Are in a resturaunt or a bar by themselves? With no friends but just there on a weekend trying to have fun? I mean I saw this kid do it the other day and I kind of felt bad. I wanted to invite him over to sit with my one friend and me but I don't know who he is so that's why I didn't do it.
2007-09-24 17:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Asking him to join you would have been great. You were in a public place so it should have been safe. You could have made a new friend. When the kids go back to school in the fall I go out shopping and have lunch all by myself and I love it. It is the only time that I dine alone.
2007-09-24 17:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many times I've wondered why a person is sitting at a table by themselves. I often wonder if they're just going thru town & stopped by for some place to catch a bite to eat. Or maybe they're a traveling sales person who are use to doing things like that & don't even give it second thought. And in this day & age, you're better off just keeping your distance 'cause you never know who they are or what they're up to. Better just to leave well enuf alone & play it safe all around. Sad it has to be that way, but it does anymore.
2007-09-25 00:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they got in a fight with the lady and wanted to get out of the house, maybe they just got off work and wanted to have a few beers before going home. Dont assume just because someone is at a bar alone means they have no friends. They could be choosing to be alone.
2007-09-25 00:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by ericde23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes I go out to eat or grab a coffee by myself. It's nice to just have time to yourself.
He could have gotten in a fight with a friend or loved one and just need some alone time to think...
I think it's really kind of you to notice that he may have been in need of a friend and thought about inviting him over. If he was alone because he doesn't have friends it may have made his day.
But he may have been alone on his own accord.
2007-09-25 00:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel bad for them. I also have a personal rule to never go to a movie alone . But, as a single person and only child, I have no problem eating alone.
2007-09-25 00:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by P-funk baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do feel sorry for them. I have often been home by myself with nothing to do but never had the nerve to go to a bar or restaurant by myself.
2007-09-25 01:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........................
yeah..i feel sorry,
when i am really out of it, for anyone. I smile so others won't feel bad to see a frown, feel bad for ....anything..pain is not contained inside one person..if it is let out around at all...some suck it in fast and feel it...and it hurts. I don't know if it hurts as much or more..but it hurts.
it's good to be able to feel for others...it shows you have a heart...just don't have any accidents with it, a heart is hard to heal, and it changes everything about you if it ceases to beat, and yet you live on..
it may fix some with time, but ...some are not able to ...be okay that..they failed someone else, or to have a trust b........gah......
no...
I..sh..
it wasn't her fault..
damn it.
sorry.......I.....
not tonight.
yes.. I do.
yes I have.
yes I am.
All I really know how to do anymore with a constent rate.
hurt for others ....... a,d............ I....... no....... stop it........stop........
I'm sorry.
I...no.... . . . .
...........
Don't hurt.
smile, and it heals those who hurt for you, die, and they are already dead before you close your own eyes, love is so dangorus.........it's beautiful, and wonderful, love of friends..of family...love can be for many..different shapes of it...all..make your heart a ...ripe target for agony passed any other that can be known..or if any goes passed it...then death would follow.
Love ...don't...refuse to ..to trust enough to love someone..but........d..don't...don't learn about life from life.
life.....has ......a ..an array of weapons, and pain...this is it's greatest.,. I would rather be paralized then ..............let.......have...aaaalkas...................
don't be foolish....
don't hurt...
don't die..........
don't ........leave me alone.
no!
a.ad
no....give...give....save...help...live......wait....hide...run....stand....stand again...in the day. Night..night is not a good time, with ..what ..I'm sorry, I...I'm not..like this...I am not...helpless, but...don't get hurt, ...the hurt can come back, but you learn a very large amount from that kind of life..not falsehoods, like that no one can be trusted, this is false...you learn...how to ....come back. How to help others ....live. What ...you can do, why things happen, why fights occer and friends break up, how it could have been avoided, how to speak of hard things...how to tell another you don't, and can't make yourself, love them like they love you..without hurting them...like this..that..how to ...hold your ideils while being kind..how to ...not heed the masses daring, poking, prodding, dragging, saying things...to get you to be like them, to do something you know leads to another misery...because...you have had it's ....greater brother. you..learn. If you try, if you see..if you stand...however shaky..if your ideals demand it, then you rise back to them, even if it feels like death would be bliss......then you learn.
and you know what one kind of pain is.
be well.
I don't ..feel like this always, ..so don't worry...
if you would,. just...a..line of events...that will leave..enough...to be okay..about it tomarrow..
Reft..........~
2007-09-25 01:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Reft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel somewhat bad for those people, but some people like to be all by themselves sometime, to think and that type of stuff. Sometimes it's nice to go out by yourself. It makes you reflect on your life.
2007-09-25 00:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Claudia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I go to burger king by myself to get my thinking done. But what you're saying is different and I kinda do feel bad but not all the time. ?
2007-09-25 00:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Some girl there. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy eating out alone on occassion. I have also dined with strangers.
You can certainly reach out. All the other person can do is say "no thank you" or "yes please".
2007-09-25 00:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by zeebarista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋