2007-10-04 15:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by farmboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really don't think one sex handles divorce better than the other.
If a woman wants out of a marriage and the man doesn't then it's hard on him and visa-versa.
If it was the husband wanting out of a marriage and you didn't think/know something was wrong, you can't honestly say that you'd be okay and move on.
To your question--you just really weren't into him for that life long stretch of life at the time you took your vows. Many men & women are and still get their hearts broken and still never knowing what went wrong and blame theirself.
2007-10-04 15:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cost friends, cost money, getting a speeding ticket, wording things, watching cartoons don't really support the justification of leaving him. He might be immature and arrogant but he did marry you and you love him and seems like he loves you. You are a good wife and have supported him through all this. I am also positive that you are a good mother. Don't go to a therapist, confront him directly and keep on trying. His anger is what I would be worried about. Give him six months and then decide if you want to leave him. Don't stay in it just because you have a child together. It will affect the child also. Bring the fact that your child is watching all your fighting and its not good for her. Work on how he can compromise and you might have to do the same. If you do decide to leave him, then do it, don't look back.
2016-04-07 04:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot imagine a woman not being stressed out from a divorce, even if she is the one who wanted it. I was so busy working, taking care of the children, figuring out how to live on very little money and even less help that I was stressed badly for six months or more.
2007-10-04 15:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't trained t handle emotional stress and nor are the majority of our Friends. Women can talk it out.. what men talk...baseball football the hot chick but never about feelings
2007-10-04 16:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bob D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase men finally realize what they have lost! All the cooking, cleanning, grocery shopping, loving support and friendship, extra paycheck.. All the woman loses in a divorce is a lousy husband who caused her stress, loads of work, and heartbreak. The only real object of loss for the woman would be the extra paycheck. In a marriage, woman are expected to be a housewife, a mother, have a career, and look good. Men are expected to have a career. Thats it. Not very fair huh??
2007-10-04 15:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by coffeebabyea 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well when I divorced it wasn't stressful..It was a happy time for me because I wanted the divorce so bad.
2007-10-04 15:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably depends on what state is the divorce happening, lol.
In Ca women would get 50% or more.
But, seriously, I do not think they do. Women are much more sensitive and emotional.
2007-10-04 15:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Somewhere in Time 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any one sex handles it better than the other.
usually the one who initiated it handles it better because they had wanted to do it for so long and now they are finally free.
I handled my divorce just fine. She didn't. wrote letters to everyone we knew saying I had changed and was some weird monster.
2007-10-05 08:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women express their feelings better which gets them over the pain easier.
2007-10-04 15:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple
men are losing 50% of their assets plus paying alimony and child support, even if a women cheats
women in turn get ex husband welfare
2007-10-04 15:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋