If you are fighting with a friend so badly, that her mom has to step in just to call me names, is that right???My friend said sorry to me, but she just kept pushing it....it is worth it to continue to be her friend, or should I just forget it?
2007-10-04 16:13:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even the best of friendships reach the peak of their limitation of stress, anger, and frustration. But nonetheless, that friendship is strongly woven.
Take a deep breath. And realize that not everyone is perfect. Better to lose a thousand days than it is to lose a best friend.
2007-10-04 16:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, depends what you were fighting about, if you cant trust her than you cant be friends without the trust. Her mum was being childish to come into this situation as it is between the two of you but I do believe if her sorry is sincere, she genuinally wants forgiveness and i think you should try to friends because friendship is important. P.S. I hope it wasn't about a guy.
2007-10-04 16:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. You dont wanna just leave what might be a good relatioshio over an arguement. Talk to her and explain how you feel. If she appreciates your friendship she wil apologize and the situation will change. Also, tell her mom to mind her own business. But dont say it rudely like I did. Tell her not to worry, that you and her daughter will resolve your issues. Good Luck!
2007-10-04 16:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by [I ♥ R.Hamilton] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best mate might win . His bigger stronger. But your skinny friend could be fast and flexible so i dont know . You should really tell them not to fight cos it wont resolve things and can get alot of people especially the boys parents very upset . Sit them down and talk to each other bout whats wrong .
2016-05-21 03:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give up my friend, but you need to stay away from each other for awhile to cool off. In a couple of weeks, text or e-mail her and tell her you miss her and apologize and say you'd like to go to the mall or a movie or have her over or something to watch a movie on Friday night.
2007-10-04 16:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa! this mother should NOT be stepping in.
i would try to resolve things with your friend. parents are just trying to protect their kids. dont take it personally.
but if you 2 end up working things out, i would talk to the mother or write her a letter telling her how upset and offended you were, and that you think she was crossing the line.
telling you to stop being rude is one thing, calling you names is just utterly immature.
but that friendship...if you think it's worth it, you might not find someone like her ever again. think long and hard about your choice. but really, its up to how you think the she influences your life. shes only worth it if shes really all that precious..
2007-10-04 16:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Carly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chica, if her MOM is getting into it, why continue?
The lady needs boundaries, such as, "when my daughter has a falling out with her gf, I'll stay out of it unless asked my opinion." So you and the gf make up, and mom's still pixxed at you...what a bother, you'll be kissing up to her forever.
2007-10-04 16:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget it for a while. if your friend still talks to you after a while and seems like she still wants to be your friend give it another shot. her mom shouldnt have done that, but she did and it will be a lot harder to make up with her mom than with her. so if you really want to still be her friend get close to her again before seeing her mom. good luck:)
2007-10-04 16:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brittney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not right at all! Just forget this chick and move on! She might get you into even more trouble, so you should find someone else to hang around with...good luck!
2007-10-04 16:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she had no control over what her mother does. Wow, what kind of a mom calls someone else names. Feel bad for her, because your obviously being raised better than her. Forgive her, it's bad karma to hold grudges.
2007-10-04 16:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by Amber R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋