A guy I have been seeing for a bit, we have been arguin a lot and I dont really think he sees me as a priority. He has been treating me rather coldly and he says its my fault as I insulted him now he is quite cold to me and rude. He lives put of town and he is coming to town this week end, I got mad at him and called him a B*****d cos he has really been treting me like crap and we have had sex. Any way last nite he was like he will try to see me this week end and he is not making any promises. I rang him to talk to him then he tells me we should take a break in the presesnce of his friend. He then txt me saying "Now you are getting on my nerves I have dealt with you in a mature manner but u seem to not understand me, we had sex, everybody has sex I did like you which led to lur passion but your attitude stinks, when you grow up give me a call, we are still friends." This coming from a guy who I spoke to and said he would try and see me. I replied him saying no worries about seeing me
2007-10-04 22:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me this weekend and that he should take care of himself. So far he has not replied. He is beingpurposely hurtful so what do you think??
2007-10-04 22:46:08 · update #1
i notice he put on his text 'we are still friends' hes trying to keep his options open for the next time he can fit you in.
if i was you I'd cut all ties with this bloke as he is obviously a user who expects you to put up with all his ways and turns it round on you if you stand up for yourself.
He is selfish, immature manipulating waste of your time
2007-10-04 22:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by sassychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidentally, you put more importance on the relationshiop than he did. Move on. Don't let him keep humiliating you by having sex and then treating you badly. Get out there an look good. Show him what he is missing!!
2007-10-05 05:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you are saying he is not treating you properly. If possible sit down and have a serious conversatin about waht you two are feeling. If you dont feel he is or will treat you properly, you are better off without him. why stay with a guy that makes you angry and treats you badly?
2007-10-05 05:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get this guy completely out of your life. He is not a person who deserves your friendship and he has clearly used you to satisfy his own needs.
2007-10-05 05:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trash the guy,he ain't the one for you.Take care in choosing the 'right guy',ok?
2007-10-05 05:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by jeybie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise to you is gal if he was yo soul mate try to work things out,but if he was just yo botfriend is better for u to find yo soul mate
2007-10-05 05:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by gagarofhiwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid........life is too short.
2007-10-05 05:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋