if women are not as much into looks like men are,why do women ignore more men just because they are ugly?

Question

doesn't that kind of contridict it self women are not into looks the way men are but even if a man doesn't find a women physically attractive if she is cool most of us men will talk to her as a friend but with a women the only time she will talk to a ugly man is if none of the other women have no problem talking to the man,and they say women are more mature then men

Answer 1

I do believe that would be hard to judge. If a guy doesn't have a pleasant personality and is not easy on the eye, he's got a double negative. Are women supposed to overlook both? Guys are pretty particular when it comes to women, the knife cuts both ways.

Answer 2

I'm not sure where you are getting your facts. Deny it or not, physical attraction is key to both men and women. Some people find sexy what others do not. As far as not talking to someone just because you don't find them attractive...I don't understand what you are basing this on? I have never seen a woman totally ignore a man because of his looks alone except on television. I don't talk to men sometimes just because I'm a shy person, it doesnt mean I'm shallow.

Answer 3

It doesn't contradict anything. Not every woman is going to ignore physical appearance (most won't), just like not all men are going to care about physical appearance.

P.S.- I don't know any women who behave that way. Have they told you that's what they're thinking? That's the only way you'd know. Perhaps the mature thing to do would be to judge people on an individual basis rather than assuming an unfounded stereotype is the truth about everyone.

Answer 4

don't think they don't care about the way they look, some woman have a great figure and they know they will look good in almost anything. normaly woman don't want to be hangin around with some guy who is ugly. cuz there are people who will make fun of her because she dosn't have a cute bf. but then again there are woman who don't care about looks they just care about what's on the inside. and yes most of the time woman can be more mature than men ........ no offense

Answer 5

I disagree with your statement. I don't think that women ignore men they consider "ugly" moreso than men ignore "ugly" women. Makes sense, men are more visual.
First, women (in general) understand that not all men are blessed with good genes/dna so you have to work with what God has given you. We understand that and we are more forgiving (then men are) when it comes to the appearance of the opposite sex. But what turns a woman off is if a man does not seem to care nor does he make an effort to IMPROVE his appearance. Like the basic things such as taking care of personal hygiene (shave, shower, haircut) and wearing clean nice clothes (they don't have to be name brand but look like you care somewhat about what is staring back at you in the mirror). I see men all the time that look like they just fell out of bed, with holes in their clothes, and they stink, and don't even have the decency enough to comb their hair..yet these same men cry "A woman should accept me for who I am regardless!" In your world yes, but in reality no.
Men don't accept women for "who they are." What do they want? A gal that takes care of herself and has a great personality. Same thing as women. You don't have to be Brad Pitt, but if you make an effort women will notice and appreciate that. It's mostly personality though, if you act anti-social and lack confidence and don't present yourself friendly, women get turned off BIG TIME. And yes, women are more mature than men. :)

Answer 6

it could be for many reasons with women too. I'll list some of them!! you smell funny your creepy you pick your nose you find comfort in smoking while nude you tried to kill my second cousin you have a really thick accent you cut yourself you called my mom fat you flirted with my husband you offered me drugs if you are any of the above I feel women have a legit reason for ignoring you besides the fact that your ulgy.

Answer 7

women ignore losers. its all about the social status. and usuqlly ugly men in clubs are creepy.

Answer 8

i think for both sexes there has to be a physical attraction...at first....but after 2 people know each other....i think women are more likey to date someone they arnt very attracted to if shes knows he has a good personality.

Answer 9

hey i'll be honest. looks ARE important to me. but i wont ignore a guy just because hes ugly!

Answer 10

women like that are shallow & narrow minded. u are generalizing too much. the majority of women tend to behave that way not all women.