we have been best friends for 6 long years...he hasnt had a gf for so long inspite of a lot of pretty girls dying for him...he is world to me..i cant survive without him...but he tells me he is my friend
2007-09-28 10:11:40 · 12 answers · asked by Pisces 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not a gay.he has big ideas of his gf about which he always talks
2007-09-28 10:15:11 · update #1
he has never given me insecure feeling by getting close with another girl
2007-09-28 10:16:00 · update #2
he is the best that can happen to any girl..im so lucky to know him
2007-09-28 10:18:05 · update #3
Maybe he just doesn't want to feel like you might think he doesn't respect you if he really wants to touch you. If you are friends then he might not know if you truly are wise enough to separate the different aspects of your love.
There is the friendship, the caring, the sensuality, and the body clock. Each of these are separate and none may be realized if you don't open your mouth and just ask why.
He might be dying to touch you afraid that you'll call him a perv or doesn't trust you to understand his separate needs.
2007-09-28 10:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Rothwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes confused and going through a rough time. He doesnt know whether he wants you as a gf or friend. give him time.
Besides having a friend for that long these days is hard. do you really want to risk that friendship to start dating him, then realize that it might not work, then losing him as a bf and friend.
Hope it all works out well.
2007-09-28 10:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mom_of_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be quite honest with you, I was recently in this same situation, the woman I was with was attractive(except for chewing with he mouth opened), and very nice, but I was just not attracted to her, she is like 5-2 and I'm 6-4 and a half. I like her as a person, but i was not physically attracted to her at all. So, the guy is probably just not interested.
2007-09-28 10:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is confused and just trying to date you as a friend for companionship. It is hard to believe that after six years, he hasn't attempted to get with you, if I'm reading your history correctly. If he hasn't, why not just remain friends and leave it at that? One can't create romantic love out of friendship.
2007-09-28 10:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Desert Sienna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he values your friendship too much to take it further.
OR
maybe he respects you and likes you. if so, perhaps he doesn't think that mauling you on a first date is the right thing to do.
if you like this guy and want to try a relationship, then you need to talk to him about it. he can't read your mind, so he might not know you are interested.
2007-09-28 10:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just friends... for that long of time... ?? I wouldnt be trying for anything more. A friendship like that is hard to come by now a days...
2007-09-28 10:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by LiLmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably values you too much as a friend to ruin that friendship by dating.
2007-09-28 10:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Petunia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he probably Really likes you but may be scared of losing what you have and doesnt want to move too fast. Be pacient, he may surprise you.
2007-09-28 10:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt want a girlfirend right now... or he likes you but doenst want to ruin it? i mean caues you knwo yoru really close and all
2007-09-28 10:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by bekahhbabyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might feel more comfortable being your friend.
2007-09-28 10:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋