Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and then have been officially together for abit more then a month. I'm only 16 and he is 19 but i think i love him, i have said i love you to one other guy who i did care alot about but this is different, i like him more then i have ever liked anyone before and miss him whenever im not with or talking to him.
We were talking about our feelings and stuff when we had been dating for about 2 weeks and i think he almost said it but then i was like it takes me alot to say it. Should i say it now because i think i do!!!
Here are the ways i was thinking of saying it...
Whispering it in his ear whilst hugging
Before or after sex
In a note left in his car
Through email
Over the phone
By sending him a love song, if so any ideas
Which of those do you think would be the best??? Any other ideas? or adivce?
THANKS xo

2007-09-24 17:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is that word? Let's keep this clean, please.

2007-09-24 17:50:19 · 25 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

If you overheard someone say "I'd hit that."

2007-09-24 17:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl that's 5'2,medium to small build, cute face. Are these measurements attractive? 34 24 34?

2007-09-24 17:48:43 · 6 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

we're good friends and he calls me more than he calls her just to talk..when he comes over to my place we always end up sleeping together..he is the one who initiates..i cant resist him because he's very charming and he says nice things to me..i also thought that he might still have feelings for me..im still not over him

2007-09-24 17:46:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have alot of "friends"...but I can count on one hand the amount of them that I can call my "true friend"...someone who is always there for me, and have my best interest at heart...and likes some of the many things that I do...but I don't really know how to befriend a girl...without them thinking...I'm gay!!! (yikes) so I was wondering if It would be weird to just send a girl a friendly message...saying "we should hang out"..or whatever...what do you think ladies??

2007-09-24 17:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by modelmaterial_86 1 in Friends

My mother remarried this male 20 years older then herself. He has kids but they are a lot older then my brother or myself. They have been married for 8 years. For the time I lived at home we were consistently abused!!!!! I was the main target because I was older, I was always told how useless I was and how I couldn’t do anything, but my mother would always tell us we should just take it and be quiet. Never to stand up for ourselves. But I soon realized I had to get out, so I did. I’ve been out for 3 months. And now he’s started on my little brother of only 13. Fine pick on me, I can take it and get out. He can’t. My mother has to make sure she gets home when my brother does so to make sure her husband doesn’t verbally abuse him. PLEASE HELP ME AND MY BROTHER I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I NEED TO GET HIM OUT, BUT I CANT AFFORD FOR HIM TO LIVE WITH ME!!!! PLEASE!!!!

2007-09-24 17:46:23 · 14 answers · asked by Citrus 2 in Family

THe guy I liked told me that at homecoming I better dance with him, and that since Im still getting into the swing of grinding that hes gonna help teach me.
How can he teach me without it being really awkward and me looking like an idiot. Because Im gonna be so close into him, while hes talking trying to teach me, I dont want it to be awkward with me just standing against him. So how can I go there knowing somewhat how to grind so that as soon as the music starts I can atleast grind a little.
Please help.
THanks.

2007-09-24 17:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old, i have two kids ages 3 and 10 months. I really do not feel that I want any more children I love the fact that I had a boy then a girl and I get to spoil them individually. I've got plans to go to school and buy a house open my own beauty salon a few years from now. I really dont see where I'd even want to have another baby in the middle of this. Dont get me wrong I love having my kids, but two is plenty in a world that costs this much & requires so much work to make money to survive. Are there men that want to be with someone who has kids & wants no more or should I possibly keep my thoughts open to having another child to satisfy a future husband's want for one "of his own"?
I dont know of anyone thats ever been in this situation.
Thanks!

2007-09-24 17:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are ladies more attracted to you if you posess that dangerous risky edge? And what is the best cologne to wear if you are in fact, polite and wimpy, but want to exude that "man of danger"
edge? In short...are the AXE commercials true?
Signed,
Could be looking for love in all the wrong places soon.

2007-09-24 17:44:35 · 10 answers · asked by Monsieur Recital Vinyliste 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been working at this a country club for 3 years now (I hate the place) and this girl just started like 2 weeks ago. Well one day she was walking around me and grabbed my *** out of no were. Then she did it again. She told me that she has pervert hand. Then she asked me if I smoked anything. Then asked me if I had any nicknames. Well I told her the one everyone in my family calls me. Now when ever someone said something to her referring to me she said my nickname instaid of my name.

So I am not sure if she likes me or not. Also if she has a bf. I am 18 and she is like 21 I think, but I will not ask for her age. So how do I know if she likes me???
thanks
Coop

2007-09-24 17:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by Coop 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 17:38:06 · 22 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

have known this girl for 12 years since she was 4. I am best friends with her 2 older brothers who are my age. now i am 23 and she is 16. one night i go to a party and a coworks place, my co worker is gay and doesnt hide it. before the party he tells me he is bringing his "boy toy", his words. and that i should keep the gay joke to a minamun not to scare his newly turned gay friend straight. This is when it gets good. As i walk in the door i see my frineds ex. he being the only non co worker there me is the boy toy. as the night went on he started talking to me and asked that i dont tell her older brother. and i reply to that with "he isnt the one you have to worry about he isnt a fight if you hurt her i am the one who will kick your as s". he left the party after that. at the party i asked my coworker if he did anything with him he said no. a couple months later he tells me he did and that he seen the ex at a local gay bar getting "hot" on the dance floor. since it was a gay club it

2007-09-24 17:36:40 · 5 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

Are in a resturaunt or a bar by themselves? With no friends but just there on a weekend trying to have fun? I mean I saw this kid do it the other day and I kind of felt bad. I wanted to invite him over to sit with my one friend and me but I don't know who he is so that's why I didn't do it.

2007-09-24 17:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My hubby is a teacher. I haven't worried much about him straying b/c I've seen where he works and it is mostly older women or women who are married. And also his grade level has several men for him to talk to.

But he has an intern this year. Dummy me, I assumed it was going to be a guy. But it is a girl in grad school. I know they spend alot of time together working with the kids. That in itself bothers me; her being in his room ,etc.

Well last night he was emailing her from home. She had sent him an email (why is she using his personal email and not his work email? Why did he give it to her?) and he was clearly smiling about it; she was jabbing him about the football game/ apparently she is a sports freak (so is my hubby) and they like rival teams.

I used his password and checked his mail ro read it all. I feel like I am invading his privacy, but I am picking up on flirting on both sides! I don't want him flirting or getting close with her. Should I worry?

2007-09-24 17:30:17 · 21 answers · asked by righton 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 17:29:45 · 4 answers · asked by cheli_luvr24 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and I had a baby together and we filed for a marriage license in South Carolina(i live in california). We never picked the marriage license up from the courthouse. I want to know if we are married? Or married by law?

2007-09-24 17:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 17:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Carla B 2 in Family

In my past posts I felt that weddings were very expensive and over the top but I think why God and people celebrate weddings is to introduce the couple into the threshold of husband and wife.

The wedding is for one day the marriage is for the rest of your life. Marraige is hard and how you feel at the altar is not how a person feels 10 years into the relationship feeling taking for granted and not appreciate I have been there

Being I said all this do you view weddings as a party, a sacred ceremony, or a spirirtual connection bewteen the couple and God? Do you regret having or not having a wedding?

2007-09-24 17:26:16 · 18 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Weddings

Ok i had sex with my ex girlfriend today, and i have a Gf and she has a boyfriend, It was weird but she said that it didnt mean anything but i dont know how i feel. Should i tell my GF idk no what to do i dont even no how it happend omg help

2007-09-24 17:25:51 · 18 answers · asked by Andrew V 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf and i had sex for the 1st time yesterday and afterward she was breathing rele hard and deep, not in a bad way but we were cuddling afterward and she was breathing hard through her nose and such, y was this? is that good or bad, she was also rele tired after wards

2007-09-24 17:24:13 · 9 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

My most of my close-knit friends started acting kinda fony towards me for no reason. Now, one of them got mad at me for not selling them a ticket to a show, and now they're all freezing me out. They got 2gether over da weekend and took pics, put 'em online, and when I got to school 2day, they all still ignored me and the ones that would say something to me acted like that didn't even happen. Why is she so mad over a ticket that she did'n't pay for or have to drive around the city to find?! This isn't fair nor right. I got a job and PLENTY of other friends but it still hurts they're doing this to me. How do I deal?

2007-09-24 17:23:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it because you really like them?
Would you ever stare at a girl who you're not interested in at all?

2007-09-24 17:22:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

over a year are you by law legally married to that person again?

2007-09-24 17:13:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need suggestions. If you when in a long distance relationship and you did see the person several times a year. But the last their way home they said. Don't worry about over there because what's over there will stay there. when he returns home he said he would coming back alone. Lately the calls and texts are now once a day. before four to five a day. And also the last time home received several text messages very late night. Is this becoming a waste of time.

2007-09-24 17:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was talking to a friend, and we were remembering some truth or dare highlights from our past.

So I was wondering, what are your favorite, funniest, sexiest memories from Truth or Dare.

2007-09-24 17:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Such a long story. I will try to make it short.
I have 2 little sisters. Our Mom died 7 yrs ago. My sisters were 16 and 18 at the time.
Now, they are 25 and 26.
My 26 yr old sister and her husband and 2 stinking dogs have moved 7 hrs from home and moved in with us.
My Brother-in-law worked 5 days at a Car sales place that my husband got him. Well, no $$ so he quit. Since then has not even picked the phone up to ask about another job. My husband has asked him several times to ride with him during the day and meet some of the clients my husband works for, maybe find a job. My BIL always says no.
So, 2 weeks no job and no interviews.
Everytime I inquire to my lil sister about what they are doing, she picks up and leaves the room with no response what-so ever.
Now, My other little sister and her 2 year old is moving down here tomorrow. Cause, she has no sitter for her 2 year old, now that my other sister has moved.
So, here they all are , no-one is working but my husband.

2007-09-24 17:07:53 · 7 answers · asked by stacie m 4 in Family

three hours away. My company is providing a rental car, room etc. He is going to go up to KC in his own car and wants to take our two children to an amusement park. He asked me if I would take my own car and he would pay me all my mileage if I would return on Sunday with our two children so he could then go on and drive an additional two hours to see his girlfriend. I don't know why but this really irritated me because I felt like this was my weekend to concentrate on my professional development and the thought of going to my boss and telling her I didn't need the car because my ex was going to take care of everything. Am I wrong to feel irritated about this? Should I do him a favor? I just felt like he was infringing upon my time when he agreed to keep the kids. If it was for any other reason, example if he had a business trip etc. I just can't bring myself to work with him on this merely because it is for selfish reasons on his part...am I wrong???

2007-09-24 17:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I go maybe a week without thinking about it, but then it's all I can think about for a long time, even having sex doesn't appease my appitite for it. I look at men and wonder how they would be all the time, even though I'm in a commited relationship. When we have sex it's great and it satifies me that night, but the next morning I wake up and it's all I can think about. I am 27. Is this normal?

2007-09-24 17:04:43 · 23 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find cute ways to say thank you to co-workers. Such as “your a lifesaver" with candy lifesavers. I am a teacher and we are trying to keep up morale. Do you have any ideas or good websites? Thanks!

2007-09-24 17:02:26 · 1 answers · asked by jsprite 3 in Other - Family & Relationships