my girlfriend wants to have sex with me what should i do?

Question

shes in 9 grade and i am in 11 she is a virgen and i am a virgen i dont no but she relly wants me i like her a lot but should i do it .whats the best song to listion to while we are doing it.would shook me all night long by acdc be good.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

There is no way you should do it, and I am sure you know that. I am sure you both think it would be cool, but it is not for your age group. Wait until you are at least 18 and your partner is at least that old too, it will be much better and you will still have many years ahead of you to enjoy sex. Use this time as a learning time - know yourself, know the opposite sex, know what it means to be in a relationship, know that there is more to sex then jumping into bed with another young person. Think about being a parent and be prepared for that to happen because every time you have sex, no matter how careful you are the possibility exists. What would you two do if she were to find out she is pregnant? That is on of the biggest reasons for waiting.

Answer 3

Only do it if you feel you love her, and if you've been together for longer than a few weeks. I'm just saying, it should mean something and if you think your relationship isn't completely solid and might break up, you run the risk of hurting her.

Also, music the first time is probably not the greatest idea. What, are you going to say, "Hey, this is kinda special for us so I am going to put on some music," and then run up to a CD player and press play right before you start kissing her? The song is going to end before you pop your thing out, I am telling you. But seriously, music is kind of for setting the mood and if you feel you can pull it off, go for it, but if you're both virgins, I sort of think you're going to be nervous and really close together and it will be more emotional than anything (even for you!)... and when you hear someone singing in the background you're going to think, "Wow, what the f did I put that sh1t on for?"

Answer 4

well if u two have been going out for a while now and u really love each other why not go have sex but if u dont want to well just tell her that u feel uncomfortable doing that and if she could wait and if she really loves u she will wait till u are ready trust me i think Ive been throught the same thing u are going throught right now okay but dont trip the first time will always be scary but then u think and stop and well it wont just be scary and u might be shy too but that can also be normal some people can be shy but if u arnt ready dont do something u will regret later on well i hope i helped u on your decision

Answer 5

Cradle robbing is not a good thing. She wants it, I'd be worried there is something going on. She wants to get preggy or she has a bug or something screwball. Stand back, put your jewels on ice and take a look at what she is saying and why she is saying it? I had the same thing happen to me and I held off. She dropped me for another dude got pregged and he dropped her like a hotrock. She was not stable.
Gotta ask yourself, what if she does get knocked up. What are YOU gonna do about it? Don't need that anchor, mate. Your free life is now got an anchor on it.

Answer 6

This is a crime in most states, so you should protect yourself and have some respect for yourself and her and no, you should not do it.
Are you ready to be a parent? If you don't even know what music to play, let alone the answer to your primary question, or a steady job, the answer is no.
It is completely unfair of you to have sex with this girl when you do not have good answers to these questions. Don't give me the condom crap. How many broken condoms does it take to make a baby?

Answer 7

Dear Chris,

No offense intended. The way you wrote this question is an insult to the English language, more so because there are many ways to check spellings (Microsoft WORD et al). You should be ashamed of yourself.

You are thinking of sex. I would advise you not to do it. I can see that you are not one of the best students. If you get into sex then it could hamper your studies.

What I am saying might sound rude and blunt. But take my criticism and try to improve yourself the way you should. That way you'll grow up to be a better man.

Answer 8

Hold on to your hormones there cowboy, she's like 14 and you are at least 16. She is underage and even if she wants to, her parents could have you locked up. Be wise and wait. If you two are in love, it will keep. Check the laws in your State. You could be an innocent victim of your own pleasure and go to jail if you proceed. The worst thing is you will carry a "Sex Offender" tag on your life forever. My advice, Don't do it.

Answer 9

I think you guys should wait. You are only in high school, and she's barely out of middle school! You have to think of the consequences. I know there is a lot of pressure on guys especially to lose their virginity, but are you really ready for that? Are you ready to be in a responsible, sexual relationship, as in always making sure that you have and use protection? You must think of the consequences before you make any big decision. Remember, nobody ever died of being a virgin. It won't hurt you to wait.

P.S. If you are seventeen or older and she's under seventeen, that's illegal.

Answer 10

Just along with the fact that you're asking other people if you should or not should indicate that you shouldn't.
Sex shouldn't be worried about or dwelled on if you get my drift, of course you have to "worry" about things like protection, and you can be nervous about it being your first time, but if you have to ask yourself "Am I ready?" and not know the answer means it's no. Don't do it if you will regret it. I personally would wait for someone I know I truly love and feel safe with, someone who you don't have to think about it with, because you know it's right.
But then again I'm just a soppy girl with morals... Not many people care anyway. Just my opinion though, and I know it worked for me.

Answer 11

I would argue that you're both too young. But then, what do I know, the average age gets younger every year. If you're coming on Yahoo! Answers for help with this problem, I think you're not ready to take this step. Do what makes you comfortable, and by all means listen to Nine Inch Nails' "Closer." Because it's a good song no matter what you're doing.