So I met the girl of my dreams in class. Caught her looking at me and smiling at me, and I thought "holy ****, seriously" so over the next two weeks or so,I am shy, i get the nerve to talk to her. Nervous, I sound retarded, but I manage to make her smile. Four days later, nervous again, I talk to her and get her number. She gives me her number, and I called the next day.No answer. Called again a few days later, nothing. Now when I see her, she ignores me! it hurts so much, I want to die. I can't stop tjhinking of her. Why would she do that to me? Especially since she knows I am shy and nervous and stuff? this sucks. And I have been through the whole breakup thing a couple times, but this hurts more than anything i ever been through my whole life. I don't know what to do, I have to go to class 3 days a week with her, but i have been ditching classes to avoid seeing her ignore me. Why is she doing this to me? I wanna die so bad, but all I can do is type this..What can i do? Help me.
2007-10-04 20:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
rejection it happens, it's not the worst thing ever trust me. Putting yourself out there you will get hurt, but you'll also win. She just lacks any integrity and is a biatch. Go to class and don't look at her talk to her. Just go on like normal.
2007-10-04 21:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Corey the Cosmonaut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the man , get the situation .In the future remember one thing if two young people like each other , a gurl shouldn"t come first to a boy .
In your case will be better if you find her and talk tell her what you feel , explain the reason but don"t tell her that you SHY !!!
I think if you start acting now everything gonna be ok.
You"re the man remember that and never forget .
I hope she will understand ya dude .
Good luck .
2007-10-04 21:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems cruel but it is something people seem to do these days, I'm sorry you feel like this it will pass i know this is the last thing you want to hear but there are many more girls out there for you, ones who will treat you right and want to be with you. When the right one comes along you know it... until then try to go to class I know its humiliating trust me i have been there but if you let her think it doesn't bother you its her who will feel bad because she didn't get the reaction she wanted. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she has upset you walk with your head held high because the right one for you is right around the corner.
2007-10-04 21:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by jaineelyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out.
No female in the world is worth dying for at this stage of your acquaintance. She obviously is not interested in you. Rejection happens. It's happened to a lot of us and most of us hurt but go on.
It will hurt for a while. But you will survive and grow and there are enough women in the world that losing this one is barely a blip on the radar screen.
I know what you are going through. Been through it a few times myself. It's never pleasant, but you will get over it.
2007-10-04 21:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta be strong.
everyone gets rejected by someone at least a few times in their life time.
no. if she ignores you she is not a girl of your dreams.
trust me. the right person will come along sooner or later.
2007-10-04 21:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone easls then her someone how makes u happy someone u now how will like u for how u are u don't want to talk some time email me
2007-10-05 01:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start flerting with someone else. plenty fish in the sea
2007-10-04 21:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sucks but you gots to tough it out.
2007-10-04 21:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋