Well, i've liked this one guy for a while. He recently asked me out, and we are together in 3rd, 4th, 5th, and 6th period classes. It's come to the point where we can honestly admit that we are in love. It's just that...I can't stand being away from him now. It's like I have to see him. What do I do!!!
2007-09-28 13:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♫Wolf♫ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha ha ha--hormones. Instead of going into my usual banter about endorphins and the like, I'll just tell you what I've learned so far: even people who have been in relationships for years and years often find themselves missing each other, even when they know they'll be seeing their partners later on in the day! Even married couples who see each other every single day miss each other at times, too (although not all the time, I'm sure).
First of all, it's natural to feel this way, so don't feel embarrassed about it. And second of all, get used to it :-D Hang out with your friends, study, etcetera--give your boyfriend and yourself some space! Being together all the time gets boring after a while. Enhance your relationship by bringing in parts of your own life, too.
At least he's in the same school, so you can see him when you have class--my boyfriend is 4 hours away, and I won't see him for several months! Take that! :-D But what makes it easier for me is to talk to him via the phone and email. And then I also busy myself with my own work, too.
Hope that helps. I always ramble on... sorry!
2007-09-28 13:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how hard it is, take some time away from him. This is dangerous! You need to develop your own self and needs first and then try to add in someone else. Please don't end up like me. I have molded myself to be so insecure that my boyfriend (ex now) couldnt even watch a video with me without me getting upset about the girls on there. This can really lead you down the wrong path. Start out right!
2007-09-28 20:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by I am me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow.The aching heart when in love is a wonderful thing.Instead of not baring being away from him,try to focus on what you will feel when you next see him.If you become to obsessed you run the risk of driving him away.Enjoy the feeling of being in love and as i said,just go with the flow.Good luck.
2007-09-28 20:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by hanz2602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't be away from him, stay together with him? It's still too early for you to try a live-in relationship right now, though.
2007-09-28 20:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Wenjie Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old either of you are, but to me, this is NOT love, it seems more like two sets of glands calling to each other. See him socially and give it time to develop. If it is right, it will stand the test of time.
2007-09-28 20:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy and take ur time, spending too much time together like that only ends in breakup. be sure to give him his space, its a male requirement. im in the same situation right now. being together too much is unhealthy, absence makes the heart grow fonder. always remember that. take ur time luv, good luck
2007-09-28 20:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down! you are getting attached 2 fast try thinking about something else like your classes lol you really should try 2 distance yourself a little bit, u don't want 2 be 2 clingy
2007-09-28 20:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tyhira W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't become to obessed with him. I know how u feel. Try concentrate on other things. And when you see him make the most out of it. Hope I helped.
xoxoxo
2007-09-28 20:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by BonitaChica0626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u like or luv him he asked u out u so say yes.... u cant stand not bein wit him so be wit him...wat else wud u do???
2007-09-28 20:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...there really isn't much you can do. Just tell him how you feel, I guess.
2007-09-28 20:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋