Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

Marriage at the age of 18....why do people condemn such decisions now-a-days?

2007-09-28 10:14:43 · 34 answers · asked by diana m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Pina Colada Lyrics

I was tired of my lady
We'd been together too long
Like a worn-out recording
Of a favorite song
So while she lay there sleeping
I read the paper in bed
And in the personal columns
There was this letter I read

"If you like Pina Coladas
And getting caught in the rain
If you're not into yoga
If you have half a brain
If you'd like making love at midnight
In the dunes on the Cape
Then I'm the love that you've looked for
Write to me and escape."

I didn't think about my lady
I know that sounds kind of mean
But me and my old lady
Have fallen into the same old dull routine
So I wrote to the paper
Took out a personal ad
And though I'm nobody's poet
I thought it wasn't half bad

"Yes I like Pina Coladas
And getting caught in the rain
I'm not much into health food
I am into champagne
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon
And cut through all this red-tape
At a bar called O'Malley's
Where we'll plan our escape."

2007-09-28 10:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

a good friend of mine is happily married but she said she always dreams of being with other men. she cant understand y she has sexual dreams about other men when she totally loves her husband and would never cheat! has anyone else have this problem?

2007-09-28 10:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been best friends for 6 long years...he hasnt had a gf for so long inspite of a lot of pretty girls dying for him...he is world to me..i cant survive without him...but he tells me he is my friend

2007-09-28 10:11:40 · 12 answers · asked by Pisces 3 in Singles & Dating

...think like this? It sounds terrible, like she doesn't even care about the husband, she just wants a donor.

I wanted to tell her, "Hey, if you are actually lucky enough to find "The One," then take your time and enjoy him!!!

2007-09-28 10:11:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If that's the case then here:

<(^___^)> hug!!!!

2007-09-28 10:09:58 · 14 answers · asked by tinybubbles 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 3 children, my mom has to know every exact detail of their entire life. She comes over everyday, tells me everything I should and shouldn't do, gets mad when it isn't her way, nad just tries to take over. When my children get in trouble at home, they tell me "I'll tell grandmaw"! It makes me so mad. I like having her around but they are my children not hers. What should I do. I don't want to hurt her feelings. She even plans vacatrions for them without asking me first and ends up getting mad because we done had other plans. Please advise.

2007-09-28 10:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by TC 2 in Family

You know, middle school you guys are all BFF and all that crap, but then you get into high school and it all f-u-c-k-e-n changes, i'm pissed at how many people are liars :( bff my a-s-s, who feels me? or who has kept their bff's

2007-09-28 10:08:38 · 1 answers · asked by torontoguy23 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have this friend.. there was this rumor going around that she was sleeping around with an older guy and it was wrong but she dose hump him and make out but yea i had to do a project the other day in social studies so i went over to her hjouse to finish it cuz it was due the next day..well ya i met her boyfriend and he is fine!!! but ya and all 3 of us did something like me and my friend kissed once but it was a peck... and i let her bf (boyfriend) suck on my nipples.i'm 13 i know bad choice bla bla i won't do it again til i'm older and ya..didn't tell my mom about that though but yea my mom and i found out some information that she my friend that she fooled around when she was younger and it got to my mom and now she won't let me hang out with her againand i realy want to hang out with her and have a friend ship and she calls every day asking if i can hang out and stuff and i say i can't but i really want to! my mom has already told me i can't ever hang out with her again help!

2007-09-28 10:08:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy said he was gonna come by my locker every day... not exactly like that, but thats the general idea.
Then, at the beginning of this week, after a week of him flirting outrageously, all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. for a week. all together. nothing.
I know that sometimes us s here will not talk to the guy they like after flirting for a while to make them completely confused and interested and intriuged (i've done it b4, and it worked)
Will guys do the same thing? And is this too long of a period? i mean, i'm so confused!!!!!!
... And if he's really doing this, it's so totally working!

2007-09-28 10:06:57 · 1 answers · asked by Meygi Leigh 3 in Singles & Dating

married for 4 years with a 3 yr old child.
I am seperated because my husband has been abusive (he never beat me, but he did get physical a few times when he was drunk, he also has done doing drugs about 5 times sinse weve been married). He was a bit controling as well. I still love him and wish our family would be healthy but it seems unrealistic.

When I tell him im going out and if he could take our daughter he flips out. He automatically thinks the worst and its annoying, i cant even enjoy myself because he will cause problems, either the next day or go act stupid with my mom (if shes babysitting). I just wish he could be civil & let me be. If he wanted our marriage to work he would concentrate on getting help for himself and not worry about every little move I make.

he is "trying" to change by going to church, but he wants me to be right there supporting him, however i am unsure if i want to get back with him.

Is it wrong that I just want to do my own thing?

2007-09-28 10:06:43 · 22 answers · asked by None 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-28 10:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by bigdaddyiowa1984 1 in Singles & Dating

for another one with a higher payment. He would have had it payed off in a little over a year. We aren't poor but far from rich I just keep getting medical bills in the mail yet he goes and gets something for his own self not for us or our baby.

2007-09-28 10:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by lucy diamond 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years. We broke up twice, but we have been together for the past three years and have been living together for two and a half years. We had a huge fight about marriage. He said we are committed already and he loves me. Also, his brother just married and my bf thinks I only want to get married because of the recent wedding. My bf complained that we don't have sex enough and we fight too much. Every week someone askes me why we are not married and now all our friends are getting married. The recent wedding and engagements are not my reasons for wanting to get married, it just prevents me from putting the already painful thought out of my mind. Before, I would just try not to think of it. Now I feel rejected and extremely sad that he doesn't want to marry me. Before I asked him, I secretly hoped he was planning the proposal. Now, it really hurts me he doesn't plan to marry me and has no forseeable plan. I resent him and I can't help but cry.

2007-09-28 10:01:45 · 29 answers · asked by plsq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my house we don't have a home phone all we have is my mom's cell phone because we share our house with other people. My best friend keeps calling me and then my mom gets mad because we keep running out of minutes because she talks a lot with me on the phone. I want to ask her if she can please call me a little less but I don't want to be rude. What can I do?

2007-09-28 10:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we r in spanish class together.yesterday she gave me a piece of butterfinger.and she smiled at me twic yesterday.now today she smiled at me twice like she was happy to see me.also we saw each other and she waved and smiled to.she is trying to get my attention or not? are these signs that she likes me or not?also i asked if she wanted to know me and she said sure.

2007-09-28 09:58:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married for about five years.My problem is my husband receiver rather than giver,Sometimes it annoys me ,especially in case of oral sex he is receiving it but i dont .I want him to do it as well.I dont know why he is not doing it.I think i am guite pretty and clean I mean in hygienic way but i dont know what is a problem or how i can solve it? Are there any males who are not doing it if yes then why?

2007-09-28 09:53:54 · 18 answers · asked by lovebird 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm deeply inlove with my boyfriend i could see me and him getting married. He's worried that he's going to lose me , what do i say to him to make him stop thinking that ??? Please help

2007-09-28 09:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 09:52:34 · 1 answers · asked by faker_7obna 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex fiance and i have a 3 month old baby boy. we have broken up and im trying to decide what to do about him with visitation of James.
my ex drinks alot of alcohol, people he lives with friends etc are into drugs he has not held james 5 times since hes been born he wont even play with him or feed a bottle? he has a very bad temper and i know if he got custody james would not be taken care of. and i cant bare the thought of being away from my child.i even have one picture of him really drunk.. what would you do? please help

2007-09-28 09:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by missyjai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that sounds very weird haha. okay let me explain, my boyfriend is 16 im only 14. dont tell me about an age difference im looking for actual answers..we kiss a lot and when we're at his hous eon his bed just laying there kissing he'll be like "god im so horny i'm gonna have to go into another room in like a minute" and he'll ask if i'm horny and i never am! he kisses my stomach, breasts and everything. he's even went 'down there' before like fingering and none of this makes me horny!!! i know hes trying to get me horny he'll tickle me and do other stuff like kissing my stomach and legs it just tickles a lot and i laugh, ughhh. i actually wanna have sex with him,but i think i should get horny or SOMETHING before doing all of that.. i really don't get it..i know i'm attracted to him, i just don't get why he's always so flipping horny and i never am i really wish i could get horny when i'm with him it would be amazing..pleaaaase help me and why am i so damn tickleish??

2007-09-28 09:51:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter came home from being trown out by her soon to be ex husband. she doesnt do drugs or anything like that. she has two part time jobs. While I respect my sil wanting to be in charge. zBut i am supposed to leave work to take my daughter to work. I am suposed to pay for her dental and cell and all of that. my sil makes 3 times what i do and who knows how much more than my daughter. She just has to have everything her way.. She even says that soon she will retire and it will be ok because her brother and I can move in with her to help her pay her bills. I am not going to do that. She is just so demanding. She thinks that she runs the family when in fact we try to avoid her as much as possible. she is 60 never been married and has no children but she does have four dogs that have the run of the house. my daughter cleans up the pee and poop every day and the house just stinks. Bujt, she expects my daughter to pay for all the take out. they dont cook . my SIL ismybos

2007-09-28 09:50:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I notice Canadian women are better looking, cleaner, and more physically fit than American women. Why is this?

2007-09-28 09:48:55 · 18 answers · asked by Warren Peace 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me tell some things about him:
-He is jealous of me for having more friends than him, and he is VERY insecure about it. I would like to add that he has social anxiety, but he doesn't agree with it.
-He calls me stupid when he gets C's, D's, and F's while i get A's,B's, and rarely C's.
- I know its normal, but he is really really annoying. He calls me immature because i watch Manga/Anime.
-He also hugs me, and he knows that i hate it and does it no matter what i do. I've been ignoring it all these and he still does it.
-He is a spoiled brat- he whines when he doesn't get his way, and hes 15 ALMOST 16! My parents have spoiled him.. He doesn't understand the value of money.
- He gets rough with me and hes bigger than me and hes fat, I'm a couple years younger than him, and if i don't do anything he tells me too he gets a bit physical.
And the final thing is that he is sexist. Like today he said "Your like all younger sisters, below my level." Something like that.
Any Advice?

2007-09-28 09:47:18 · 4 answers · asked by Mizunushi 2 in Family

i love my parents soo much but lately they are getting on my nerves..they don't care what i have to say and im thinking of running away if uve ran away b4...how dose it feel?

2007-09-28 09:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

most of the time i just say it without noticing or catching myself...like "lets go to the store buddy.." or "where you going buddy"

just things like that...do i have a problem??

2007-09-28 09:40:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 09:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for over a yr. he has had MANY financial and legal troubles that i have bailed him out on because i have always been level-headed, successful & saved all my money rather than throwing it away on partying. he has done a complete 180 and we are truly in love.

we have officially discussed marriage and plan to get married next yr. we rarely fight unless it's major issues like his financial messes that i clean up (i am out nearly 10k). i have no major financial or mental problems that cause us problems.

BUT when iiii have some small issue or want to openly communicate a problem before it becomes a prob. he always gets defensive & it turns into an argument. for the past yr, if we ever fight because of me, it's because he never hears me out. he always calls my probs. small and not worth discussion (because he has had SUCH BIG PRobs in his life).

yes he doesn't drink, do drugs, cheat, has a good heart, would be a wonderful husband & father except if this is going

2007-09-28 09:39:57 · 23 answers · asked by gaiam0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

skivies? He said he just wanted a pair so that when im not around he has something that's mine. Is this normal. He's the only man ive slept with and i dont going whoring around....so dont assume he's just a player and im just looking for some action. We've been together for almost 9 months. We've never cheated on each other or cheated on anybody we've been with before. Honestly he's a really genuine guy to me and i love him dearly. I just didn't know if all boyfriend take a pair of their girlfriend thongs....

And he's not wearing them.

2007-09-28 09:38:35 · 26 answers · asked by Lauren A 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone was talking about me and assumed me and my husband would be divorced by now.

What is up with that? My husband and I are great and any problems we go through are no one elses business.

2007-09-28 09:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce