Should I dump him?

Question

I met a guy a few weeks ago and everything was going more than great, but gradually I sensed that he wasn't really into me, (the phone calls diminished and I had to make plans). Lately Ive been a little cynical and all my friends are telling me I should give guys more of a chance,which I tried to do with this one, I would like some feedback , because tonight its either stay together or move on

Answer 1

If your not into him dont go out with him. It sounds like you have lost intrest and thats fine. This guy didnt move fast enough.

Answer 2

What are you talking about should you dump him? you never had him to dump! After a mere two weeks you think you got this guy hook line and sinker? I,d get a grip on myself if I were you, I mean you sound as if your trying to rush something that takes time, relationships dont blossom in a few weeks! I think maybe you may have scared him away, I mean if you sound controlling in your letter I cant imagine what you must be like in person, so my advise to you is to slow down, take it easy, if he wants you or, you,ll know it, guys are very forward when they want something, so if he wants you he will call you, in the meantime, find other things to keep you busy, stop trying to rush something that isnt there.

Answer 3

If you want a guy to be on you all the time then just don't have relationships. Eventually over time there is a trust that builds and a sense of connection that you don't need to be hearing from them every 5 minutes.

Answer 4

try sitting this boy/man down and asking him where this relationship is going with you two. if he still wants to be with you , you gotta let him know that you,ve been feeling quite neglected lately and how you've been putting all the effort in if not then let it go theres plently more fish in the sea theres no point of getting cut up over this one guy. men will come and go and one day you'll find the right guy for you that'll appreciate you this time it won't be you putting all the effort in it'll be a two way streak.

Answer 5

do him a favor and move on.... even if he turns out to like you and want to be with you, you are unrelentless, selfish and demanding that everything goes according to your calendar.

He's probably already felt the pressure and wants to show you he needs a little distance.... if you dump him he will be relieved. if you manage to keep it together it won't last, because you'll eventually end up going back to your old routine, not leaving him any room to breathe, then blaming him for the failures....

go look for someone more suitable...

Answer 6

well, if hes not talking to u much and he seems to be distancing himself, he may want some space. believe me, im going thru the same thing right now. try talking and suggesting some time to stretch both your guys's wings, only then may u have another chance to fly (how poetic! lol but its true) good luck

Answer 7

I think he should dump you!
Why should he always be responsible for calling you and making all the plans.
Sounds to me like your friends are right

Answer 8

Stay together is the best advice I can give--you never know what'll happen between you.

Answer 9

like they say and you said it yourself....he just isnt that into you!!! Could be him, could be you.....could be that you both dont have enough in common to hold each others interest. Why be upset about it........move on.......life does go on and you will meet someone else who you hold each others interest.......and it will happen

Answer 10

if he is still not into you, MOVE ON. Give him this one chance to prove to you why you should not move on, and move on if you still sense that he is into ONLY HIMSELF.