me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a year now and she told me that im her 1st but her cherry didnt pop .does that mean i was her 1st or not ?
2007-10-04 15:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the most important things in a relationship is trust,and since you've been with her for a year you need to get over the cherry thing and start trusting each other that's what makes a lasting relationship.Good luck to you and your girlfriend.
2007-10-04 15:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, these people are wrong! Research it! Studies show that not all girls have their "cherries" popped when they first have sex. It may get popped when they start using tampons or if they play sports. Here's a sight for more information!
http://www.adviceforallages.org/articles/sexmythsexposed.htm
2007-10-04 15:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popping a cherry is a saying for the breaking of the hymen.
If she was athletic when she was a teenager or used tampons prior to having sex, the hymen was likely broken already.
2007-10-04 15:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by brettj666 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a little trust. Girl's "cherries" can be popped through many different things.....some girls are born with a thinner, smaller layer than others, and it can be broken through gymnastics, sports, injuries, tampons......, and I don't know for sure, but a girl might not even know if it had been "popped" previously, so just trust her!
2007-10-04 15:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Betsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you mean her hymen hasn't broken or bled or whatever, some girls don't bleed. This is because the hymen can break anytime, riding a bike, having your period...
Just depends how much it has torn by the time you have sex, and there are many girls who don't bleed at all, and are still virgins.
2007-10-04 15:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by flowerchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably pop it when she was small probably riding a bike or hit a sharp object with her private part. My cousin pop it when she was 12 riding a bike, my aunt took her to the hospital.
2007-10-04 15:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by VegasPapi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing "pops" during sex, the hymen in the vagina tears. Do you mean to say that she didn't bleed? Some girls bleed and others don't because some girls don't have hymens. And as for her telling you that you're her first, why don't you just believe her?
2007-10-04 15:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That usually refers to the hymen breaking. Some women's hymens go away on their own, or her hymen may have been broken earlier in her life, especially if she were involved with sports or vigorous physical activity. No big deal. If you trust her, believe that you were her first.
2007-10-04 15:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam Straight to the point No beating around the Bush! Your still her first Regardless! DAM!
2007-10-04 15:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lightbright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were probably her first but she may have had her hymen busted in an accident such as riding a bicycle. Just because it isn't there doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin
2007-10-04 15:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋