idiotic but still,?

Question

i rarely become intrested in people.
crushing and dating i
a waste of time.
but i do admit my teenage hormones have kicked me in the **** a bit and i think im falling for a guy..
SO CLICHE
but ill finish.
his best friend...just happens to be a girl.
who i learn despises me
but there is NO possible reason she could hate me other than that he might have an intrest in me.
he has told my friend that it doesnt matter that she doesnt like me cause he likes me.
i rarely talk to this guy
because QUITE FRANKLY IM TERRIFIED OF HIS FREIND!
she holds on to him like a wild animal of some sort
they both state they have no feelings
(for three years theyve been a pair)
he doesnt show any sexual...or affectionate feelings toward her
more like two friends.
i hate to admit this problem since i know the majority of answers i will get will be rude, and horrible
but im stuck.i would like to be friends with this boy first
but im afraid to have my spleen ripped out by her.

Answer 1

Nope you fell to the bottom and the only one whose got you is well me, brutal honesty, but I digress, back to the matter at hand. Almost pride of you and your ability to see how the dating, crushin thing, is so bs. But then you go on to show how well, you've got a crush, hypicritcal hunnie, very. Also your being pridful, you think you've got something, there friendship doesn't which is, and this just makes me laff, sex. HAHAHAHAHAH ooo my, yea sex is going to give you all that wonderful love you need and you'll have a relaitonship stronger then their friendship HAHAHAHh yea. I think you need to spend sometime going back over WHY its such a waste of time, because frankly thats what your doing...... also learn something about how f'd up your culture is, because your doing the very things that make it that way. Lets just say this, and hopfully your as smart as I think you are and you'll figure this out and grow with it.... but her's chinese proverb (yep its acient knowledge! wow!)

Friends can make great lovers, but lovers rarly ever make good friends.

So to apply it to their situation EVEN, they havn't develop the emotional attunement, confidence, and purpose needed to advance there relationship, showing that they still have there own issues to work thru, but also shows that outside being with eachother, there not going to make good relaitonship/friendship matterial. But your noting going to know one way or another, becuase your anti-social perception of relationships in highschool is actually a symptom of your own lack of emotional attunement, confidence and purpose, so well maybe you'd all have fun play day-dreams with each others feelings! But nothing meaningful is going to come out of this. Keep with your feelings, and use your thoughts to direct them right, your smarter then this.....