Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

She simply doesn't like you and is spreading rumors that you flirt and want to sleep with all the male members of the family?

2007-09-28 23:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If i deposit some on a towel & leave it in a girl's bedroom, will the scent make her fall in love with me?

I am just starting to date at the moment.

Thanks

2007-09-28 23:42:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is not the most loved up person,what can i do to change that and make her more loving towards me?

2007-09-28 23:26:50 · 12 answers · asked by Paul R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me

2007-09-28 23:12:01 · 2 answers · asked by saskia9will 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 23:01:46 · 15 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my grandma very much to the point that I sometimes joke around with her like she was my best friend. Anyway, I was joking around with her yesterday and she took offense to it. I know I have to change the way I deal with her but I NEVER MEAN TO HURT HER. So my aunt tells me that she doesn't want to see or talk to me again. What do I do? I can't take that! I know I messed up but there's nothing I can do to make it right. :(

2007-09-28 22:38:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

for old offences that he committed 9 months ago and since then he has sorted his life out, got a job and we have a baby on way due in feb! now he has gone to jail for 15 months and i feel so alone and angry at him! i know i have to be strong but its so difficult! he is the love of my life, we are even engaged! i love him so much and i am scared how will i cope without him around when babys born as i have a disability and im scared that social services will steal my baby?

2007-09-28 22:06:27 · 20 answers · asked by blonderosey 3 in Family

2007-09-28 22:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband beat me and tried to murder me for jewels and money and also provoked me to commit suicide.The only direct witness for this is my nine year old son.will the indian court accept a child witness?

2007-09-28 22:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by ritu s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we dated almost 8 months
we had the closest, best relationship
we were really comfortable around each other
it was almost perfect
her family loved me
I practically lived at her house
but she got a job
and we talked less
but I saw her at least 2 times a week
we broke up last Saturday
she claimed she didn't feel the same anymore
she kissed me before I left
4 days later
she gets on her friends aim and pretends to be her while talking to me
she said that it's weird when i said "when we dated"
and she tried to get my password to get on my myspace and i guess snoop around.
the next day after that, i try calling her and seeing how she is doing
the friend told me she said that she doesn't want me back and that she's over it and wants to take a break from me
this confuses me, and no listen to me, I DO NOT want to get over her and I definately DO NOT want her to get over me, she wont answer when I call.
So im thinking about going to her house and try to kiss her.
Iwantherbac

2007-09-28 21:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tis may sound silly... Is it normal to be intimately fantasing 'eye catching" guys seen during our daily routines? afterall thoughts are not wrong? talking about moral or ethics...world is getting to be a confusing place nowadays.

2007-09-28 21:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by coffee_tea_or 4 in Singles & Dating

he has a girl friend already and he told me that he really need her, can't live without her! yet at the same time he also get invole with me while have a chance to be close to each other. I wanted him to be mine but i don't want to force thing and i somehow don't like this kind of behavir at all

2007-09-28 21:56:32 · 5 answers · asked by Jesyka 1 in Singles & Dating

my car broke down.the first time, it was a guy friend that came over to help move the car to my apparment when it wouldn't start.i need a new starter. my bf opts to fix it. i wait for a while but all i hear from my bf is, i need to help you fix the car. i make arrangements to get to fixed. i tell my bf about it and he says he has told me he will fix it. i tell him i know but he hasn't even looked at the car since it broke down for the second time and i need my car running. he said i need a starter, i need to get a starter. i told him my car is not running so i can't go get a starter. he told me to catch a bus and go to an auto part store and order one and he'll put it in for me. what can you say about this guy from his attitude towards this?

2007-09-28 21:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A husband told to his office woman colleague that now her breast bigger. His wife over heard it and confronted him. He claiming that it is just a joke. Just wanna know all u guys opinion.

2007-09-28 21:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by Lively_spirit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was very, VERY young (14) and very, very stupid, I allowed my then boyfriend (who was also 14 at the time) to take some topless photos of me.

I am 22 now, and no longer have contact with this person, and haven't since we graduated from high school.

This has been bothering me recently. I know how to get ahold of him, but I don't exactly want to. I am well on my way to sucess in my current career, one which may well put me into the public's eye, and I would prefer to not have something like what happened to Vanessa Hudgeons happen to me.

Is this something I should bring up to him, and find out if he still has them and if he would be willing to get rid of them? He's quite the computer whiz and I seriously doubt he would still have the computer he had then. Not to mention, I was 14 then. Definitely creepy for him to be looking at them now.

Would asking him about it make it worse? Should I just forget about it and hope it never becomes an issue?

2007-09-28 21:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if so how did things pan out and was jealousy ever an issue? do you have any regrets or mistakes you feel you made in the relationship? Any issues that came up over the fame thing that should have been handled differently?

2007-09-28 21:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told one of my friends that she can be my maid of honor, but I dont think that she can be up to that duty, shes always busy, and seems a little distant to me these days. I want a different friend of mine to be the MOH now. How can I let her down gently? or should i just give her a chance?

2007-09-28 21:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by Suzie 2 in Weddings

Hi! I like this teacher who is 20 years elder to me. But I always fanatzise about him. However I'm hesitant to tell because 1. He is my teacher, 2. He is too elder than me, what shall I do, shall I ask him for a date??

2007-09-28 21:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering: what is the motivation of people who stalk you on the internet and abuse you?

Over at Yahoo! Japan Answers, there is at least one man( could be more than one) who keeps answering all my questions, and posts abusive comments. I keep blacklisting him to block his answers, but then he changes his ID (and he chooses ID names which make fun of me, for example, he might copy my ID name, or make his ID name something like "thiswomaniscrazy/stupid".

The kinds of things he would say include:

"Sex, sex, sex...is that all you think about, slut? Why don't you become a prostitute if you like sex so much!"

(And this is only in response to some questions regarding my ex-boyfriend...Yes, I did sleep with him once after breaking up...but given that my ex is the only sexual partner I've ever had, I don't think this makes me a slut and his comment is unwarranted...)

Also, he says:

"I feel sorry for your parents for having made a child like you"

Unfortunately, this stalking and

2007-09-28 21:17:09 · 6 answers · asked by risono2166 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

yet always broke and picks fights over nothing...Second part of the story...He works in construction with mostly men...However three of the employees are female secretaries and one of them is being really inapropriately flirtatious with him...On his myspace a week after we broke up the first time she put a comment on his myspace, it went as follows, "How's my favorite technican..hehe...xoxo (the hehe and xoxo in my mind put this into the innapropriate territory..i was nauseated)...She is a swinger...It says so on her myspace page "Electric Ladyland" is her screename...eww...
Also last message she sent him was an email (he must've sent her one first saying he's considering moving moving (he says that he and she don't even talk outside of work...HA!)...Anyway she sent him an email back suggesting he move closer to her in MD. He doesn't know I read it...If it were innocent he would not have deleted it right?

2007-09-28 21:09:53 · 12 answers · asked by babebear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents divorced when I was 4 - but I can remember having seen them argue forever. They are a mismatched couple.

Recently I've decided I am not interested in marriage and/or de-facto (I'm 22). My father says that this may have arisen as a result of seeing the relationship between him and my mother and I agree.

Has anyone else here has their romantic life affected seriously by their parent's relationship? Have they loved each other all their lives and you've based your relationship on that? Or have they been like mine and probably scared you away from such a future?

2007-09-28 21:01:10 · 17 answers · asked by Lighthouse 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with this guy for 5 years on and off but straight for 1 and 5 months.he constantly breaks my heart and lies and lies and lies.. everytime we break up he always talks to this one girl.. i have no trust in him. its long distance.. and i break up with him when he hurts me.. and then he wont call me all weekend but will call me on the weekdays ONLY and wants me back and is "sorry" then i let him in again and when it comes to weekends he wont talk to me..so its basically like his free time out.. and i always take him back.. he only apprectaites me more when im wit him.. he takes me for granted.. and its like he isnt even sorry for what he does. im worried and confused. i want to move on but i cant find anyone and i cant get over him. im so hurt and lost. i need so much advice. i dont even go out on the weekends and he does.. and i dont even know what he does. i have a broken heart, ive given him everything i had and its like it wasnt enough.. :''/ help me please. im begging you

2007-09-28 20:51:18 · 7 answers · asked by allie b 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 15 years and my husband has a moody character. He is kind, loving caring and every good charactor that a husband should have then all of a sudden he goes crazy all for nothing. Last night we were going out with our 2 kids to have fun and very calmly I told him that he is overspeeding. He said a very nasty word to me in front of the kids. So I told him that I want to get out of the car ( still calm ). All of a sudden he hit my head to the window and started driving crazy yelling that this is bad driving and not that. The children were crying and screaming of fright. So sad. I acted indifferent to what he did and stoped talking to him. He appologized after an hour like he does every time he goes crazy. At night he kissed me & appologized again . The fact is that I forgave him because I know he is sick but I 'm sick and tired of everything. Once I took him to a counselor but he says he does not need one and I'm the one who needs counselling not to drive him mad,

2007-09-28 20:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by lost-in-love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If there were one big kick a s s send off party being held for all baby boomer's at woodstock would you go. No cops allowed and anything goes.

2007-09-28 20:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by Teenie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

QUESTION: Is there something wrong with me?

Before I give the gory details I'd like to establish some premises:

i) I'm not gay, because I feel no attraction to males or have any desire to have sex with guys.
ii)I'm a male. (I suppose if i) holds then ii) is a corollary.
iii) I don't have a big Peter myself. It's actually average if not smaller than average. (approx. 4.5 inches when erect.) Not big I know.

Here's the thing. I think about c0cks all the time and much like the character in the movie Superbad I used to (and still do when the mood strikes) draw pictures of *****. Also I usually google pictures of Peter North and other male porn stars all the time just to admire their monster Tools.

2007-09-28 20:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always been anti-abortion from my religious beliefs.. but I need advice

I am 19. 20 in December.
If I keep it my partner will do a runner and I'll be alone. I dont have a cent to my name nor a job or my own place at the moment. I'm not in the right place at the moment and I dont know how I'll manage it alone...
I am exploring all options now Im looking at Abortion though im still undecided.
I see that the abortion pill is not legal in australia? I could maybe do this... but the vacuum thing? Seems so traumatic. The only way I could is under general anesthetic. So im out of it the whole time.
I was just wanting to know from people how the process is. How traumatic and if anyones had general anesthetic.
Just any imput or experiences please...

I'm 6 weeks in a couple days...

2007-09-28 20:30:15 · 7 answers · asked by KS 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so like, in middle school i had this big mouth and i would say all this stuff to everyone. i didn't know any better. last year i was a freshman andd i was better about it, but i might let slip a couple insignificant things to people. usually on accident. twice i told someone a big secret, because i am terrible at holding them in. so because of this, i developed some kind of reputation among my circle of friends that i am not someone to tell stuff too, because apparently i'll tell EVERYONE. otherwise, i am a really loyal friend, and its not like im two faced or anything, most of the time i have just said something too early when they werent supposed to know yet or something. however, its been the first couple months of sophomore year and i think i am WAY better and i havent spilled anything i wasnt supposed to but my best friend(s) still wont tell me certain things that they tell everyone else. if everyone who i would tell knows then who am i going to say anything to??

2007-09-28 20:27:03 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Friends

Well, the saga is over. He broke my Heart for the last time.
Intellectually I knew better, but my love for this man over-ruled my common sense, now I sit here once again with a shattered heart. I am done with this. I guess I just needed one more disappointment from him, to finally come to terms with the cliche: You never cross the same river twice. I am determined now to move on in my life free of him.

2007-09-28 20:13:30 · 9 answers · asked by khd 1 in Singles & Dating

despite the avatar, i'm a girl, using my bros account. well anyways, i know this girl who's supposed to be going to my school, but she didn't register for it. and i know she moved from calgary around feb. she told me she used to smoke and drink there, and now i'm kinda getting this pang of guilt every time i think about it. i know 'the right thing' to do would be to let someone know, but who???and i'm kind of her friend, but... yeah.... i dunno what to do....

2007-09-28 20:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

kids running around high schools with machine guns, lack of ethics , coldness among relatives, uneducation , lack of parental guideness, high rate of divorces, where are american families going?

2007-09-28 20:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by captainamerica 1 in Family