I have been with my partner 2 years and we have a 5 month old baby he has started wearing boxer shorts & sometimes tracksuit bottoms in bed he has always slept in the nude previously and also gets dressed downstairs now I am lucky to have sex with him once a week I have asked him if he still loves me and said I am concerned he said not to panic and he still loves me but things really dont feel right. He says he is just worried about providing for the family in the future and his stressed. should I be worried he is cheating or bored with me
2007-10-04 21:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This can be a common occurrence shortly after birth of a baby - particularly the first baby. Both partners should make an effort to remain intimate in this new phase of life. Roles change a bit as you move from partners to parents, but your love for each other should remain.
Kids change things - no doubt! But they are a wonderful addition to life.
2007-10-05 16:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's worried about providing for the family in the future and is stressed? Which is what he said. Why are you trying to read more into it than what he said. Listen to him. Let him know you love him and trust him and believe in him. Don't go looking for trouble that's not there.
2007-10-04 21:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is if neither of you have had the commitment to get married than you aren't committed enough. Simple as that. You can't expect to keep up this romantic notion can you. This is coming from someone who is happily married for 13 years, goes to bed fully dressed, and has four kids.
2007-10-08 21:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably stressed like he said and probably less attracted to you sexually. You've gone from role of sex partner, to mother of his child and mother is not a sexy role. You may have gained weight too. Give it time.
2007-10-04 21:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋