Recently, I am single again. Woo Hoo!!! Spare of the moment, I was hungry for some sushi. Went to a nearby Sushi bar by myself for some Heinies and to fill my appetite for raw fish. Two tables away from me, I see this (beautiful) Asian, younger woman. But she was with another man. She was well dressed and her (date, I guess) was dressed really casually. Here in Hawaii, shorts, t-shirt and slippers (thongs) are OK for most parts, but not to a restaurant. Anyway, we caught each other's eyes and we both exchanged smiles. Being that they both had their back towards me, she looked over her shoulder frequently to look at me and smiled each time. I couldn't help myself but to smile back at her each time. She even got up a couple of times and walk past my table with this very seductive smile as if she was telling me to talk to her. Was this a missed opportunity? But I go by a rule that no one should mess with another mans girl and vise versa. I lost my former wife that way.
2007-10-04 17:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by liquor first, poker later 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men, please answer.
Women, why would a woman do this?
2007-10-04 18:01:08 · update #1
Also, please answer my "Does age really matter" question.
2007-10-04 18:05:56 · update #2
i really like your motto. You are one of the many careing people who put themselves in others shoes before you make a mistake. no its not a missed opertunity because it was the right choice and if it passed it passed and there is noting to drive yourself crazy about now. Woman tend to do this because once you look a lady in the eyes by accident and its scientifically proven a chemical reaction happens in the brain this chemical is love so you looked in her eyes and she did the same without trying to hard it perfectly worked. If you are a pro at makeing people love you, you will always try to look into their eyes. You fell in love by accident.
2007-10-04 18:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by servant of AR-RAHIM mostMERCIFUL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was definitely interested in you, and tried to get you to speak to her or ask her number, or she wouldn't have done the things she did.
It is good to go by the rule that no one should mess with another man's girl; however, I believe she was making a statement to you that she WAS NOT totally that man's girl.
Yes, this was an opportunity missed. Though, I can't really say what would be the polite way to handle it without seeming forward or rude to her "date". Maybe her wasn't her date, just a friend or brother. I can't say if age matters - that's your call.
Hang in there. As time goes on you will feel more comfortable about "approaching" a woman.
2007-10-05 01:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by sheek Txn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that the other guy didn't approach you saying "hey, my girlfriend said you're staring at her, what the heck," I would say that she was interested in you... You didn't mention if they were touchy-feely with each other but there's always the chance that she was with a guy friend/brother/cousin/etc...
Either way, since you didn't know, I think you did the right thing. Probably not as big of a deal before you've actually spoken with her and verified that she isn't single but who knows, maybe you wouldn't have been as strong willed after that point.
2007-10-05 01:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that a woman who was on a date was flirting with you in public may have been part of her 'excitement' for the evening, and may have made the rest of the evening more pleasurable for her. You may have just been someone in a role play for her - so don't take it too seriously.
If you see her again, ask if she's up for sushi and footsie.
2007-10-05 01:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes age matters if you are talking about someone that is 20 years your junior.
Anyway, you know that you don't hit on a women when she is with a date.
2007-10-05 01:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" her (date, I guess) " you didn´t know for sure!,,,
Women do that just for a women thing...but it could mean a lot of things.."Hello, come and dare"..."Hi he´s my friend", "Hey I really like you"... that´s what a smile can tell!:..
You missed that chance?.........You´ll never know!..
Or just like to smile...Before I was married I used to smile all the time..to all the people,,,some thought I was flirting, and usually I never was...Just like to smile and still do...Love to get smiles back..it´s like stealing energy from people. What can I do?...I´m happy with me all the time!....
2007-10-05 01:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by jackielafemme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you will get many answers with a screen name like yours.
2007-10-05 01:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋