wel last week i was chattn to an old mate of mine and he asked me if my frend who iwas tryn to set hm up with is still single. myfrend was on an off with her bf so i thgt i shud ask her and see what she says.
i txt her and she told me to giv hm her other numbr whch her bf doesnt knw she has....
wel wen i start tellln dis guy abt my frned he realises dat he already knows her and knows that she has bf!!!
so i jus say to hm she broke up with hm last week..but told hm to leave it for now...
then my frned she txts me sayn my bf read ur txts and hes really pissd off with you!!!!
and he wants me to choose between u an hm becasue he thnks im not a good frned to hav wantd to ruin her relationshp by gettn anothr guy involved...
now she xt me sayn that shes goin to send me a mean msg telln me that her bf doesnt approve of her talkn to me so she wants me to stop txtn her an stuff and wantd me to send one sayin dont worry il leave u alone for good now!!!just thngslik that so she cud prove2hm
2007-10-04 23:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by bushra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now im hurt becasue i thnk that her bf is more improtant to her then me becaus she wants to keep hm happy an not me!!! what shud i do??? help
2007-10-04 23:53:20 · update #1
lol by the way im not a little gal!!!im 21 an shes 26....jus to clarify were not kids!!!lol
2007-10-05 00:10:55 · update #2
First of all I don't think too much of your friend for playing or at least being willing to play around on her boyfriend. She's a liar and a cheat and you're not much better for colluding with her!!
This is your chance to straighten up and fly right! If she care more about her current sperm donor than you I'd say you are well rid of a bad influence and to not put yourself in such compromising situations in the future!!
You're probably young and don't know better so don't take it personally. I'll tell you this though. Life is a lot easier when you approach things head-on and don't permit bullsh*t to complicate your life!! Don't take it or give it to others! It may be painful now but you'll be better off in the long run.
Good luck and God Bless you!
21 and 26? Sweetheart, age has very little to do with maturity which you and especially your girlfriend have just proved.
2007-10-05 00:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by A. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but this internet lingo from teens is making it very difficult to understand the whole issue, other than your friend was willing to cheat and you lied for her, and now she's covering her *** to save face in front of her boyfriend. Do you really want a friend like this? Wow.
2007-10-04 23:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing with her boyfriend, and isn't going to be faithful to him, but needs you to play along with her, so he will think that she isn't messing around. Do yourself a favor, get rid of her, because she is playing you just like she plays her boyfriends, and will be back when she needs a friend. She doesn't realize that friendship doesn't work that way. You are either a friend, or an acquaintant.
2007-10-05 00:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a lot of effort into trying to read this..but gave up...
Best friends do this, its just part of life. The ball is in her court by the sounds of it and SHE will decide on the outcome.. sorry to say but thats usually how it goes..
2007-10-05 00:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is not you're friend! You deserve better. I had a friend like that ane even though her and her bf have split up she still won't talk to me!!! So you should just tell her where to stick it and tell her to grow up! Friends always come before bf's!!! It's like one of the biggest girl rules ever!! x
2007-10-05 00:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Layla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no no no honey wat type of friend is this who chooses her boyfriends over her best friend thats some messed up stuff..wat u should text her is why are ur tryin to put on a show for him u wanna tell me things to text so he'll think that ur listenin to him..no i'm sorry but it looks like u already chose a boyfriend who could possibly dump you over a best friend like me whos been there with u through thick and thin but its jus seem like u've fallin in his little web and now ur all tangled up and brain washed...
well something like that jus try to make her feel bad bout wat she's done
2007-10-05 00:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by anabananaz41592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno how to help coz my mom gave this 'advice':
once u got ur bf, u dont need ur friends like u need him.
she also said they will wanna *** him.
crazy, yea, but wen i had my bf it made sense and seemed true, then we broke up and i got my friends bak.. thats how its works i guess
2007-10-04 23:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey grow up ... u know ur truthful ....she is trying to cover up so y r bothered its her bf's prob u should b happy to be getting rid of such a female out of ur life !!
2007-10-05 00:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by pups 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling jealous over your best friend's bf is normal... don't think that your friend has dump you... no way. she needs to be with someone else this time. ones you have your bf you will understand this better...
2007-10-04 23:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by rainydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it all up hon! it's little girlie stuff! grow up!
2007-10-04 23:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋