i met this wonderful guy from work, he was sweet and very attractive but he was married and he had 2 kids. whe i met him he had problems with his wife she almost cheated on him with his best friend he was so sad about it she told him everything because she was afraid to loose him he forgive her.
he said because of his kids and he used to love her so much, i remember that day he was crying that day he kissed me i was so scared because i felt that he was the guy i was looking for all my life but he belong to another person already. time passed by and we fall inlove to each other he told me he wanted tobe with me he told me that he loved me very much and that he didnt love his wife anymore I thought about his kids and told him no that i couldnt hurt his kids because i love him so much. Now i cant live without him i need him with me i just love him so much and i know hes the one i dont know what to do i think i lost him what should i do? I tried to forget about him but i just cant !!!
2007-10-04 15:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by sunshineb06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is sacred and people make mistakes. Please allow that family to heal. Go on with your life and let them mend their marriage and raise their children. He is in love with his wife, you are infatuated with him. Please listen to the Godly voice inside you and do unto others as you would have them to do unto you. Your Mister Right is out there, and he is not a married man going through problems with his marriage. In the end, you will be very proud of yourself. You seem to be a very bright young lady, don't allow this incident to lower your self esteem. God Bless you
2007-10-04 15:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is no better than his wife if he was kissed u. That is because he just told u that he was going to stay with his wife becuase he "used to love her" and he still loves the kids, but then he goes and kisses u. He is being a hypocrit to himself, his wife, and to u. NEVER COME BETWEEN A MAN AND HIS WIFE. If he's divorced, sure go ahead. If he is still married u better watch ur back. his wife would kill u if she found out u are the reason her marriage isnt working again. maybe HE is the reason she was GOING to cheat on him. But she didnt, so she is still better than him. right now u r the problem. u need to give this man some room. he is not for u.
2007-10-04 23:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by coffeebabyea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about letting him take care of his family first?
IF he leaves his wife then you can become the step-mom.
You should NEVER become involved with a married man - much less a married who has children. Way too much baggage and you're on the tail end.
2007-10-04 22:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justify your actions all you want but you are a homewrecker! And why would you fall in love with a married man with kids? He's feeding you these lines but can you really trust him? Ask him if he's told his wife about his love for you? If he has then maybe ya'll are meant to be but I doubt he has. He playing you.
2007-10-04 23:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by JG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think the question needs to be how do I share him? Try researching the word spirit wife for some ideas, This is a well planned system for sharing and keeping it quiet.
2007-10-05 00:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she did him wrong does not mean you have to. Let him get a divorce first and see how things go after it is all said and done. I hope you don't want to be the one everybody say broke up there marriage.
2007-10-04 22:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by farmboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't have him to lose; he belonged to someone else. Your mistake was having an affair with a married man. MOVE ON!!
2007-10-04 22:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to be with you he shouldn't worry about anything else. People divorce everday in this country, the kids will be fine.
2007-10-04 22:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so what you are saying is that you care nothing about the children, and you do not mind hurting his children and taking their father away from them, because all you can think about is yourself.......now you tell us what you are going to do.
2007-10-04 22:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry ...but you should never have been with a married man. Forget him and move on.
2007-10-04 22:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by MoMo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋