Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

idk, i dont want t seem like one of those dumies, but i like a guy that just doesnt seem to respond, and i was wondering if its because of the way i look?

p.s. i know i already asked this, but the people that put that i was dumb, im not. i also want to see if it is ok for winter frmal and such. so thankssssss

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2007-10-04 15:42:16 · 50 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 15:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by farmboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18. i've never had a boyfriend, but i know i love him. that's why i held off in having one until i found someone i could really care about. we're in love, so please don't say we aren't. but would you find it a turn off if you were in love with a girl, and you were her first boyfriend?

2007-10-04 15:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 15:38:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this wonderful guy from work, he was sweet and very attractive but he was married and he had 2 kids. whe i met him he had problems with his wife she almost cheated on him with his best friend he was so sad about it she told him everything because she was afraid to loose him he forgive her.
he said because of his kids and he used to love her so much, i remember that day he was crying that day he kissed me i was so scared because i felt that he was the guy i was looking for all my life but he belong to another person already. time passed by and we fall inlove to each other he told me he wanted tobe with me he told me that he loved me very much and that he didnt love his wife anymore I thought about his kids and told him no that i couldnt hurt his kids because i love him so much. Now i cant live without him i need him with me i just love him so much and i know hes the one i dont know what to do i think i lost him what should i do? I tried to forget about him but i just cant !!!

2007-10-04 15:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by sunshineb06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we all know the goodness of a relationship doesnt last forever. reality sets in and the true colors of who you are in each others eyes become evident. how long does this happy phase last before you and your partner are like okay this is what it is......can i be with this person forever or not?

2007-10-04 15:37:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so im good friends with him.. but i think he likes me more than friends. but i just like him as a friend....

2007-10-04 15:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany B 1 in Singles & Dating

me andmy boyfriend ron went over to my brothers house to see my mom and to thank my brother for giving ron his clothes. and ron was bonding with my brother and helping him put his electronics together. and my mom was saying that im fat and that my jeans are to tight. and ron looked at my mom and sister in law and said he loves it. and after he left he said he had fun and he said he loves me very much. he never says he loves me very much he just says he loves me.

2007-10-04 15:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family

My narcissitic husband orginally admitted to a 1-time cheat he had with an ex-gf while we were still newlyweds. We seperated soon after & have been seperated for a couple months now. Once he was confronted by another person on the unfaithfulness he denied it. Then about a month ago he came to my crying saying he lied about the affair cuz he was mad at me & wanted to push me away. He said he could verify where he really was that night. Recently he's been asking me to come home. I told him last night that if he was capable lying to his new wife that he cheated, he's capable of still lying right now. So I told him if he had nothing to hide to call the girl right there. He wouldn't. Said he didn't want to involve her and she'd be upset. He said he'd call her & ask if it was okay to talk to her about it. I said, "how do when I know when I leave you won't ask her to lie for you?" He insisted he was innocent & refused to call her right then. Well I had her SN for AIM and contacted her today.

2007-10-04 15:28:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. hes says it takes him about 6 months to get to 'know' someone. but we have been intimate already. he shows signs of interest when we see each other. but doesnt call that much or hardly texts and cant even make concrete plans with me because he has aa meetings almost 5-6days a week. am i just wasting my time? im not ready for a real relationship quite yet but i feel almost strung along when i dont see him. i see him about once aweek.

2007-10-04 15:27:15 · 15 answers · asked by chloë 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a trip planned to california next week that I have had planned for quite some time, the thing is I have used up all my vacation and sick time and was trying to come up with a good reason to give to work. I have to miss 3 days in a row but don't want to get fired over it, i'm in good standing with the company but I know that if I asked for the time off I would be denied. also I don't want to have to call in each day and pretend i'm sick unless that is the only option. anyone have a good scenario that I could use for this situation?

2007-10-04 15:25:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just got a new puppy it is so cute but my brother is always telling me to stay away from him
(he is older than me) and my dad sides with him! i HATE HIM!!!

2007-10-04 15:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm just wondering if I'm the only one.
He came home tonight, and started bitching before he even got both feet in the door.
After about an hour of that, I told him that if he didn't have anything nice to say to me then perhaps he should keep his mouth shut.
Then he stormed out of the house like a five year old.

2007-10-04 15:24:53 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 15:24:29 · 30 answers · asked by josh20101992 1 in Singles & Dating

What I gonna do if I love someone so much? But he don't think that I love him.

2007-10-04 15:22:58 · 9 answers · asked by Mindy K 1 in Friends

My mom has asked me if i would consider moving to LA with her because she has been doing nails for ten years and she says if she goes on any longer she could get ill with all the chemicals she takes in everyday.My grandparents live up there and they can start a business up for her. A big part of me wants to stay because this is where i grew up and i think im dependent from the people around me and im very close to family, i also think i could actually live a new life there, but what if it doesnt turn out the way i expected, im still young, im 15, so this is a very hard decision for me. I could have the choice of staying her with one of the family members but be seperated from my siblings, who are still young so it doesnt affect them,i dont want to be seperated from them either. But after highschool arent we gonna be seperated aneway to go to college? I justdontwanttoendawreck. I just need something to hear that has meaning, because i just dont know what to do and its killing me..thx

2007-10-04 15:20:11 · 3 answers · asked by xuyen h 2 in Family

My fiance is pretty well off. He can really take care of me financial-wise. But he is such a workaholic, so he's always too tired for sex, I feel like I am only second place. My Ex is the opposite. He always had energy, we had so much fun. But he had no ambition, so I broke up with him. I think I love him more than my fiance. And he says he still loves me and wants me back. If money wasn't an issue, I would definitely pick my ex. But I don't wanna end up swimming in debt, cuz I still have to pay my student loans...Help please?

2007-10-04 15:19:47 · 37 answers · asked by smile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my parents are going some where and I need to know how old I have to be to stay home alone overnight. I live in Georgia, USA if that makes any difference

2007-10-04 15:19:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I had a big fight yesterday and he hit me. He didn't punch me or anything like that but he did slap me and I started crying but not because it hurt but because I was shocked by the whole thing. I've been with him for a long time and he hasn't done anything like this before and I'm sure I can trust him to never do it again but my friend told me I shouldn't. Should I?

2007-10-04 15:16:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a year now and she told me that im her 1st but her cherry didnt pop .does that mean i was her 1st or not ?

2007-10-04 15:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i rarely become intrested in people.
crushing and dating i
a waste of time.
but i do admit my teenage hormones have kicked me in the **** a bit and i think im falling for a guy..
SO CLICHE
but ill finish.
his best friend...just happens to be a girl.
who i learn despises me
but there is NO possible reason she could hate me other than that he might have an intrest in me.
he has told my friend that it doesnt matter that she doesnt like me cause he likes me.
i rarely talk to this guy
because QUITE FRANKLY IM TERRIFIED OF HIS FREIND!
she holds on to him like a wild animal of some sort
they both state they have no feelings
(for three years theyve been a pair)
he doesnt show any sexual...or affectionate feelings toward her
more like two friends.
i hate to admit this problem since i know the majority of answers i will get will be rude, and horrible
but im stuck.i would like to be friends with this boy first
but im afraid to have my spleen ripped out by her.

2007-10-04 15:15:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 15:14:19 · 19 answers · asked by . 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of a year cheated on me TWICE. And he still claims that he LOVES me and that he will never do it again.

Guys: why do u do this? how can u hurt soneone so bad and make it obvouis that u dont give a damn and still claim that you love them?

And say that u will never do it again when you've cheated twice!!?

2007-10-04 15:12:48 · 22 answers · asked by nicoℓe 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's be honest -- not everyone gets along with everybody else. But sometimes you have to try. How do you get along with somebody you don't really like?

2007-10-04 15:11:17 · 61 answers · asked by Ask Mike 4 in Friends

He is 6 months behind on child support and I cant afford to talk to a lawyer right now but I was wondering what will happen to him if he doesnt pay.Will he go to jail? if so how long?

2007-10-04 15:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shes in 9 grade and i am in 11 she is a virgen and i am a virgen i dont no but she relly wants me i like her a lot but should i do it .whats the best song to listion to while we are doing it.would shook me all night long by acdc be good.

2007-10-04 15:09:44 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For instance, if you met him/her at work, were your working for the same department? How long have you been married? Are you happy?

Please be descriptive. I have the time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-04 15:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wat makes a guy turn 2 his friend and say chek her out
or think tat they r hottt????

2007-10-04 15:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by (; 3 in Singles & Dating

doesn't that kind of contridict it self women are not into looks the way men are but even if a man doesn't find a women physically attractive if she is cool most of us men will talk to her as a friend but with a women the only time she will talk to a ugly man is if none of the other women have no problem talking to the man,and they say women are more mature then men

2007-10-04 14:55:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, the girl i've been crushing on for a little over 3 years asked for my number after school one day. that night, she called me up and asked if i liked her. i froze up, completely freaked out of my mind. suddenly i heard myself say no. it was too late to take it back. she still comes up to me in the halls and gives me hugs, and sometimes comes to my locker at the end of the day. by the way, i'm a grade above her and she's a freshman. what i'm wondering is, do you think that i still have a chance with her if i ask her to hang out on the weekend? or should i just forget about the whole thing?
oh, another thing.. right before she hung up that night, she told me how she was enjoying being single ever since her ex dumped her about a month back.... is she just tryin to get me jealous? idk... answer please!

2007-10-04 14:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating