We argue a lot =(
2007-10-04 18:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? you dont need to go to someone and pay so heavily to better your relatioship.. why not DO it yrself? Don't rely on anyone else to make things okay between you two? Sure, you might get a false security that things are working out but in real... wouldnt it be a stornger and more meaningful relatiopnship if you, yourself dealt with the issues and solved it?
Sit him down and talk to him about everything... dont go right to the part where you say that we argue a lot.. go gradual.. talk about how it started and how wonderful it was... start admitting to the mistakes you've made in the past and try asking his opinion about where he stands on the mistakes YOU THINK HE MADE... im sure if you try enough, you can make it work between the two of you without therapy!
Good Luck
2007-10-04 18:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by UgLy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-13 19:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
councelling is for married people with property and children. that's when they can't separate - too much money involved. so they have to figure out how to settle for what they already have. if u re bf/gf u don't have anything - no common property, no children(i hope not yet) so why the heck do u need councelling to stay together? break up. this is the reason why people do not get married and stay in bf/gf relationships - u don't like smth u leave without lots of fuss. your bf is right when he doesn't want to go to this circus which u call councelling
2007-10-04 18:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if that would be the best course of action...If you are not married or engaged, maybe you were not meant for each other.... I do not want to sound negative but if you try to force things to work things turn out bad.... If you still feel you want to give er a try, just ask him... give him your ideas and why you want to do it...You may not be able to convince him.... I wish you both the best...
2007-10-04 18:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you love him, but your relationship is getting destructive and you don't think you can go on like you are. Say that you think you can have a great relationship, but to get there you can't do it on your own: you need help. Then suggest couples therapy.
However, I would suggest to try and work it out on your own if you haven't already tried.
2007-10-04 18:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, if he does not go, then it might be harmful for your relationship, probably a breakup, so if he does not want a "split up", then he should go to fix up all the flaws in the relationship..If he loves you, he should go,..if he truly cares..he would say "yes"...
2007-10-04 18:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Livelife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... Is the relationship worth salvaging?
2007-10-04 18:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋