I and my husband has been seperated and no contacts. We have 2 kids 5yrs and 10mts. He's a womeniser.?

Question

Know each other for 11 years and married for 7 years. He's going one after another women. He comes back in the morning with love bites. He even steal and sold my wedding chain cause to spend and visit his girlfriend. He allow his ex-schoolmate (a divorcee lady) to stay in house when I"m away to my parents house. I only got to know from his friend after 2 months and he admit when I approach. Now his affair with his own childhood friends wife who's staying opposite our house. My neighbours had seen him entering her house at night once the husband left. I have given him alot of oppurtunities but its a waste. I'm currently shifted to another state with my 2 kids and working in a private hospital. I have no idea yet what will be my married life's ending. Please advice what should be my next step.

Answer 1

Divorce you will find a new loving man to make your life with. I blame you husband but also the woman who knew he was married she should have slapped him when he tried to approach her.

Some woman are contribute to so many divorces.

Answer 2

i'm specific the regulation varies looking on the place you're. purely via fact your ex did no longer pay help does not advise he has no rights. via fact it fairly is been see you later even with the undeniable fact that with out any touch from him you have a case for abandonment, assuming he knew the youngster existed. i might pass see a lawyer yet i'm specific a lawyer permit you to understand the will arises propose the organic and organic discern of your purpose and in case you do no longer understand the place he's you will ought to make a actual looking attempt to discover him. If all that fails you will in all probability be required to make a public observe of your purpose so your ex, the place ever he's, has the possibility to respond. seems such as you have your fairy tale life......nicely almost. regrettably your son's bio father nonetheless has rights. I prefer you each and every and all the suitable, and congratulations, it seems such as you got here across a extraordinarily great guy, you and your son are very fortunate.

Answer 3

wow i feel bad for your husband, how can he act like that when he is father and husband, i think you should sit down and explain to your husband about how you feel about your marriage, and him not acting responsible as a husband and dad. If he doesnt stop that womanizer loser guy attitude, you should tell him that you will divorce him. There are so many great caring guys out there, you dont know. And one of them will love to be a husband and dad.
I just feel sad that your husband is betraying you in terms of sleeping with other women. He doesnt get the idea that he is married and has 2 kids.
Try to explain to him how his attitude affects your marriage life and how it affects the kids not having their dad around. My mom was in similar situation, until she divorced her husband and met the most caring loving man , who is such a great caring dad.
and if you still feel and know that he will still be a womeniser than just divorce him and move on. You will find a better person sooner or later.
why you need that loser as a husband who doesnt realize what he is mising.

Answer 4

Divorce his *** before the sun set tomorrow. With all the things you have mentioned it sound as though he not marriage material. Think about what you are putting your kids through with this man. He is not concerned about his family because if he was he wouldn't be doing the things he is doing. For him to mess around with a married woman he is really placing himself in harms way because her husband could find out about their affair and do bodily harm to him or sorry to say kill him then there will be two families torn apart. I would get out for good before things get any worse. You have done the right thing thus far take it the rest of the way for your self and your children. Your children need all of you not part of you. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

From one married woman to another dump him! Wheres your self confidence? How can you allow and you notice Im using the word allow? how can you allow a man to treat you like a un paid whore? And then walk all over you like his own personal doormat! Wake up, take a good look around you and then look at the man you married, then ask yourself is this what you want for the rest of your life? a man who sleeps with other women? my god, how disrespectful can you get! This man has one person in his life that he loves and thats his own self! he is selfish and self centered! And lets not forget about STD,S here, please tell me that you are using protection? God only knows what disease he,s carrying, and do get yourself checked out, asap! My advise to give you would be to run like hell! Get away from this mentally disfunctional marriage before it ruins whats left of your dignity, be a strong woman and take charge! Leave this idiot before its to late! Im telling you this from one woman to another, and I know what Im talking about as I used to work in a womans battered shelter and I,d hear storys like this all the time. A Zebra cant get rid of his stripes and this man cant and wont give up his slutting around, they simply dont change their ways! get it thru your head, he will always be this way, this is his charactor, this is who he is, now if your ok with your husband out doinking every slut that walks his way, then stay! But if I were you, Id be out of his life faster then a new york minute!

Answer 6

I think we have all fallen for a guy like that and they are hard to get out of your head. He has put you through enough and i think you know by now that that man isn't going to change for you or any one else. My father was like that his whole life and my mother put up with it only because he was a good looking man. You are doing the right thing by leaving him just don't fall for any of his lines he will feed you when he comes looking for you. Don't be like my mother and waste your entire life on a man that is selfish and is only looking out for himself.

Answer 7

Do I SO WELL know what you're going thru! I too WAS married to a womanizer. He was even advised to get councelling on it. He didn't try to even hide it from me, & just bounced around from one woman to another. It was almost like he wanted to get caught & of course he always was. We seperated many times, but he always came running back to me. For what reason I don't know, except he also was an alcoholic too & always begged me to take him back because I was the "only one" who cld. help him. Yea, right, we went to, or I took him to EVERY detox/program in the area who accepted folks w/no ins. He use to sit in the sun w/his wedding ring off to get a tan line where his wedding ring went so when he I couldn't keep my mouth shut on that one, I got some lame excuse we both knew the truth tho.He finally found one he lived back & forth between the two of us & had some clothes at her house, some at "ours/mine". The last time I heard from him was the middle of the nite asking me to guess where he was..I had NO clue. He said he was at Grand Central Station in NYC headed back "home" to New England where he came from. I KNEW he was waiting for me to ask him to come back, but this time I'd had it. I tld. him to keep on going & to call me from every bus station along the line just to make sure he was "on his way". Sure enuf, he landed there in the early a.m. I had a VERY TIRED day in work the next day, but at least knew he was out of the area & out of my reach. I haven't heard from him since. That was 17 yrs. ago. I since got the bright idea of calling the court house where I knew he'd landed, & found I'd been divorced for 6 yrs. & didn't even know it! He had 2 bros who were attys. & I KNOW they got it for him. But that's how my womanizer story ended. IF you can afford it, do what he did to me. You also cld. get the assistance of a low cost divorce atty. because it wld. be a cut & dry case & they'll advise you as to what to do. I KNOW he put an ad in a newspaper for a month trying to locate me, but knew I'd NEVER see it. And w/me not responding, he got a very easy divorce or irreconsiable differences. Had a close friend not advising me as to what to do, I no doubt still wld. never know! I did send away for a "raised seal" copy of the divorce decree. Thus the end of my womanizing days being over & a big load off my shoulders! Hopefully my story w/be of help & inspiration for you. I DO wish you the VERY BEST & you certainly do deserve better, you deserve to live a happy life.

Answer 8

I have put up with a lot of crap from my husband, but if I were in your shoes, I believe I would be sending divorce papers. You could always see if he would be willing to go to counseling, but from what you have said, I doubt that would happen. Good luck!

Answer 9

Sorry but Divorce is the only thing for the sake of the kids and you. Once a cheater always a cheater there is nothing more you can do.Good Luck

Answer 10

The ending is fairly clear. He is a cheat, a lousy father and husband. Stop enabling his lifestyle and set yourself free.