Ok 7 months ago I was once engaged to this boy. I was very in love with him. He ended the relationship though. He told me he never loved me the whole 2 years....I was crushed. But I can't help but still love him and I've changed so much since we've been apart. I feel so stupid for even thinking about talking to him again honestly but.....I can't help myself.
What should I do?
2007-10-04 18:23:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The feelings we have for people don't go away just because we don't see them, or they don't love us. So it's not surprising that you think of this boy 7 months later.
Unfortunately, he's made his choice and moved on. I wouldn't contact him. Why would you want to be with someone who would lie to you in such a hurtful way? He didn't just lie about something like kissing someone else; he promised to spend his life with you and then said he never meant it. This boy doesn't deserve your love or your thoughts.
It will take some time to get over these feelings. Try to stay busy with friends. I'm so sorry you got hurt this way. You deserve better and will find love with a much better person.
2007-10-04 18:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by slishou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the guy is stupid!!!and most be a liar 2 yrs come on now what a waste of time your better then that remember what goes around comes around!!! no matter how long it takes karma!!!! i know its gonna be hard and i know your not going to stop thinking abut him a lot of people go through the same thing don't talk to him do make your self seem low and don't make him feel like Mr all that cause i bet hes not find a way to distract your self and think positive and there a lot of man out there honey trust me be smart a move on who know 2 yeat maybe he will come back and if he does be a ***** and make him know hows boss you no one little toy to be getting hurt like that
2007-10-04 18:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by I <3 Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 08:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by staude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love him, but you can't have a satisfying loving relationship if he doesn't feel the same. You live, you learn, right? And if not him, someone better! Someone who will move mountains to be with you and who will love you till the end of time.
2007-10-04 18:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Trouble 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just divert your attention to something more productive. Join some classes or engage yourself in some activity that takes your entire time and you don't get time to think about this person who hurt you. Only time can heal.
2007-10-04 18:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by haria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and don't contact him in any way. He was saying that to hurt you. You are making a fool of yourself if you let him talk to you that way, and get by with it. Move on. There a much nicer guys out there!!!
2007-10-04 18:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i had a girl brake my heart all bc she had to move away to ohio, anyways you'll get over it, it takes a while but when u go out with your friends have a good time talk to alot of people it helps
2007-10-04 18:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told you he didn't love you the whole time to hurt you. Get over him.
2007-10-04 18:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? Just forget about him!! Trust me times heals everything!!! He made fun of you and you still want to go back???
2007-10-04 18:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by ^Blue Rose^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dosen't want you. Then it will just be a mess to attempt to force him....Move on to greener fields.
2007-10-04 18:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋