asked by blavrar18 2 in Singles & Dating