Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

What size do you consider perfect or is it just bigger is better ?

2007-10-04 18:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by "THE DEVIL" 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like to wear silky night slips that are spagetti strap and about the length on ones fingertips above the knee. is that to prevocitive or inapporpriate when there are other people staying in the room i cant stand wearing heavy and alot of clothes when i sleep? the people we are staying with are a male and female from my husbands band and we good freinds with them. Its a lame question but would this be appropriate sleep ware?

2007-10-04 18:30:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs ACO 3 in Friends

My brother broke up with his girlfriend, because she's always saying that her parents hit her and even send her to the doctors, last night he called the cops to take her home and also so they can talk about her issue about her parents threating her like crap. He really loves her and now we are seeking for help but he is going to trun 19 on dec. and she is 17....!!

2007-10-04 18:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 18:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by Liza P 6 in Friends

i have married to man for last 2yrs, it is a love *** arrange marriage. i love my husband very much, he too loves me but he is not ready to live his parents, his brother and his wife always tries to create misunderstaning between both of us. i am a working women whole day i am out of house, my sis-in-law is a housewife in the afternoon time she comes to our place and also create misunderstanding about me in my in-laws mind. some time i feel to kill her and her husband and even my in-laws who tries to keep me and my husband away from each other. Help me friends i am confused

2007-10-04 18:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok 7 months ago I was once engaged to this boy. I was very in love with him. He ended the relationship though. He told me he never loved me the whole 2 years....I was crushed. But I can't help but still love him and I've changed so much since we've been apart. I feel so stupid for even thinking about talking to him again honestly but.....I can't help myself.

What should I do?

2007-10-04 18:23:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kind of forced by family for financial purposes. aski g this for a friend its from a womans perspective

2007-10-04 18:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 43 year old brother who is lonely and looking online. He is debating whether he should mention in his info that he is scarred. He was burned as a child and his burn scars extend up the lower part of his face. On one hand, he knows that his scars are a turn-off for some and would like to weed out those who could not accept them. He is tired of women who see his scars and suddenly decide that they want only friendship. On the other hand his scars are not who he is - they do not define him. He would like to meet and get to know others as a person, not as a scarred person. He does not want anyone to feel sorry for him; he does not feel sorry for himself. I am sure the same issue comes up with people who have any number of physical problems. So, would you send in a picture that shows the scars or mention them in your description? If so, what would you say? And if not, when and how would you mention them?

2007-10-04 18:20:54 · 7 answers · asked by nel 2 in Singles & Dating

trust issues with me. i made some stupid mistakes, but we still talk and hooked up the other night. i went over to her house tonight because i was confused about the previous night. she says she is the one that calls all the time and has trust issues and thinks that those will always be there. i honestly thought it was over and did not want to ruin her new job and life. i thought i did not deserve her and did not want to ruin things for her. she still text and calls and then we hook up the other night. i thought this was my shot my opening, but then she says i should have been the one calling and making attempts to get to her well i thought it was over. tonight she says there are trust issues and she does not know and i should not sit and wait around for her but also said she was forcing herself to say these things right now. is there a magic thing to say and i know people say move on but neither of us can and i think it is more of a pride thing with her. i love her more than anything

2007-10-04 18:15:54 · 4 answers · asked by doormat 1 in Singles & Dating

How do women want to be loved? What does it take for them to be happy with their spouse?

2007-10-04 18:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by csn_zm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the last month or so I haven't really found/done anything that's made me that happy! I'm not really bored, it's just things I used to like to do no longer intrest/amuze me! (hell, i haven't even watched anything on t.v. for close to 3 months now!)
All I do is sit in my room and read depressing books, and my best friends are the crickets in here!
So what do you like to do to make yourself happy? I just wanna' know!

2007-10-04 18:15:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We argue a lot =(

2007-10-04 18:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 18:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 23..I was born and raised in America but my parents are of Lebanese decent but have been here for over 40 years.. My parents won't let me marry a guy I have been in love with for a year now because his parents are not from the same village as my parents. We (me and him) are both Lebanese and have the same religion, but come from different villages (a village I have never seen because I've never been to my parent's country). What do you think?

2007-10-04 18:10:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am truly not sure how to act upon this situation because of the fact that I am very close to this "individual". It was a couple of us just hanging out, and after my cousin left, about a hour or two later my girlfriend was also getting ready to head out.. Long story short, we flipped the house upside down and the phone was not in sight.. (2 weeks later). My cousin and I met up after class, and after an hour of conversation just outside in the parking lot, he decides to show me his DVD player inside his car (bla-bla), and I look in the door, where the DVD's were.. And TA-DAAA.. the phone was there. He notices it quickly, and acts as if he was holding the door open while holding his hand on the phone, as he was showing me the DVD's.. then places the movies on top of the phone. Right away he was stuttering and I believe guilty conscious kicked in him.. Left me wordless, and 3-5min later, I headed out. My question: WHATS RIGHT FOR ME TO DO? Not getting police involved/company cant track..

2007-10-04 18:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-04 18:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by ishe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with "love" and then his name? there is soooooooooooooooooo much more to the story than this. short version.....we just had a baby together, his mother (i think, but am pretty positive) wants him all to herself b/c he pays her bills, he has not seen the baby in over a month, he's admitted to being a momma's boy, ask me to marry him now has changed his mind and a lot of other things. anyways...why in the world would he send me flowers on my birthday? the arrangement even came with a teddy bear and hershey kisses!!! i'm so confused. i love him and care about him deeply, but have just gotten used to the idea of not being with him. i filed for child support too. i just know that if we were ever to get back together he would have to move out of his mother's house (it's actually his house). he has acted like he does not care, but sending me flowers? and remembering my birthday? i need some advice.

2007-10-04 18:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by nena 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I am single again. Woo Hoo!!! Spare of the moment, I was hungry for some sushi. Went to a nearby Sushi bar by myself for some Heinies and to fill my appetite for raw fish. Two tables away from me, I see this (beautiful) Asian, younger woman. But she was with another man. She was well dressed and her (date, I guess) was dressed really casually. Here in Hawaii, shorts, t-shirt and slippers (thongs) are OK for most parts, but not to a restaurant. Anyway, we caught each other's eyes and we both exchanged smiles. Being that they both had their back towards me, she looked over her shoulder frequently to look at me and smiled each time. I couldn't help myself but to smile back at her each time. She even got up a couple of times and walk past my table with this very seductive smile as if she was telling me to talk to her. Was this a missed opportunity? But I go by a rule that no one should mess with another mans girl and vise versa. I lost my former wife that way.

2007-10-04 17:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by liquor first, poker later 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 17:58:19 · 15 answers · asked by cristelle R 6 in Marriage & Divorce

MY GODMOTHER CAME TO ME AND ASK ME TO PUT HER DAUGHTER IN MY WEDDING TO HELP HER WITH HER SELF ESTEEM BUT I DID NOT KNOW SHE GOT THAT BIG AND I MEAN BIG LIKE SIZE 32 DRESS. SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-10-04 17:55:21 · 23 answers · asked by bryanjailyne 1 in Weddings

someone in a relationship says that they love the other person after a couple weeks or less of dating. They just like how the other person looks.. It is very immature and naive. I see a lot of middle and high school kids doing this. What are your views?

2007-10-04 17:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl in my school, my age who i dont even like, who wont shutup bout sex.
she says she watches porn and stuff.and even more then ii know!and she wants me 2 tell my friend what sex is!(ps she is from a differnent country so she doesnt know wat sex is)
what should i do?

2007-10-04 17:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by Caheera_is_hot 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-04 17:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

I heard in some countries; married women are allowed to have sex outside marriage; and husband has no right to stop her is it so ?

2007-10-04 17:49:19 · 19 answers · asked by cietadelarock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy just e-mail you 3 days after first date?

2007-10-04 17:48:16 · 7 answers · asked by mimi26 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 17:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by jen 7 in Singles & Dating

I met someone online and we have shared a couple of emails. I am not married yet nor have I had children yet. Kelly said she was married and had children and said in one email she had been busy "being a mother and a wife" that week. I can understand being busy being a mother but what does a wife do that takes up so much time?????????? (Seriously.)

2007-10-04 17:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

.... my exam is just 2 weeks away which decides my future.... i'm in a relationship of 5 years... my boyfriend and i are going through a real tough time with lot of family and personal problems....my university exam is coming and i havent started studying yet,, whenever i sit down to study, i just cant put my mind and concentrate.... i'm undergoing a lot of pressure and i really want to study but i cant make up my mind.... i've talked about this to my boyfriend but he's also going through similar problems..... tell me how can i concentrate .... pls i'm really desperate...

2007-10-04 17:44:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy colorado high school that i serve coffee to all the time, i think he likes me, but im not sure yet, hes always getting coffee from me, and he always makes the effort to talk, couple of weeks ago(i havent seen him since hes on holiday), he asked if i had watched a movie(one that i had already seen), and i said yeh ive seen that one already, then i asked why, and he said 'oh bacause i wanted to go watch a movie'and he said it in a real quiet way, life he felt embarrased or something..., was he subtly asking me out?but when i said i had already watched it, he felt stink and left it at that?..i felt really bad.
Weve been talking for ages now, and ive opened up to him heaps, and we really have a blast with each other when we talk now:).he was going to go to the best cinema in America to watch the movie aswell!

2007-10-04 17:40:39 · 4 answers · asked by dinnn 1 in Singles & Dating

small penis, but he's very cute. would you still sleep with him?

2007-10-04 17:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating