Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

in march my partner and i went through a very rough patch he lost his sister we separeted and he went wiv this other gal for a while (because she was just there apparently) we now are slowly makeing up we got two children and been together for five yrs do i try again witrh him or not?

2007-09-24 23:58:58 · 20 answers · asked by welshgal 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there are these 2 girls, and we were all new last year. the 3 of us. and we were all sort of bitchy to everyone in our classes, (bad move, of course) and now i stopped being friends with them before summer started. they wanted to annoy me for dissing them, so they prank called me like, 3000 times, until i started ignoring them instead of answering and coming up with alot better comebacks than theirs. now, one of them, is in all of my classes save for 2. the other one is in 3 or 4. it's really annoying, and i really just want to stop hating them, because it's alot harder to do than like someone, but they don't seem to be making any move towards trying to be nicer. any ideas on what to do? and if you suggest talking to them about it or being polite in the hallways, ill cybersmack you. i've already thought of that, it doesnt work.

2007-09-24 23:54:09 · 2 answers · asked by ♥LittleMissKnowItAll♥ 2 in Friends

This is in the state of colorado. Do I simply refile the financial affadavit to reflect the increase? How often can this be done in a year?

2007-09-24 23:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by oythebumbler 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner's grandmother is in her eighties and really spiteful. I have never met her.

She hates me (although she's never met me) because I am 11 years old than him. When we met all she did was tell him to dump me, I was too old for him I was a bad influence blah de blah.

She was furious when he did not do as he was told and kept sending him letters referring to me as "that person" and "that woman" and urging him to get rid of me and get a girlfriend of his own age. He begged her to accept his choice of girlfriend and to meet me and give me a chance and she refused. "That woman will never cross my door" she declared.

When she was told I was pregnant she went ballistic and apparently said "I hope she loses it".

When our son was born she was furious (as she was hoping I would lose the baby) and declared she would have nothing to do with him or me.

So our son is 10 months old now and has never seen her. I find it very hurtful. Why is she like this?

2007-09-24 23:52:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-09-24 23:47:23 · 14 answers · asked by sass24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am soon going to get divorced and to take my mind off it i have joined a hobby class where this married girl of my same age (late 20s) also comes. Last week she asked me to drop her somewhere and i did (i give lift to many people in my class), while getting off from my car she asked me to come to her place sometime for coffee and i told her i will. Everything seems fine till here.

The problem is i often find her taunting or laughing at me, staring at me then looking away etc in the class that makes me feel uncomfortable. Now she has asked me 3 times before on similar occasions to come to her house for coffee (i guess in her husband's presence).

Now, should i accept her invitation to seem polite or just ignore it? At the same time was she just being polite to me for dropping her or am i reading too much?

2007-09-24 23:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by protege 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We talked off and on for 3 years.. and I got a letter from Iraq, saying that this couldnt possibly work out.. I really just dont know where to go from here..
Please.. only answer if you're sensible and serious..
Thank you..

Brittany

2007-09-24 23:39:28 · 20 answers · asked by Brittany C 2 in Singles & Dating

We work together as decorators and he has just been on a nice holiday to Portugal problem is that he has spent my wages from the last job we did.
This unfortunately means that I cannot feed the kids,pay the rent and travel to work to earn some cash. Talk about up the creak without a paddle.

2007-09-24 23:36:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-24 23:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by kj 1 in Singles & Dating

It finally all makes sense now, I never looked at it this way before: MENtall illness, MENstraul cramps, MENtal breakdown MENopause, GUYnocologist and when we have real trouble it's a HISterectomy. Ever notice how all these womens problems start with MEN.

2007-09-24 23:32:13 · 31 answers · asked by wondergirl 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, maybe you don't realize that you're presenting yourself as a sexual object. Yeah, you have the right to *Flaunt It* and ALL men have the right to look. You can't decide who can look at you but you can control what they think by controling what they see. If you don't want so much attention to yourself, tone yourselves down instead of making yourselves up.

2007-09-24 23:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Polls and surveys

2007-09-24 23:27:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, where do i start...

My step-dad sexually harrases me,
My mom always yells at me,
My real dad wants to take me away,
i have a cyber boyfriend, and i think i am in love,
I'm only 13,
Some of my freinds hate me, and i don't know why,
HELP ME!!!! I have no idea what to do!

2007-09-24 23:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by RockstarHippie(: 1 in Family

Let the ones you love go and if they return they are meant to be yours if they do not return they were never really yours to start with.

Please if you can also give reasons why you beleive this ie; this has happened to you etc.........

2007-09-24 23:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think? I'm in love with a woman whose completly amazing. I want to give her everything i've got but the fact that she's having another mans child worries me. Not so much the child but the part where the ex is still very much trying to be with her. I know that she wouldn't cheat on me, but I still don't like or trust him. I dont want my girl to think that I dont trust her, and I definately dont want to lose her. I want to marry her.

2007-09-24 23:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was going to thailand with his friends family for a hoilday l asked him if l could go and he said he`d love me to go with him.but his friend booked up the tickets and he said there wasnt enough tickets for me to come. l was upset by this.and the next day my boyfriend booked up an extra ticket for me. But then he seemed down saying that l dont trust him,to go by him self. but l do trust him,how can l proof this to him. l wanted to go to thailand cause l thought it would be a once in a lifetime chance,and l wanted to share it with him.
so why does he think l dont trust him,when he said that he`d love me to come?

2007-09-24 23:15:19 · 10 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father expect too much from me. She doesn't know the meaning of life nor my father and brother. My brother says: ''It would be better if your dad kills you and i should rest in peace, you haven't had a taste of my father's punches." They constantly find fault with me, overexpecting and demanding.

2007-09-24 23:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1 in Family

i really like this guy, hes older than me (im 18, hes 22). i just think he is firstly the hottest thing eva, but we also get on well. i dont know how he feels, but there is a possibility he could like me too. we are both goin to this party on the weekend, and so i hav decided im goin to tell him my feelings, but i just want some advice on how to go about it cos im heaps scared of being rejected and looking like a real idiot. i really want something to happen, so how do i go about telling him i like him??

2007-09-24 23:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is internet an advantage or a disadvantage...why? please do answer... and expand you answer i need it for my extempo speech tomorrow

2007-09-24 23:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 23:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and am i ever going to love him truly ever again?

2007-09-24 22:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they both are cute

she told me she talked to her mom about it and she wanted to do it!!!

2007-09-24 22:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 22:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

& that your "friends" are so because they either feel sorry for you, or know that your a good person even though they can't stand you much?
When I talk to people, they always seem to be the ones to get up & walk away after a few minutes.
I know I have psychological issues about it cos as a child, if I met a new friend, my mother always told me not to worry if they didn't end up liking me, or that they were probably just using me for some reason. I know she did that cos she felt she was protecting me but it has left a lasting impression where I find it difficult to believe that anyone really likes me.
The problem is, although I know that, it still always looks like people want to get away from me, end a conversation early, or look like they are just humouring me because they think it's rude to just leave prematurely.
Everyone has a "friend" who is irratating who you want to avoid...could I be one of those people?

2007-09-24 22:53:28 · 24 answers · asked by Meeeee! 5 in Friends

is virginity important to all of female ?

2007-09-24 22:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by reygan v 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just found out that while we were broken up (during one of the many) 3 months ago I had sex with someone, they wanted a relationship but I didn't. It was just sex. Where as just 2 weeks ago he was totally "in love" with a chick he met online, saying "I'll love you forever, you make me happy!" and he was going to move to Japan to be with her..

To me its easier to have a one night stand than to tell someone "I love you"..Because I mean it when I do, it was a mistake on my half and I thought I already told him but I guess not! He flipped out and demanded I gave him a ride home or he'll walk (this is at 4:30am at my parents house for the night to add..) He ended up walking.
He said I lied to him, but I never did I thought he knew, and when just now I realized he didn't know I feel so bad..I wanted to explain to him but he threw it in my face how "easy" I am. But yet he can so easily say those words to any person? ONLINE? he's never met?
Whats your opinion?
What do i do?

2007-09-24 22:46:36 · 16 answers · asked by rainbowsandhell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 22:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this girl (very social condfident) for a few months already, not sure if she likes me or not but her behavior is a little odd to me.When we meet our conversation is good but she feels as though i'm hiding something like i'm not sharing everything bout my life. We normally call each other to go to the gym to play basketball, have dinner afterwards. I've never gone out with her to a bar when she's invited me because it's just not my type of setting. But she wants to observe me in different settings other than at the gym. One of the things that kind of scares me in a way is that she analyzes me and makes me feel like crap about certain things (i.e., small complaints, she feels our conversation is redundant and wants to talk about something else and wants more input from me). She feels as though our relationship is stagnant and has not gone anywhere.I can't read her but what are her intentions, why does she put effort into observing me and being straightfrwrd bout it

2007-09-24 22:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and I were talking about weddings and for some reason this came up. She was telling me that when one of my aunts was getting married she bought her wedding dress, left it at the store for alterations or something, but when she came to pick it up she noticed someone was trying it on. She's very vocal and made it known she was mad. How would you feel if that was your dress?

2007-09-24 22:34:44 · 25 answers · asked by Mekana 5 in Weddings

2007-09-24 22:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating