Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

I told my GF to get on the pill because I won't use condoms with her. Anyway she stopped taking it (or in her words "a miracle happened) and she is now pregnant. I told her we had a deal and its her responsibility to get an abortion. She wants to keep the baby and I told her I would sue her for fraud if she did. Has anyone ever heard of winning such a case? If so, please cite me to it.

2007-09-28 14:25:11 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents got divorced when I was really little and my mom and step-dad got married when I was 4 and he has always been my dad he is who raised me... i am having him walk me down the aisle. How do I tell my real dad that I want him to do a reading during the ceremony but my step dad is walking me down the aisle? with out totally crushing him... (i see my real dad maybe once a year, so we are not super close)...

2007-09-28 14:20:16 · 14 answers · asked by tiggerwmu99 2 in Weddings

i have a new baby boy. i've been having so very wierd dreams latley. i was sexually molested as a young girl and my biggest fear is that the same thing will happen to my children. i've been having sexual dreams about my son and myself. i don't see him as anything more than a beautiful baby boy. why am i having these dreams? do i need mental help? is something wrong with me?

2007-09-28 14:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he usually always has a g/f so when he breaks up with one i want to get his attention because hes never single for that long

2007-09-28 14:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by Hayley♥Brielle 2 in Singles & Dating

He says he did not talk to anyone, but I don't know why he did it to start with. He admitted he was curious about online dating, but he promised he would not do it again, and he loved me more than life itself. He said he would not jeopardize our marriage for it, what is your oppinion? I know he loves me, but am I just being insecure about his motives?

2007-09-28 14:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by dduty45 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...do what wifey says? Seriously, if there's something I don't agree with, it's fruitless to argue, because of course men and women come from two different trains of thought. There were times that I just caved instead of speaking up fro myself more, just to avoid an argument I have no hope of winning. I've been asked to give up a couple of things that made NO SENSE to me whatsoever!

2007-09-28 13:58:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my dad went to go and get some gas for his lawn mower. He only wanted me to go, so I could pay for it, and he wouldn't have to walk up there, and it would be alot faster. Well, he gave me seven dollars to pay for it, and I came back, and he had pumped $7.01......and we only paid seven dollars for it. My mom only gave him a five dollar check, but he added two dollars.....so on the check, its got all of our information on it. I was just wondering if there was anyway we could get in trouble for this? Thanks Alot!!

2007-09-28 13:57:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so i ahve a boyfriend, and i care about him very much. and my bbfs boyfriend has a friend and we all hung out and i thought his friend was really cool. lets call him Bill (thats not his name) and lets call my boyfriend Bob(again not his name) so anyway on thurday me and Bill hung out again and me and him hit it off big time, he can always make me smile and laugh, and i can never get him out of my mind anymore, he's in my mind more than bob. but i on thursday after he dropped me off at my house he called me and we got to talking and we have so much in common.. and we get along really welll. and he likes me and i like him... but i have a boyfriend. and i still like him a little. but i know hes still in love with me and i dont want to break his heart. all my friends say to date bill but i really dont want to hurt bob. i really need help, i dont know what to do.
and please dont be rude in your answers

you can message me if u want more info

2007-09-28 13:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by ellie.smiles 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know.

2007-09-28 13:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by David B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know how to do this that why o need help is this like myspace were you get to chat and contact and give people your number and go on dates with them cause is it is i like it

2007-09-28 13:38:19 · 3 answers · asked by dramaqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that if a guy grows a beard it means he's hiding something,what if he already has one when you meet him?Does that still apply?And is this always true?

2007-09-28 13:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not despreat just lonley and confussed about my life it would help if she lived in cali!! maybe even a boy im so dont care

2007-09-28 13:35:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How important is being a virgin or not? That is how big of a factor is it? I am a 18 year old male virgin that a bad thing? Good?

Neither have I kissed anyone yet. Bad? Good?

Am I loser?

2007-09-28 13:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by djmixah7 3 in Singles & Dating

She says she dosent have any sex drive. Shes 23 years old. Somethings wrong here. She goes out alot with her girl friends--late. She wont get close, emotionally, with me anymore.

Should I be concerned?

2007-09-28 13:32:36 · 29 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i've liked this one guy for a while. He recently asked me out, and we are together in 3rd, 4th, 5th, and 6th period classes. It's come to the point where we can honestly admit that we are in love. It's just that...I can't stand being away from him now. It's like I have to see him. What do I do!!!

2007-09-28 13:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♫Wolf♫ 5 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a few weeks ago and everything was going more than great, but gradually I sensed that he wasn't really into me, (the phone calls diminished and I had to make plans). Lately Ive been a little cynical and all my friends are telling me I should give guys more of a chance,which I tried to do with this one, I would like some feedback , because tonight its either stay together or move on

2007-09-28 13:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

-me and my boyfriend were kissing and got emotional we had no direct skin contacts in private areas since we had clothes on.but my pants were damp before we started messing with each other from my own discharge and after.idont know if he ejaculated on me or not during the act.
-can sperms pass through clothes he was very close and tight on me.
-am virgin or was one and i feel guilty of ever even starting the whole act
-am afraid of getting pregnant and i actual dont want too since am too young tring to make my life better and that was worst desicion ever made.
-how soon do pregnancy symptoms come coz i already startd feeling bad healthwise i dont know if its because of that or is it because i exercise alot,
-Am so stressed i havent told anyone since am considered innocent nobody would even believe i did anything like that.and i wanna take my personal measures to help myself since got into it by myself too.
-regret never taking any medcine or precaution

2007-09-28 13:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by laka1 1 in Singles & Dating

Y IS IT THAT WEN A GIRL LOVES OR LIKES A GUY SO MUCH THE GUY IS ALWAYS TH IDDIOT .... I USED TO LIKE THIS GUY FOR A LONG TIME AND HE TREATED ME LIKE CRAP THAN I TIME PAST N HE LIKED ME ALOOOT WE KEPT TALKING BUT ALL THES SUUDEN THINGS CHANGES N HIS LOCKED UP RIGHT KNOW HE WONT GET OUT TILL NEXT YEAR AND I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO SHOULD I MOVE ON . I FELL BAD B/CZ I MENA HIS LOCKED UP N WAT IF HE STILL LIKES ME

2007-09-28 13:26:30 · 10 answers · asked by Santana 1 in Singles & Dating

i think at least a month 10 good dates what do you think?

2007-09-28 13:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by glitsyjewels 3 in Singles & Dating

I have made some mistakes in my marriage.. I guess we all have to a various degree. But this question I pose to the men and women out they're in Yahoo land is ask because if you knew that, has the cheater, you would never do it again, would you be better off just not saying anything and learning from your mistake? Or do you take the honest route and tell he or she that you had an affair? I think if you told that person, you would have to understand that the trust would not be there anymore! Even if you never did it again! I know telling the truth is the right thing to do, but.. is it always the best thing to do in the overall scope of things?

2007-09-28 13:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for documents in the state of PA. Is it possible to find them?

2007-09-28 13:21:52 · 5 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Relationship broke up 10 years ago. I moved out and my Ex remained in property rent free for 6 years. Paid nothing towards mortgage. moved out of property 4 years ago and has now turned up wanting money for share of property. Can she do this. There are no children involved.

2007-09-28 13:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by P B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been together now for 5 years and married now for 1 we have a 2 month old boy & i recently discovered that he has been talking with other women on the internet and chatting with them trying to get to know them and then i went even further back and realized that he has been doing it throughout the entire course of our relationship he is my first love and first everything (if you know what i mean) i have confronted him about it and he said that he didnt think it was cheating because he never met face to face with them. He says he wont do it again and that he does not want to lose me but what goes through my head is that it was only 9 months ago that he did this. I just feel so hurt, all i can see is the things he wrote to these girls and how he told them their pics are beautiful & such...&here i am worried that i would not be able to give him a son ( i was having medical problems), i dont know if i can forgive him am i overreactting?

2007-09-28 13:16:39 · 30 answers · asked by Celeste W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at school

2007-09-28 13:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that sounds very weird haha. okay let me explain, my boyfriend is older by 2 years older and way more experienced as in has had sex before..we kiss a lot and when we're at his house on his bed just laying there kissing he'll be like "god im so horny i'm gonna have to go into another room in like a minute" and he'll ask if i'm horny and i never am! he kisses my stomach, breasts and everything. he's even went 'down there' before like fingering and none of this makes me horny!!! i know hes trying to get me horny he'll tickle me and do other stuff like kissing my stomach and legs it just tickles a lot and i laugh, ughhh. i actually wanna have sex with him,but i think i should get horny or SOMETHING before doing all of that.. i really don't get it..i know i'm attracted to him, i just don't get why he's always so flipping horny and i never am i really wish i could get horny when i'm with him it would be amazing..pleaaaase help me and why am i so damn tickleish??

2007-09-28 13:15:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 13:14:46 · 8 answers · asked by marji129 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl I know who seems to like me but in early August she stated how she wants to have 2 summer flings, I'm not sure how much she likes me but she broke up with her on-again, off-again relationship with her idiot b/f in June and says she still loves him, she cares about him & respects him, yet she said she won't go back wit him...Is she lying? and when it comes to me. She always seems to be in denial? I dun compliment at all really...only here and there *in a small manner* & if i say something like *wow, you looks pretty in that shirt, she'll get mad" I've told her personally that I like her, I'm doing my part as a guy to be normal and 2 be there for her....But is it really worth it? Does she seem like she has low-self esteem? Is she confused? Does she seem immature? by the way...Shes 15, I'm not sure if that matters or not

2007-09-28 13:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I speak only english, and a very good looking girl that speaks only spanish is interested in me, could a relationship like that work out?

2007-09-28 13:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by andyvpeck 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my boyfriend today while I was at work on instant messenger. He mentioned that he was having trouble deciding between three different things to get me for my birthday. He mentioned the first two, and the third was "a ring". Now we have talked about marriage before -- we've been living together for over six months and have been together over a year, so of course we've talked about getting married "eventually". Lately he has also been talking about wanting to buy a house when our lease is up. I was so shocked to see that he had said he was considering buying me a ring that I didn't respond back to his message for a good five minutes, and he said something along the lines of "you're baffled" and then got snippy when I talked about the other two things instead of the ring. Of course, I would say yes if he asked, but I don't want to assume that he is actually planning to propose. Part of me still really thinks it may still be too soon to get married. What should I do?

2007-09-28 13:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by somberll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am so insecure about myself that i dont even participate in school events like homecoming games prom ect.im always ashamed i dodge from people because i afraid of what they may think.how can i stop caring what people think.the only option for me is to fix my self into being pretty.but i cant change that.so now what? i know i cant change mentally first.

2007-09-28 13:05:48 · 2 answers · asked by yoshi_gurl08 1 in Singles & Dating