Beautifull and ugly please read!?

Question

Many people say that theres no need to worry if your beautifull or ugly, cause one day you will find a guy/girl that will love ya! Well i think thats Bulls**t, cause i dont want to find a girl when im like 25 years old, and i realy think its unfair cause ugly people to find a girl they have to realy try hard for it but beautifull people dont need to do anything about it, it just comes every day, why did god made it this way ffs.

So basicly ugly people are like always sad cause they cant kiss or make love with the girl they realy love and that is realy unfair. But some people dont even care about girls and dont even care about them selfs, and thats stupid.


There has always been a girl that, the only think i want from her is to like me, and i dont want to be with her just to f**k her, i want to BE with her to know her to hug and kiss her nothing else, WHY CANT THAT COME TRUE!! WHY SO UNFAIR!

and here is a pic of me http://photos1.hi5.com/0006/248/290/UiFtZ5248290-02.jpg

Answer 1

I personally do not think you are ugly at all. I also think that you have the kind of face that will look really great as you age,

All that is necessary is a shift in attitude. The sad fact is that life is unfair..luckily,. women are less superficial than most guys who ignore wonderful females that are overweight or not raving beauties. I know a very unattractive women and she married an unattractive man but their kids look nice and they have been married over 30 years and are good companions to each other so most people do really find someone to love them for who they are. Many beautiful people find people who want to use them for sex or status and might not find a 30 year partner. They may be looked on as conquests or as someone that is too attractive to ask out so few do.

Many women do not care that much if the man has some flaws or weight..not like men do as they totally do not give someone less attractive a moment's notice as they are so visual and so into looks first but looks do fade.

A wise person looks for personality and what is inside and compatibility and for how they are treated and how they feel when with the person they like for something more serious.

many, many less attractive people or even obese people wind up with people others feel are far too good for them looks wise but these supposedly less attractive people have substance. Lacking an easy ticket like fabulous looks or body, they develop other things to attract others like intelligence, thoughtfulness, sense of humor, putting others at ease, being a good listener and support, a dependable job or career, skills, great personality, and so forth. they learn to be considerate, giving lovers and romantic and attentive. You must develop an inner sense of self worth by finding good things about yourself and believing in yourself..this will attract others to you..feeling ugly or that life is unfair or sucks may seem comfortable but it repells others from you. so start working to change that attitude. Although some God "gifted" some with looks at any moment one's life could change from a wreck, accident, fire, age, etc. He may have made some more beautiful but He made others more intelligent, wiser, more intuitive, funny, etc.

Everyone has many gifts..cultivate them, notice them, appreciate them and enhance and improve the things you can and let the rest go.. Plus people can still be happy even if they are alone as impossible as that may seem to someone young.

There are many people that are truly ugly..you are not one of them..you may not be perfect, but ease up on yourself..maybe it is not your looks but something else..try to figure out what and change that and add some new improvements.

If you are truly just looking for affection and not sex but something more permanent..right there you have an edge over many, many guys...so use that as once someone sees you truly care about them for themselves, they will also be drawn back to you.

good luck...time heals everything so don't worry..I am 99% sure you will find someone someday so b patient and in the meanwhile find some wonderful things about life and think on those things..


Maybe try a voice chat room as if you are not just looking for sex, you will be extremely unique and talking on the phone and letting her know you from the inside out will cause someone who might otherwise pass you by to pay attention and like you every before you meet..

Answer 2

if every one was beautiful and things came easily there would not be anything to strive for in life and then life would become boring and obsolete.

25 is not old so dont stress
you're not ugly at least you got a face and some people dont, by way of car accidents and burns victims
try cleaning up your attitude for starters that makes a big difference to how you actully look like.
the personality makes the face prettier to look at too.
you obviously have alot to give because you know how to treat a lady and some men dont have those traits you do.

Answer 3

Well I've seen your picture, do ya think that maybe people are put off by your whining, cause I've also seen ugly? You might try less whine, more patience and maturity, and not be in such a hurry to do as grownups do, just to end up sniveling about how great it was when you were young.

Answer 4

I think this is your Karma. In another life, you were a beautiful person but you were selfish and ignored and neglected ugly people around you. So in this life you are no longer beautiful and being neglected by a beautiful person. You have to accept your karma and try to be a better person this time so in your next life you will reborn into a beautiful person again; but this time you have learned your lesson.

Answer 5

Beautiful people get hurt more often because everyone wants to use them as a show piece instead of loving them as a person. It takes twice as long to find a mate in life because we have to weed through all of the bad opportunities to get to the right person.

We all have our burdens to bear!!!

Answer 6

... if you dont have the looks, then you have to have the charms on personalities.

do sweet things for her without expecting anything in return. treat her better, help her, be her hero.
how to do it? well, observe her, notice the slightest change in her. You'd be amazed how things like this really matter.

it can be true if you decide to make a move instead of rambling at here. well, make your move now :)

gud luck, and ur not ugly. well, at least ur thin.
unlike me ;(

Answer 7

Did you ask this because you think you're ugly? You're not. ;)

But, I agree with what you're saying about how simple it seems for a beautiful person to find a lover.

There ARE people out there who don't care about looks. It's just that there aren't very many of them, and they're hard to find.

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a359/TBookman/Red.jpg

Answer 8

hey.., it's true that beautiful people have an advantage to it, but that doesn't mean that you won't find that special someone. usually, true love looks in the inside.. not in the outside. maybe you should focus more on what you can do for her not how you look when ur with her.

Answer 9

yer well you need to do something about your acne but other than that your fine you will find a girl there are heaps that would go out with you. You just need to believe in yourself man you'll win in the end you'll see.

Answer 10

you are not an ugly kid!!!
dont be said ... and i doubt you'll b waiting until you are 25---which is not old BTW.
just relax... the more comfy you are the more comfy others will be around you...