I was dating my b/f for nine months. I was really into him, and I thought he was into me. Right toward the end, rather unexpectedly, he broke up with me. He says its because he doesn't want to be a stepfather/can't deal with my kids. He can't see his own children much because of the custody problems. I've tried to include him with the children and we all love him. I told him we should seek counseling and I would try anything to keep things together. For awhile we didn't speak. So I gave up. He got a new g/f, but apparently that didn't last. He called me about eleven months after the fact, and wanted to come over. He said he still thinks about me and misses me, etc.. He spent the night. He said he would call. He hasn't. I called once but didn't leave a message. I still love him and I haven't wanted to date, meet anyone new. I want him to make the move since he was the one who broke up to begin with (this was the third break up). I want to call him? should I? any advice?
2007-10-04 23:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by hawaiiwahine71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Swim away.
2007-10-04 23:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him make you his booty call. He was horny and thought about you. If he had still been getting some with the new gf, you would not have entered his mind. Move on. You and your children are a package deal.
He was just feeling guilty because he was giving more of himself to your children and could not give to his. That is very typical when a father can not see his own children very much, but spends a lot of time with other children.
2007-10-05 06:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a nice thing to be in love but I bet u this man is not for u. put ur life together and move on. come to terms with ur new disposition and things will get better. I believe u will get a man who will accept u and want to be with u as u are with the kids. put up a possitive attitude and hope for the best to come ur way. I wish u luck!
2007-10-05 06:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your b/f just wants to play around. I think he broke up with you to see someone else. He needs to grow up, and if he really loves you, then he will accept your kids (you come as a package), and if things do work out with you two, DON"T FORGET ABOUT THE KIDS!)
2007-10-05 06:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Moochie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. He has issues. It's OK, everone does, but these issues hurt you and your kids. Be strong, don't let him use you at his leisure. It's time to find someone who's willing to commit. You know this story already, right? Don't relive it over and over.
2007-10-05 06:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by freshsilver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the agro-obviously hasn't got his head together! I'd let go. Good luck
2007-10-05 06:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by sammy jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sensible answer.. he is usuing you and forget him and move on..
silly answer.. if you have a resurfacing boyfriend send him to my street cos the condition of the road is terrible and could do with some resurfacing!
2007-10-05 06:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by superloopy70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother. If he really wanted to be with you he would. Sounds like an airse anyway.
2007-10-05 06:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bury him properly next time :)
2007-10-05 06:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋