How can I deal with my brother?

Question

Let me tell some things about him:
-He is jealous of me for having more friends than him, and he is VERY insecure about it. I would like to add that he has social anxiety, but he doesn't agree with it.
-He calls me stupid when he gets C's, D's, and F's while i get A's,B's, and rarely C's.
- I know its normal, but he is really really annoying. He calls me immature because i watch Manga/Anime.
-He also hugs me, and he knows that i hate it and does it no matter what i do. I've been ignoring it all these and he still does it.
-He is a spoiled brat- he whines when he doesn't get his way, and hes 15 ALMOST 16! My parents have spoiled him.. He doesn't understand the value of money.
- He gets rough with me and hes bigger than me and hes fat, I'm a couple years younger than him, and if i don't do anything he tells me too he gets a bit physical.
And the final thing is that he is sexist. Like today he said "Your like all younger sisters, below my level." Something like that.
Any Advice?

Please don't say "just ignore it, it'll go away"
Been there done that.

Answer 1

To answer your question.....let me tell you about my brother.
He's lived on the street many times.
He's addicted to cocaine and has overdose 3 times, and narrowly made it through.
There's nothing I can do to help, and basically I'm waiting for that phone call to say he's overdosed again and DIDN:T make it.
Now how does your problem sound now?
Love your brother while you still have him.

Answer 2

The first step is talking to your parents and letting them know that this isn't just regular sibling rivalry and how very upset you are about it. It should be their place to get your brother into check.
It sounds like you hit the nail on the head. Your brother is jealous of you and that is why he does allot of the things he does. Also he does things because it gets to you. As hard as it is, act like you don't care. No matter how mad or upset you feel inside. If he doesn't get what he wants which is conflict or you being upset, eventually he will quit.
Lastly, avoid him when you can especially when he is on the war path, report cards came out, or other things that set him off.

Answer 3

Why don't you try reverse psychology? Why don't you try being super nice to him at least for a week to see how he acts. My brother is like that too...well not totally but he is spoiled and he's 17 which is really pathetic, that I'm sorry to tell you won't change, unless something major happens in their life. My brother I think will never change. He's too self involved in his own little world.

Answer 4

You HAVE TO ignore him... otherwise what are you going to do? Can't murder him or lock him in the attic.

Realize that siblings torment each other regularly.

And if all else fails ask your parents to please help you with this issue.